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Topic: Sweet connection, but scary and dangerous synastry?
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Nezumi
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 01, 2018 01:04 PM
  
So to make story short I started working with this guy 4 months ago. We actually made quite the team we completed each other really well and we finished the tasks on time. There was a little bit of flirting and attraction l but nothing too crazy and wild.
He's naturally pretty charming and goofy with everyone and popular with the women so I didn't think anything of it.
And today he asked me out and I said yes. I also asked him when he was born more out of idle curiosity. I didn't imagine I would see anything too insane.
So I was actually quite shocked when I pulled our synastry and I see Pluto/Mars DW
Saturn conjunct MArs
Saturn square Sun
Saturn conjunct Moon
Planets in my 12th house (I guess this is why I wasn't seeing him clearly)
I am actually a little bit terrified right now. lol
I know from experience that the aspects would play out somehow even it is not obvious at the beginning.
So a little insight would be really helpful.
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Randall
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posted April 02, 2018 12:02 PM
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Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7109
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 03, 2018 01:22 AM
its really intense !!
You two have numerous intense, obsessive and crazy aspects , equally distributed between the two of you, I cant tell who will be more into the other, it looks like both of you will. AMAZING
I'm not saying it is a compatible synatsry but it is def very binding, addictive and hard to predict.The aspect that grabbed my attention are Pluto conjunct Mars
Pluto square Mars
Pluto square Moon
Saturn conjunct ASC
Saturn conjunct Moon
Saturn square Sun
Moon conjunct South Node in the 12th
Uranus conjunct ASC you are not very compatible otherwise
you have Sun quincunx Sun
Moon quincunx Moon
Mercury quincunx Mercury
Venus square Venus
Mars square Mara
highly interesting synastry.
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waxlobster
Knowflake Posts: 601
From: Birmingham
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 03, 2018 09:02 AM
I agree, very interesting synastry. I note that your Uranus-Saturn conjunct his Asc and square his Juno is quite heavy though. His Saturn on your Mars-Moon makes you feel very easily committed and bound to him, but he may be less comfortable with the Saturn to Asc aspect (although I'm only really talking from my personal experience, Saturn on the Asc can feel very protective but also incredibly judgemental and controlling). The sparks are flying with the Mars-Pluto double-whammy but this can quickly change from attraction to combat. It's lovely that you are both Sun-Jupiters, but I think if this relationship gets off the ground it will be complex. At first glance I didn't think that was likely, but actually with the Sun trine Moon both ways, and your Venus-Chiron and his Virgo Venus it is possible that it will. I wonder if anyone has any advice on how to be the Saturn on someone's Asc conscientiously? I was the Asc in my experience and I was quite criticised by the guy, I wasn't able to relax really...
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mereiposa
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posted April 03, 2018 09:07 AM
I am Saturn to my daughter's ASC. I try to be very aware of my actions and words. I try very hard to not impose on her expression of herself, especially as she is in her teen years an really defining who she is. It's not always easy, but I have found that making myself more aware is step one, and then talking with her openly about why I do or say what I do is step two.As for this synastry, I agree, heavy and compulsive and maybe volatile too. Given the age of the people, a lot of learning potential here. But this could be very hard to maintain and the relationship could degrade quickly. IP: Logged |
Nezumi
Newflake Posts: 4
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Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 07, 2018 03:56 AM
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Originally posted by waxlobster:
I agree, very interesting synastry. I note that your Uranus-Saturn conjunct his Asc and square his Juno is quite heavy though. His Saturn on your Mars-Moon makes you feel very easily committed and bound to him, but he may be less comfortable with the Saturn to Asc aspect (although I'm only really talking from my personal experience, Saturn on the Asc can feel very protective but also incredibly judgemental and controlling). The sparks are flying with the Mars-Pluto double-whammy but this can quickly change from attraction to combat. It's lovely that you are both Sun-Jupiters, but I think if this relationship gets off the ground it will be complex. At first glance I didn't think that was likely, but actually with the Sun trine Moon both ways, and your Venus-Chiron and his Virgo Venus it is possible that it will. I wonder if anyone has any advice on how to be the Saturn on someone's Asc conscientiously? I was the Asc in my experience and I was quite criticised by the guy, I wasn't able to relax really...
Yes we have a little bit of synchronicity going on. We both have Sun - Jupiter, Moon - Venus (he has the conjunction, I've got the trine), we're both fire voids, there's some South Node action (his moon on mine, my Mercury on his) My Sun completes his Moon - Uranus/Neptune trine and his Jupiter completes my Moon/Venus trine . I guess this also contributed to the overall sweetness of the bond between us. But I don't think it's enough to offset the craziness of the other aspects. The red flags are there even if I don't see them right now. I don't know the way people were going about Mars / Pluto I was expecting fireworks. But I guess it's more subtle than that. IP: Logged | |
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