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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted March 19, 2018 06:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So after nearly 2 years of not having a shag and still licking my open wounds, I randomly without seeking, found myself naked, with my legs open under a really super hot sexy man!

I was definitely not looking for it, it came looking for me, I was content never to be intimate with another man again and always thought as penetrative sex as highly overrated.

Anyway, afterwards, I heard from him a bit, and he said he wanted to see me again. Then he got super sick with pneumonia and he fell off the radar. I decided not to GAF. He just made me feel emotional numb, which I preferred to getting hurt and catching feelings, as that's not on these days in the dating world.

So after a week, I text him, clearly stating as I have not heard from him in the last week, and he was messaging me daily prior, that he clearly died!

So the next day I get a missed call from him, I call back its just quiet then makes a strange sounds and the call ends. A few hours later I get another missed call from him this time I've decided he is playing games and just leave it.

2.5 weeks pass, on a Monday I get another missed call. I text him and told him his phone is accidentally calling me. He calls again and I answer, first things he says is "what do you mean my phones accidentally calling yours?" So he tells me that he was trying to call me a few weeks back as he wanted to come over, he was out of the city for work and was driving home and just wanted to see me, so his phone probably didn't have coverage. So we chat a bit, he wanted to come over but see how he was going with time due to work and living so far out and having to drive. We start talking about our last tryst. I told him that he just pounded the s h ii t out of me and I didn't like it. He was a bit cut, but I'm a big believer in telling a man what he is doing is not the best in bed, if its not! I'm not gonna lie, I need pleasure too! He asked me if I was a bit p i s s e d at him for not getting back to me sooner, I told him just a bit, this seemed to make him happy! (I found that bazaar?) I also remind him that I am a woman not the 30 year old he's used too and he just said "yeah". Then he lets me he's surprised I want to see him again. So I said was I just supposed to forget him and move on after one encounter? I then told him how people pass up on so many soulmates as they dont give people anytime and expect everything to be perfect from the get go, which he just agreed to. Anyway afterwards he calls me to tell me he cant make that day as he finished work late and had a nearly 90 min drive home from the city to his farm and still had to feed the animals, which was fine, I understand. He said "you sound disappointed?" I said a little. He seems to get off on this, I don't get it?? He wanted me to be p i s s e d at him for not hearing from him sooner too. It feels like he wants a bit of an argument and I just won't go down that route. If we can't add value to each others like whats the point!

On Friday, he calls, tells me he can come over, I told him when we first meet, that I am home every Friday from work and he can come over if he wants too.

So he does.

I told him that this time I'm the one taking charge in the bed. So I do. He can't believe it! Says how he has never been farked before and he always the one doing the farking.

Anyway... The sex was AMAZING!!!

Afterwards we lay in bed talking, he says he cant believe I've waited 2 years between lovers, he then face palms himself saying "Why do I have to live so far away"

After a while, he leaves, kisses me goodbye and tells me he'll come see me again soon, I said "what in a months time", as that how long it was since the first time, he was a bit shocked that I would say that, he said no, much sooner than that. We kissed goodbye and he leaves.

So today I text him something sexual suggestive, I don't hear from him. This doesn't actually bother me. I know he is busy, he is not much of a texter, and he will reply in his own time when he wants too. Im not sure why it doesnt bother me, not sure if its maturity, thats he wants me to be angry with him, or that I know he will contact me when he is ready, or that I too need my own space at times and he is feeling the same way. I know I got that boy p u s s y whipped!

He is younger than me, only by a year. I never even look at men that arent at least a decade older. He is the same nationality as me, I always said that I would never get with my own kind! He was so super turned on when I started speaking to him in our language. It was just before we had sex the first time I said to him in wog talk " I always said I would never be with another xxx" He lost and then stuck it in me

And the most ironic thing, is that his last name, is my first name!!

Anyway, I just wanna bonk the s h i t out of him!!

So if you have some insight of how he feels about me, not just the sexual side but the emotional side too, I would love to hear it.

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capricorncheriscty
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posted March 19, 2018 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You guys ask the weirdest questions. Randall must be dying a little inside when he looks through these threads...

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SecretGeek
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posted March 19, 2018 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You have shag carpet? LOL

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ariesdragon
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posted March 19, 2018 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariesdragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You seem very excited about this new “sexual” relationship and over time you’ll probably want a commitment, some stability, marriage right? You have a double whammy of moon uranus in stressful aspects in synastry and also in your composite you have the venus uranus in stressful aspect also, just don’t get too attached ok ‘cause it’s going to be a bumpy ride and most likely a roller coaster of “off” and “on” Enjoy the friendship tho because it sounds like you are enjoying the sex.

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margym0o
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posted March 19, 2018 04:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This was the best thing I've read in a while. Thank you for your honesty!

Assuming you're inside, your Mars is getting quite a bit of action! Mars/Pluto DW is where the intensity is coming from I think. Mars opp. Moon, sq. Uranus, trine Neptune...passion, electricity, fantasy.

Your Moons are square but there is some resonance there since your Moon is conjunct Uranus. You may be on similar emotional wavelengths.

That's what stood out to me!

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waxlobster
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posted March 19, 2018 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not sure what you're asking here. If you're trying to gauge if he's boyfriend material then I certainly don't think he's behaved like a man who wants a relationship. I think he's behaving like a man who already has a live in partner....

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted March 19, 2018 06:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I have a new shag carpet! LOL!

Yes I am on the inside.

I dont feel for him emotionally, yet anyway. Was wondering if I ever would?

I have no desire for marriage or children, in this lifetime anyway, he says the same thing, but I think he will marry one day.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted March 19, 2018 07:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
capricorncheriscty - You poor darling, you're on the wrong forum then honey.

margym0o - Why thank you

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SecretGeek
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posted March 19, 2018 07:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Yes I have a new shag carpet! LOL!

Yes I am on the inside.

I dont feel for him emotionally, yet anyway. Was wondering if I ever would?

I have no desire for marriage or children, in this lifetime anyway, he says the same thing, but I think he will marry one day.



Any shag rug burns? LOL

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anonymidarkness
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posted March 19, 2018 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Read the topic twice just to make sure I was not misreading "Sag" as "Shag"...anyway have fun lol

EDIT: Just read the whole post, LOL

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted March 20, 2018 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
SecretGeek - Just my knees baby!

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capricorncheriscty
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posted March 21, 2018 06:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
capricorncheriscty - You poor darling, you're on the wrong forum then honey.

margym0o - Why thank you


um okay lol

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SecretGeek
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posted March 21, 2018 06:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SecretGeek     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
SecretGeek - Just my knees baby!

I am too old for the shag......carpet. LOL

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LunaIscariot
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posted March 21, 2018 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That stellium of his venus, mercury, mars in your fifth is adding a lot of infatuated "crush" feelings from your side. He's activating your house of flings/romances and casual sex. Your mars in his 8th is steamy/kinky/passionate, your sun in his 5th again is romance/fun, and your venus conjunct his descendant means he may actually fall for you/want to be in a relationship. You're activating all of his relationship houses. Where for you, it's only casual/light hearted (5th house). But his moon is in your 4th, so you probably will form some sort of bond/emotional attachment to him eventually . 4th house contacts run very deep and it causes a lot of comfort and feelings of home/security between people.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted March 24, 2018 05:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you LunaIscariot!

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kani
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posted December 09, 2018 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
such a funny post. Thanks for that
what happened with that guy?

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted December 09, 2018 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, I was just think about him, when I read this and was talking about him yesterday with the girls.

After seeing him a few times, I called him and asked why he has performed cunnilingus on me, he said he needed to be in love to do it.

And that was the end of that for me!

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posted December 09, 2018 08:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also never felt an emotional attachment for him even though his moon is in my 4H.

Although, we are the same nationality, had the same upbringing, his last name is my first name too!

It was an instant affinity, sexual attraction YES, emotion/mental attraction no!

He is defo one hot hell of a se xy son of a bi tch!

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Jazabel
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posted December 09, 2018 09:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jazabel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
TVG,

I remember you mentioned once that you were very much in love with someone but it ended with a broken heart and you almost decided not to be in love amore. Can you post that synastry, or at least some aspects, please.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted December 10, 2018 02:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm still in love with that man... 2.5 years has passed and I still think of him everyday. I will post that chart again and attention it to you.

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kani
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posted December 10, 2018 05:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I also never felt an emotional attachment for him even though his moon is in my 4H.

Although, we are the same nationality, had the same upbringing, his last name is my first name too!

It was an instant affinity, sexual attraction YES, emotion/mental attraction no!

He is defo one hot hell of a se xy son of a bi tch!


hahahah I know what you mean. Sometimes (very rarely in my case) you meet a man you just wanna sh*g the sh*t out of

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posted December 10, 2018 06:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
I also never felt an emotional attachment for him even though his moon is in my 4H.

Although, we are the same nationality, had the same upbringing, his last name is my first name too!

It was an instant affinity, sexual attraction YES, emotion/mental attraction no!

He is defo one hot hell of a se xy son of a bi tch!


Seriously iffy about all these house overlays. I don't think they tell attractions for certain. I have Virgo in my 4th but I don't go around falling for Virgos. In fact, I only started loving one recently. There's another Virgo guy who's always flirting with me but I'm not interested in him. He even has Venus in my 5th yet I don't feel any romantic attraction. I also have Cap in 8th yet I've never been sexually attracted to a Cap. Another e.g. my ex's planets don't touch my 7th, 8th house yet I wanted to marry him and I'm very sexually attracted to him.

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posted December 10, 2018 06:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChildofVenus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Seriously iffy about all these house overlays. I don't think they tell attractions for certain. I have Virgo in my 4th but I don't go around falling for Virgos. In fact, I only started loving one recently. There's another Virgo guy who's always flirting with me but I'm not interested in him. He even has Venus in my 5th yet I don't feel any romantic attraction. I also have Cap in 8th yet I've never been sexually attracted to a Cap. Another e.g. my ex's planets don't touch my 7th, 8th house yet I wanted to marry him and I'm very sexually attracted to him.


I think house overlays are important. I can really feel it when I have this particular overlay with someone. And when someone makes hard aspects to my moon as well. With 4th house overlays I get a sense of comfort they feel like family.
It doesn't mean that you would fall for a Virgo or Cap. But maybe someone with those qualities? That's the way I understand it. My 8th house is in Pisces but I don't really like Pisces men. I do however like men with Neptunian qualities. My DSC is in Aquarius and I'm attracted to men with Uranian qualities.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted December 10, 2018 06:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I now wonder if this guy will turn up in my life again now this has been bumped up..

I thinks it's our mars overlays in 5 and 8 made the sex hot... Even though he needed some guidance

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posted December 10, 2018 06:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hikaru29     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
I think house overlays are important. I can really feel it when I have this particular overlay with someone. And when someone makes hard aspects to my moon as well. With 4th house overlays I get a sense of comfort they feel like family.

I know several Virgo and Libra people and they should be touching my 4th/5th but they don't necessarily give me that kinda feelings. My first ex has Sun in my 7th and I've never thought of marrying him. He was not my ideal husband type.

Perhaps it works for some but not all that's why I feel it's not a guarantee that it will certainly generate feelings.

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