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Topic: People who can’t stay mad at each other for more than a day
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 2753
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 16, 2018 07:33 PM
  
Yesterday, I had a fight with my boyfriend in front of his best friend. He blew up, threatened to leave me, and went to the bedroom to cool off. I stayed in the living room and told myself I wasn’t gonna budge because it was kinda his fault. His best friend went into the room with him to talk. I finished the essay I was writing and then went into the room to tell him it was done. He apologized and I apologized. His best friend was really shocked commenting that if it were his sister and her bf having the fight, it would have lasted all week. My relationship with my bf has always been like this. When we fight, we don’t stay mad at each other for too long. We barely fight too. I was wondering if there are any indications of this in a synastry chart. Here’s a comparison to his best friend’s sister’s placements and her bf’s placements with ours: Me/my bf:
Both Gemini rising
Both Leo sun
Him, Capricorn moon / me, Cancer moon
Him, Leo mercury / me, Virgo mercury
Him, Gemini venus / me, Virgo venus
Him, Cancer mars / me, Libra mars Them:
(Idk their ascendants)
Him, Leo sun / her, Taurus sun
Him, Scorpio moon / her, Leo moon
Him, Leo mercury / her, Gemini mercury
Him, Leo venus / her, Gemini venus
Him, Libra mars / her, Aries mars I think their moons being in fixed signs could play a lot into this vs ours being in cardinal signs. Although they both have cardinal mars, I think the moon plays out a lot more in arguments. IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7099
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 16, 2018 08:09 PM
Venus - Jupiter
Moon - Jupiter Can't stay mad at each other ! IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 2753
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 16, 2018 08:59 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Venus - Jupiter
Moon - Jupiter Can't stay mad at each other !
I have that with my bf! Double-whammy Venus trine Jupiter and my moon opposite his Jupiter. For them, he has Venus square her Jupiter. His moon conjunct her Jupiter.
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Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7099
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted March 16, 2018 09:56 PM
We have Venus - Jupiter exact trine with mine and our fights last a day at the most . Can't stay mad for sure. It's almost pathetic  IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 296
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted March 17, 2018 05:41 AM
Jupiter in the 7th house overlay too.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 5190
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 17, 2018 01:25 PM
Where are your Moon signs?What I see is that neither you and your boyfriend have fire Venus/Mars. Add to that the rational Gemini Venus (him) to your Mars in Libra. They also have Gem Ven/Lib Mar. But accompanying that is Ven Leo/ Ari Mar. That is a lot of heat. He has Sco Moon and she Ari Mars. Both ruled by Mars
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 2753
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 17, 2018 09:33 PM
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Jupiter in the 7th house overlay too.
He has his Jupiter in my 7th house! I wish I knew the birth times for my friends, I would have been able to easily spot it ughhh IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 2753
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted March 17, 2018 09:38 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Where are your Moon signs?What I see is that neither you and your boyfriend have fire Venus/Mars. Add to that the rational Gemini Venus (him) to your Mars in Libra. They also have Gem Ven/Lib Mar. But accompanying that is Ven Leo/ Ari Mar. That is a lot of heat. He has Sco Moon and she Ari Mars. Both ruled by Mars
His moon is in my 7th house, and mine is in his 1st house. Not conjunct the AC/DC axis though. I would imagine the fixed placements to be a big culprit, but I haven’t really taken the fire placements into account. Yeah they can be pretty explosive when angry. Their Mars and Venus don’t make an aspect though. One is in the earlier degrees and the other in the late degrees. I wonder if you can still feel it though. Their moons don’t have a connection either. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 93449
From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 23, 2018 07:20 PM
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 5190
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 24, 2018 01:11 PM
Yeah. I would also say 7th house overlays certainly help. As the Libra/7th house is also about compromise.Your boyfriend has Moon in 7th. A desirable position for a mate because they can learn to complement you. IP: Logged |
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