posted March 07, 2018 10:18 AM            

I feel like he's not going to understand you. He's not going to see you correctly, and that could interfere. Now, he's also quite a bit older so maybe he has learned to settle in to his role as a therapist (I hope!!!!)

But his Mars Saturn conjunction is opposing your Jupiter, your beliefs. This could relate to disdain, or disagreeing with your views. He will pull you back a little in that regard?

What I do like is his Sun/Mercury/Venus in concordance with your Sun/Mercury/Mars. It's a nice resonance of energy. But your Uranus/Neptune is not in harmony with his Jupiter, his beliefs.

This could go either way. He could help you see things from a totally different perspective and help you to understand your concerns in a new way, which could certainly help you. But this could also manifest as a poor fit. There are a lot of aspects between your charts that indicate struggle and differences. At the same time, there's a paternalistic feeling here. A fatherly/grandfatherly feel.

And he does have an Aries moon, so it can support your Aries stellium. Add to that you also have a wide Saturn Mars conjunction. So you both have more reserved actions, which could make you feel comfortable here. Your Virgo moon needs some support though. I think you will be able to express yourself, but will you feel supported?

posted March 08, 2018 12:28 AM            

But, I will go and see him anyway.

posted March 08, 2018 08:27 AM            

I think the Mars square may be that he really pushes you to work on yourself. He'll set you a lot of targets and actions for you to work on that you may not feel ready for.

Pluto trining your Mars tells me that he will shake you up in a good way. You don't want to have a whole load of appeasing trines in this kind of relationship. If you want to work through stuff then you'll likely have to face some parts of yourself/your history that are uncomfortable.

Healing is painful at first but that Neptune conjunct your Chiron is empathic, just as his Saturn-Mars sextile your Moon will make you feel stronger.

Trust your instincts, but try to trust his too. :-)

posted March 08, 2018 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by waxlobster:
Loving the Chiron-Neptune conjunction.

I think the Mars square may be that he really pushes you to work on yourself. He'll set you a lot of targets and actions for you to work on that you may not feel ready for.

Pluto trining your Mars tells me that he will shake you up in a good way. You don't want to have a whole load of appeasing trines in this kind of relationship. If you want to work through stuff then you'll likely have to face some parts of yourself/your history that are uncomfortable.

Healing is painful at first but that Neptune conjunct your Chiron is empathic, just as his Saturn-Mars sextile your Moon will make you feel stronger.

Trust your instincts, but try to trust his too. :-)

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Thank you, waxlobster. I’m feeling a bit more confident about seeing him this week. I just hope everything goes well.