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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted February 18, 2018 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I first met him, I was attracted to him but also repulsed by him at the same time. I knew he was some kind of player (I was right) and I didn’t want to get involved with him. I just recently got over a secret relationship with someone else and my family was just torn apart. He, on the other hand, just recently started dating this one girl who used to be his best friend while he was dating another girl from his school (Venus in Gemini 🙄 ). He was hitting on me and I could feel the persona he was trying to hide. I avoided him well. I cancelled on the day of, after saying yes to going on a coffee date with him. I moved to another city a few days later.

Deep down though, I felt like I met him for a reason. He met one of my friends and hooked up with her while I was in a different city. I thought that was why I met him but it wasn’t. He broke my friend’s heart (of course).

Before I met him again, I fell for someone else. I thought the new guy was my twin flame. We had exactly opposite ascendants. Our meeting also had a lot of synchronicities. I had SR Sun, Venus, and Mercury in Leo in the 6th house and my DC was in Virgo. The guy was a Virgo with Leo Moon/Venus/Mars. I met him at work. I was studying German and he turned out to be German. There was so much stuff that led me to believe he was my twin flame, but the relationship never took off.

I met my now boyfriend again after I moved back to the city I met him in. My dad offered me a job at the factory he used to work at for the mean time while I was looking. I hesitantly took it. I filled out the application papers with my friend tagging along (the one he hooked up with before). She told me that I might meet B there because he worked there when they were a thing before. I said what are the chances. The agency could put me in any other factory.

She was right, though. I got into the factory early my first day. There was no one there yet, so I took a seat on a table in the lunchroom and took a short nap. A few minutes later, someone plopped their backpack on the seat right next to me. I was startled but I didn’t see who it was. I moved to a different table. I took a nap there. Then I felt someone tap me and asked me if I was okay. Lo and behold, it was him. I realized I was sitting earlier right next to his usual spot, where his backpack was. We met again when he just got kicked out and broke up with one of his exes. We became friends and slowly dated in a polyamorous relationship.

As I got to know him, I realized how alike we were. We were into personal development, psychology, art, reading, etc. We held almost the same beliefs, enjoyed doing the same things, were brought up almost the exact same way. That feeling that I was meant to meet him became apparent again. He was very troubled when I met him. He had many girlfriends and for each one, he had a role to play. He couldn’t be himself around any of them. At least not until he met me (or so he said). Most girls wanted him to be some sort of Prince Charming.

I went to check his chart right after I figured out the similarities. He looked like a Gemini, but he was a Leo sun like me. I confirmed his birth time, he had Gemini ascendant. Our charts are very alike, with one big exception that stood out—we had opposite Moons.

The reason why I’m now trying to figure out if we are twin flames is because when we first started dating, we had to go through a lot of changes. I had to learn to let go when he broke up with me the first time. I have a very hard time letting go, but I did it. He had an identity crisis. He had a self-image of him being a heartless player but he said spending time with me made him soft. He also said that’s why he broke up with me and all the other girls. He wanted to start fresh but somehow couldn’t. There was always something wrong with every new girl he tried to go after. He always came running back to me to tell me the stories.

I’ve heard twin flames go through a lot of personality changes when they meet. We definitely did. We have also been told we looked alike (we really don’t), and that we look good with each other.

The oddest thing he has also said to me was that we needed to do a “soul bond” and that I was his “soul wife”. He was high as a kite when he said it. But now that I think of it, it’s a really odd way to describe sex 😂 (even for someone who is high).

Here’s our synastry:
(I’m blue, he’s red)

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Couple things that stand out:

- Same ascendants, also conjunct
- Same sun signs, conjunct
- Venus on the angles or conjunct the angles
- Opposite moons, each on the 1st and 7th house
- Both NN’s are on each other’s 4th house (feeling of being “at home”)
- Chart rulers are both in the 3rd house natally, and also in synastry

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Randall
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posted February 19, 2018 12:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Randall
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margym0o
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posted February 28, 2018 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Twinflames is a strong statement but you might be feeling the depth of the synastry. It is very nice for sure! There is a near kite (grand trine at least) formation which is said to bring a sense of "you complete me" when you are with the other person. There is a sense of ease and understanding that comes with it.

Can you post the composite too? I think that is an important clue.

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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted February 28, 2018 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Twinflames is a strong statement but you might be feeling the depth of the synastry. It is very nice for sure! There is a near kite (grand trine at least) formation which is said to bring a sense of "you complete me" when you are with the other person. There is a sense of ease and understanding that comes with it.

Can you post the composite too? I think that is an important clue.



His Venus DOES complete my grand air kite in my natal chart. Normally, without aspects from my ascendant, there’s only an almost-kite formation in my natal.

I have thought quite a bit about him being my possible twin flame in the very beginning after meeting him the second time. But I dismissed the thought because I was so sure the guy I met in university was the one.

I did know though that I met him for a reason. I’ve had that feeling ever since we met the very first time.

If he’s not my twin flame, I’m okay with that too. I’m just really curious.

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