posted February 02, 2018 11:04 AM            

He still keeps in contact with me, but not at the same frequency. And When I asked him out again, he seemed interested, but when he found out it didn't fit into his schedule he never offered to reschedule. He is very hot and cold with me, and he also won't tell me how he feels, which I think is very Scorpio like, but I've never experienced that before and it's very frustrating.

I know we are attracted to each other, but is that it? Does he feel anything else for me, or is it a lost cause? He won't communicate anything he doesn't want to (especially his feelings), but when I was with him in person I felt very intune, loved, and safe. So I'm at my wits end (and probably my Tarot cards too) trying to figure him out. Any help would be much appreciated!

Here is our synastry:

Here is our composite:

Here is his natal:

posted February 02, 2018 03:41 PM            

basically he is a lair.
the Saturn/Neptune midpoint is conjunct the node and square to nessus. Saturn/Neptune show insincerely , deception and with nessus square he only cares about himself and will say or do anything to get his way. this is why he has trued you off.... you confronted him and now he wants nothing to do with you ad you aren't one of his sheep.

the mars/Venus midpoint is also conjunct the node so ,there is a strong emotional /sexual interest. with mercury conjunct to venus, before you stood up for your self , it seems that everything was laughter and openness.
but with nessus square the venus/mars Neptune his is actually looking for a person he can control and abuse.

pluto is square to chiron and the midpoint is
square mercury and venus. this square is very domineering and selfish and with the midpoint square to venus and mercury, he was just biding his time to put fetters on you. this aspect is why he has put you off since you stood u to hum. he is looking for someone pliant to this likely perverse desires.

you need to walk away and don't look back, but this is difficult because the Saturn/Neptune /node gives him the aura of a "magician". this aspect can mold others minds and emotions. coupled with the mars.venus midpoint, he was intent of controlling you through sexuality also.

you have fallen into his mental trap and I assume he is playing waiting game, waiting for you to apologize and accept his control over you so that you can immerse yourself in his magical/sexual aura.

posted February 05, 2018 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi mergoatsun

basically he is a lair.
the Saturn/Neptune midpoint is conjunct the node and square to nessus. Saturn/Neptune show insincerely , deception and with nessus square he only cares about himself and will say or do anything to get his way. this is why he has trued you off.... you confronted him and now he wants nothing to do with you ad you aren't one of his sheep.

the mars/Venus midpoint is also conjunct the node so ,there is a strong emotional /sexual interest. with mercury conjunct to venus, before you stood up for your self , it seems that everything was laughter and openness.
but with nessus square the venus/mars Neptune his is actually looking for a person he can control and abuse.

pluto is square to chiron and the midpoint is
square mercury and venus. this square is very domineering and selfish and with the midpoint square to venus and mercury, he was just biding his time to put fetters on you. this aspect is why he has put you off since you stood u to hum. he is looking for someone pliant to this likely perverse desires.

you need to walk away and don't look back, but this is difficult because the Saturn/Neptune /node gives him the aura of a "magician". this aspect can mold others minds and emotions. coupled with the mars.venus midpoint, he was intent of controlling you through sexuality also.

you have fallen into his mental trap and I assume he is playing waiting game, waiting for you to apologize and accept his control over you so that you can immerse yourself in his magical/sexual aura.

todd

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Thank you so much Todd! I really appreciate your insight and knowledge