posted December 20, 2005 08:59 PM              

venus in soft aspect to their venus

And venus in their 1st house

*What are your favorite 3 synastry aspects?*

posted December 20, 2005 09:39 PM            

My favourites are:

Moon conjunct Moon - for the emotional understanding and the bond it creates

Mars conjunct Venus - for the attraction

posted December 21, 2005 04:20 AM              

Womans Venus in the sign that is the Mans rising sign. another instant attraction.

Womans Sun conj Mans Moon. this is something that is WICKED! with the reversal on the traditional sun being male influence and moon female, this gives the woman a lot more respect and power in the relationship. if the mans sun conj. her mars however the power can be more balanced. Ive noticed this in the two Gemini moon men Ive been with they have both been very very receptive and understanding more than the other exes. They are supposed to be flighty and flirtatious but were loyal and clingy with me (Gemini Sun/merc/mars).

posted December 21, 2005 07:04 AM            

I think Moon conj Moon will work only if they do not make stressful aspects in both charts. Otherwise...*runs scared*

posted December 21, 2005 08:42 AM              

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Womans Sun conj Mans Moon. this is something that is WICKED!

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*pondering over the looong list of Cap Moons in my life*

Yep. wicked is the exact word.

LOL

posted December 21, 2005 06:33 PM              

Very difficult hmmm

• Sun conj NN
  I love and will always love Cancers. We just click…well ok, I only know one guy…yet he’s my #1 *starts singing Goldfrapp*

• Moon conj Venus *sighs* normally I think Aries Moon are psychos ( no offence of course ) but I dunno, I can’t help but luv ‘em ;-D their boldness is “unique”

• Sun conj Moon - not very original but hey…I can’t help but love it it brings a certain feeling of safety
  *starts to sing Lean On Me*
  

posted December 21, 2005 07:14 PM            

I share this aspect with my new Taurus beau. My sun and Venus conjunct his Sag moon. His Sun forms a sextile to my Mars and also trines my mercury. (My sun trines his merc in Aries).

We also have the moon trine moon aspect (mine being in Aries).

I have shared the Rising sign conjunct Moon and also the Sun conjunct the males Mars (while my venus also conjuncted his Mars).

What I really like about the new guy is that both of our Mercury's fall into the other's 7th house. Our conversations seem to flow and we both remarked on how even though we have only dated for 2 months, there hasn't been that hint of pretention that usually comes about when two people are new and trying to impress each other.

We do share some stressful aspects - his Saturn in Gemini opposes my Sun / Venus while my Saturn conjuncts his Sun / Venus. Yet, there needs to be some friction or else the relationship becomes too complacent.

I will say this though... sexually - it is easy going, not intense or obsessive. That is something I haven't had in a very long time. My ex and I shared a very strong Pluto (his) opposed Moon aspect - while my Pluto (virgo) conjunct his Moon.

posted December 22, 2005 03:04 AM            

If a Cap Sun conjuncts my Moon, they'd also square my Sun. If an Aries mooner conjuncts my Sun they'd also square my Moon.

posted December 22, 2005 08:57 AM              

-venus conjunct north node, I've seen that one from the start

posted December 22, 2005 12:36 PM            

Keep in mind that even if you find someone with a Cap Moon and it squares your Sun.. that is an energy that is familiar to you.

When I meet someone who's Pluto squares my Sun / Venus, it doesn't affect me on a major level. Mainly because I too have that aspect in my chart and Pluto is prominent with me anyway.

posted December 22, 2005 08:18 PM            

My Ex had Mercury in Gemini... we just did not GET each other. It was like we were speaking two different languages and would end up getting frustrated to the point where we would end up in a blow up.

That is such a great point.. I never put that together until now.

posted December 23, 2005 12:14 AM              

Sun conjunct moon is very nice, and especially compelling if either one is located in a cardinal house in the natal chart, like 1st, 4th, 7th, 10th. Esp. 1st or 7th. If you are the sun person, you will feel so accepted and understood by the moon person, it feels like unconditional love, which you never had before, except maybe from your mom if you were lucky. If you are the moon person, you feel so complete and at home with the sun person. Like they embody everything you wish you could be on a daily level, but you can't because to reveal that side would open you up too much. You live vicariously through your sun connection, and envy that style, and long for it for yourself. But you can only reach it in very safe conditions. Yet they easily inspire you to be that way with them, and it feels like such a comfortable relief. This is sooo nice for both parties. Really

Venus trine or conjunct moon feels simply lovely - especially if it's reciprical.

Mars square Mars between people of the opposite sex (or whatever the case may be) can actually equate to a highly sexual relationship, and is a much welcome "tense" aspect if most other aspects are soft and sweet between you. It bestows hot sex for sure.

Jupiter conjuncting any of the personal planets brings humor and good will to the relationship - makes it fun and inspiring.

Venus conjunct south node indicates eternal love, the romantic kind.

posted July 21, 2006 12:01 PM              

I can't really pick 3, but here are some of my top favorites in synastry:

- Sun in flowing aspect to moon (sextile, trine, or conjunction)

- Moon conjunct, sextile, or trine jupiter (especially when it's both ways)

- Venus conjunct ascendant

- Moon conjunct ascendant (makes you feel very comfortable with the person)

posted July 21, 2006 12:19 PM              

His sun, moon, and mars are in Scorpio in my 5th house.

posted July 21, 2006 03:53 PM              

I must say I like the venus-mars conjunct, and the double whammy especially. It really is this "cosmic glue" that keeps bringing us together to work on the other issues- the squares, etc. And it's interesting to analyse or see how or when he's approaching me in the Capricorn mars way, which I like and prefer, and then when he's being all Pisces and venusian- yuck, don't like that for getting things started and moving.

The moon-moon conjunction is nice, comfortable, soothing; and I think I really like the moon-neptune conjunction also for that mental connection which seems telepathic.

posted July 22, 2006 09:33 AM              

"Venus conjunct Ascendant
This is a favorable aspect for romantic relationships and marriages, and has the added benefit of stimulating the creative self-expression of each of you. The Venus person identifies with Ascendant person's self-image and the Ascendant person's feeling of self-worth is likely to be enhanced by interaction with Venus person. You are likely to share tastes in music, art or other forms of entertainment."

posted July 23, 2008 10:21 AM            

Moon conjunct Moon - emotionaly on the same page with partner

Mercury conjunct, trine, or sextile Mercury - GREAT conversation that comes naturally and easily

Venus conjunct, trine, or sextile Venus - similar loving styles