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Topic: Saturn Conjunct Mars
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ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 18, 2018 08:08 AM
  
Saturn is man/Mars is woman - This aspect can be good; it depends on other aspects in the comparison. Woman stimulates ambition and the progressive instinct in Man. Man's caution restrains Woman's tendency to act too quickly, impulsively or without sufficient forethought or preparation. If the positive and best sides of these two planets are expressed, this aspect induces cooperation and
working for a common goal. SATURN teaches a lesson or puts a brake upon the personal expression denoted by any planet it aspects by conjunction. In this case, Man in some way restricts or limits Woman's activities and Woman may have to set aside many personal aims or projects, temporarily, if not permanently, or as long as the association would last. Woman can be irritating to the cautious, practical Man, since Woman wants action speedily and hates to wait for results. Man puts much responsibility upon Woman and, if Woman is equal to it, Man will bring out Woman's progressive and enterprising instincts. It can prove to be a challenge which helps Woman to progress and succeed. Woman stimulates self- confidence in Man and thus helps Man to resist discouragement and build greater security. Woman rises to emergencies, helping Man solve many problems. Woman, you may often have to wait for the slower Man. This will try your patience or give you occasional periods of anxiety. In marriage this aspect is a point in favor of endurance. SATURN always binds.
Interpretation by DMastro
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Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted February 19, 2018 12:31 PM
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colorful butterfly
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Registered: May 2015
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posted March 03, 2018 01:21 AM
I had a saturn\mars reaction. We argued a lot at first then I notice him to put in less and less. I just took this as discouragement and final result as him not wanting a relationship. I just didn't feel apart of his life and took it insultingly. After time, I think things mellowed out as we both might have gotten a better understanding of each other but I just couldn't see being with someone who won't about me. Controlled energy I did learn some and not to put so much emphasis on my impulses, just not easy for me because of my own self worth, self esteem etc. Felt more of a booty call and no woman wants to feel that way for a man she invest herself in and being that I am that type to want an equal balance I just couldn't see putting myself out there. A lot of harsh words that were insulting and I am too sensitive for it. I held in as long as I could till I just let it go. I reached out a few times but things never made it back to what I was looking for. At the moment though I can understand why to apply caution, every thing that glitters is not gold! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
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From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2018 01:50 AM
Thanks for sharing colourful butterfly
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waxlobster
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From: Birmingham
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 03, 2018 10:53 AM
I don't know anything about these two as a couple, in fact I hadn't heard of him until I had a curious moment a couple of days ago.Anyway check out the Mars-Saturn conjunction in their synastry *exact*! His Saturn, her Mars, although he already has Saturn opposite Mars exact natally. She must really have been seeking an anchor. From what I've read about their relationship it sounds like the real deal. :-) https://famouspeople.astro-seek.com/marriage/benji-madden/cameron-diaz ------------------
blog: http://waxlobster.blogspot.co.uk/ New horoscopes just posted for January to March 2018!!! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 4571
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 03, 2018 01:10 PM
That’s cool  I like cameron Diaz and I think he’s in a band...
Thanks for sharing!
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Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 08, 2018 11:36 AM
Saturn contacts are binding. Not easy to shake off. As they feel quite fixed.When there is Saturn interaction,being in a relationship with someone that you don't always like,is probable. Good feelings shared between you two are not excitement but contentment. Bad feelings tend to linger and forgiveness becomes a real issue. Saturn raises the bar and you two expect impeccable relations with each other. And policing each other often happens. Over time it can either get better. Or it can get worse. But there is pain involved as its no "roses and champagne" matchup. It really tests you and can feel like no fun a lot of times. I had Saturn contacts with an ex. His Saturn on my Asc/Moon/Merc/Mars and sextile Sun. Because Mars is the contact planet in my natal T-square, and his Saturn there resulted in some very tense standoffs initiated by me. I used to get so angry with him. And the anger would linger. I would find it so hard to just move past it. It would simmer and I would hold a grudge. A long-term couple with Saturn contacts may either be very comfortable with each other and have tons of respect for each other. Or they could resent each other and even after divorcing, still have a lot of tension and strong hurt feelings for each other that will not go away. At worst, Saturn-Mars can be the physical quarrels or a physical altercation aspect. There could be intent to cause physical pain. IP: Logged |
manderin
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From: New York, NY USA
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted March 08, 2018 04:13 PM
"I had a saturn\mars reaction. We argued a lot at first then I notice him to put in less and less. I just took this as discouragement and final result as him not wanting a relationship. I just didn't feel apart of his life..."BINGO. My experience exactly. For us all the arguments stemmed from me having a goal- no matter how small it was and him sabatoging all efforts towards that goal either by non-action or by purpofully blocking my action towards it. I eventually realized that almost everything I had tried to do before he came along I succeeded at and virtually everything I tried to do with him by my side I failed at... over stupid reasons too that could've been easily avoided. I did 99% of the work in our joint projects and yet they would all fail big time because he would refuse to do his 1%. His favorite excuse was, "I fell asleep." IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted March 15, 2018 10:46 PM
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Healing Mystic Melody
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From: Illinios
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted March 16, 2018 03:17 PM
I have Saturn/Mars DW in synastry with my partner. We met thirty years ago in high school, were best friends and my Saturn seemed to block his Mars advances back then. My weirdo Aqua Mars squared his Saturn so he didn't understand or respond correctly to my advances either. We grew up and married other people and divorced and are now together with Saturn's blessings... as long as we keep doing the Work. It is an eight house relationship sun in composite and we are both eight house Suns so ther is no lack of working on the relationship. I surely hope it will get easier over time.
Heck, I Saturn blocked him back then because I thought he would mean a boring life with 2.5 kids and a garage. If I would have known we would be such a challenge, I would have picked him as my Plutonic bad boy boyfriend thirty years ago. We are INTENSE. IP: Logged |
8ofHearts
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: CA
Registered: Dec 2011
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posted March 22, 2018 09:52 PM
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Originally posted by manderin:
"I had a saturn\mars reaction. We argued a lot at first then I notice him to put in less and less. I just took this as discouragement and final result as him not wanting a relationship. I just didn't feel apart of his life..."BINGO. My experience exactly.
For us all the arguments stemmed from me having a goal- no matter how small it was and him sabatoging all efforts towards that goal either by non-action or by purpofully blocking my action towards it. I eventually realized that almost everything I had tried to do before he came along I succeeded at and virtually everything I tried to do with him by my side I failed at... over stupid reasons too that could've been easily avoided. I did 99% of the work in our joint projects and yet they would all fail big time because he would refuse to do his 1%. His favorite excuse was, "I fell asleep."
Wow! I had the same. We fought a LOT! (My Saturn was also loosely opposite his Mars.) He backed off. Lots of passion/attraction but he thought there was too much tension & he couldn't get comfortable. We also had a lot of Uranus in our connection and composite so it was off and on no matter what. I was Mars - the pursuer. He always had more self restraint and was slowing things down. Weirdly, over time, we learned each other & got along much better but he wouldn't prioritize me or make a permanent commitment (his Saturn was in my 8th also and also opposite my Moon & inconjunct my Sun. Ugh. Even thought I tried to move on and saw other guys, I felt like he had a hold on my heart for almost 2 years! Every time I do a cord-cutting, he would feel it immediately try to re-establish. I finally blocked his phone 2 weeks ago. (We have Mars Sq. Saturn and inconjunct the Sun in composite so no matter how many good feelings, it wasn't gonna work out. Maybe he saw that all along)
I dodged a bullet. He's not good w/ relationships, women or affection and he would have restricted me - definitely a happier/easier connection to be had somewhere else! IP: Logged |
ariesdragon
Knowflake Posts: 4571
From: Jupiter
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted March 23, 2018 04:40 PM
wow nice stories! Thank you for sharing I hope to see more...IP: Logged |
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