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thereaper95
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posted February 14, 2018 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thereaper95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a sense when i meet her for the first time 7 years ago,we stayed together so much time.What do you think?Im the inside circle. http://imgur.com/gallery/AmWdR http://imgur.com/gallery/Eu2vk

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posted February 15, 2018 10:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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thereaper95
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posted February 17, 2018 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thereaper95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is there somebody to take a look?

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mereiposa
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posted February 17, 2018 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'll look for you. Are the birth times correct for both?

Can you remove "all aspect" lines?

I actually prefer separate natal charts as opposed to synastry biwheel so I can see aspects better but I am going to try with this for you!

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mereiposa
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posted February 17, 2018 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see the red person's Saturn square your Mercury/Venus. I see your Saturn opposite their Chiron.

Saturn looks like the biggest potential indicator. Red person has natal Neptune, which your Neptune echos. So I don't know that this is going to be a big factor. I see your Pluto square their Moon, but it's not tight. So I think it will be a factor, but again, maybe not a big one.

So Saturn. You two have growing and learning to do. Which is true just given your young age too. But if there is karma, it will be related to this sense of responsibility and structure. Saturn square Venus can be hard to grasp the relationship, to have it come to life. If it does, there will be a sense of struggle over freedom. The Saturn opposite Chiron is like a constant reminder to the Chiron person to heal, to face the wounds they carry. It's very challenging because it can bring up a lot of pain.

If I assume your birth time is correct, their Saturn squares your 10th house Venus/Mercury. This ultimately can help you grow toward your career and your journey, but it may restrict how you express yourself, both in verbal and physical expression. I don't mean Mars expression, I mean Venus. 10th house Venus is lovely, your artistic nature, your expression of beauty and love nature is incorporated in to what you do. Imagine a restriction on that. It would be stifling.

I can't tell exactly but there's a possible Saturn opposite Mars too?

Their Sun trines your 3rd house NN. This will support you in the expression of your role this life- expression. In Scorpio, you are to explore the depths and find a way to let it out, share it with others through writings or communication. With your 8th house Saturn, I imagine you need this boost towards your NN. 8th house Saturn would hold you back, I would think.

This looks like the most pressing thing between you, and after 7 years you surely would see these things by now.

Does this sound accurate?

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thereaper95
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posted February 18, 2018 07:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for thereaper95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much,im giving the links off the charts:
Mine http://imgur.com/gallery/RKWZx
Her natal http://imgur.com/gallery/E8N1Y
Synastry outer circle http://imgur.com/gallery/wNxmc

The time of birth of both of us is accurate,i have seen the birth certificate.Even the description about asc fits.

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thereaper95
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posted February 18, 2018 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for thereaper95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can't believe about the description you said,it was very hard for me.Everytime i was laughing with others she looked to me with angry eyes.I want to cuddle her and she doesn't,i buy flowers she accept them just for fin.I mean i want some affection she doesn't.
Something else is that we have sexual problems,i swear i didn't make sexual contact with her and i never cheat her.She doubt about me because many man and womans respect me.Is frustating for me because i use sex to show my feelings and loyalty.I dont know why she is like that,with her parents i have a good relationship and they like me.Everyone say to me like how we 2 come together like we are opposite.Even with those hardships i decide to not let her go,because about my feelings and intimacy it is the best relationship i ever had in my life.No one can understand me like her,she is aware about a part that i didnt sense about me.
About aspects i always looked to my moon trine her pluto tight about attraction and mu sun trine her moon almost exact.For the negative i blamed always moon square Neptune/Uranus not Saturn.
I had the feeling that i know her when whe meet for first time,i dont know how to explain.Thank you so much for repling and sorry im a little late but it was night in my country when you respond.If you have something else ti say your welcome...

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mereiposa
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posted February 18, 2018 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you mean the description is accurate or not?

For the sexual issues- that's the Saturn (her) opposite your Mars. It's a classic manifestation. Saturn is insecure. That's why these things happen. She is, at the core, insecure and her actions are her trying to control the situation and give her security, stability. She's definitely a Saturnian person- Cap Venus. North Node in 10th. But you are as well with a 10th house Venus Mercury.

you have an 11th house Sun, so you have a good circle of friends and do well with others in social settings. This will flare her insecurity. So she needs to shut you down. A lot of this happens subconsciously most likely for her. She needs to learn to let go and trust you will be there. And your Saturn opposite her Chiron is really bringing these insecurities forward; the pain is constantly in her face.

You felt recognition with her most likely because her Venus conjuncts your Vertex. And the Moon trine Pluto is a soul connection, but not always something that trumps the negative. It adds to the depth of your connection. The two of you can teach each other valuable, soul growing lessons. But if you don't come together, this can't happen. So Moon trine Pluto exists to be that draw. It is a true connection, and it's deep. But it's her Pluto, and your Moon. She is here to transform you, your perception of your feelings, your desires, and essentially what you want and need in relationships. With an 8th house moon a sexual connection is necessary, it's required. And her Saturn squaring your Venus and opposing your Mars is draining you. She's challenging both your love planets. With your Sun in her 7th, the relationship fits for her. You are someone she sees as a good match. But sometimes Sun in our 7th house is not about love so much as relating to grow. Especially the Sun, because it lights up that house and shows what we need, what we do, and how we need to balance this.

This is a tough relationship for both of you. You love each other, but you are together to learn about yourselves.

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thereaper95
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posted February 18, 2018 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thereaper95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah,every word is a reality.A few months ago i broke up.She went to a new job and our distance was becoming wide.The last time we came out she said that a new guy at the job asked her to go out for a drink and then i closed everything.It was a silly situation for me,she didn't want to lose me but i didn't change my mind.So thank you so much for helping me,im trying to recover right now.It was a difficult year 2017.A last thing the last day we broke up was 29 March 2017,venus was retrograde and a lot of heavy transit...

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mereiposa
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posted February 19, 2018 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mereiposa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I understand. But in all honesty it sounds like you did learn about yourself and what you want and truly deserve. Walking away isn't always easy, but you have a lot to take with you from this.

I'm sorry. I hope a new transit comes your way bringing you fresh light and energy.

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thereaper95
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posted February 19, 2018 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thereaper95     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you

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Randall
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posted February 28, 2018 09:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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