posted April 12, 2018 07:12 AM            

Why it didnt work out?

posted April 12, 2018 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
The link needs [img]

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posted April 12, 2018 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I think you need to remove the S from the http

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posted April 12, 2018 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
What happened? Who left who ?
How did you feel as the Saturn person in the Saturn - Venus square ?
I see you also had Pluto Venus tight square which sometimes results in jealousy and intense feelings which can't sustain a relationship

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its an interesting question.
back from a perspective now i can say that maybe i left him.

but before i thought heplayed with me , left me first.

the problem is that he is a very specific person, very intelligent, SHY, hardworking and he is scared of women? kind of.
he is surrounded by women ( family, friends)generally he is very sensitive, sometimes i thought more sensitive than me.

but on the other hand he was very sharp, shematic and cynical and critical.

generally i was jealous of his female friends. one whom was our common friend made a drama
she was only pushing the strings and used him on her favour to be popular in the group and in the environment.

she was telling bad things about me to him and vice versa- bad things of him to me.
he didnt want to listen tome then as well as i didnt want to listen to him.

she was our both best friend so it was natural that both of us was asking about each other to her at the beginning.
she was like a fema fatale.

but generally he abandoned me later because i was not popular. when i got some popularity in an environment he wanted to come back.
when she ( best friend) saw that she did a 2nd mes as well.

she was a person who thought that she could. that she could just bump inside his house , clean his dishes, drink with him and then left to her boyfriend. she needed to have a control of a situation.

then i let go. i was living my life.
he was checking me from time to time- from party to party. started to talk to me and etc but everytime he was seeing me with someone else he was scared and was pulling away.

i think that both of us are timid and i thought that he would normally talk to me.

probably he thought that i would talk to him normally and explain our weird and only 2-3 month -long relation.
but none of us did that.

after 3 years i am more capable of communicating. and i am more assertive i am not scared anymore.

we are both single but no contact.
i deleted him from instagram because i was too jealous when he was commenting other pictures.

he was then very jealous of me and was c**ockblocing me and even other friends from dating me.
he was a dog in a manger man.
very intense- love or hate.

posted April 12, 2018 10:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
I see...
It did leave quite an impact on you if you only dated for 3 months but 3 years later you still feel hurt and wondering about it. Maybe he wonders the same. I have been Venus in a Venus-Saturn relationship and from the Venus perspective - Saturn person is always very cold and dismissive of us. We can never do good in their eyes. It gets tiresome over time trying to please them.

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yes it did get an impact on me because even after 2 years after breaking HE was STILL jealous of me.

i wanted to move on and i wanted to flirt or date some of our friends.
Virgo blocked me. then he started acting bad like our common friend before.

i felt like he doesnt want to be with me but doesnt let others be with me as well.

like iwould do sth to him.

i never did anything bad.

it was him who treated me bad at the beginning. even if it was very short i dont wanna be surrounded with his female screaming friends,
second - i wanted to get him better.
he just wanted to party very hard- it was not my environment.
i let go- i didnt want to be in that situation.

he was acting totally different when only with me and when was with friends.
when with me he was always explaining himself. putting off his mask.
and putting on his mask of a bad boy when among friends.

started treating me like 5th wheel.
he thought he could have many options.
i was looking for a boyfriends. not a friend.

his ego is/was so huge.

so i started to let go and i started to be very cold.

he was prayed by others, he is like a very popular person.
so maybe it hurt him i didnt want to be with him ( because in everyones eyes he is a prince charming).
but i am honest, i dont wanna party type of a man with 1000 options and every week other girl.

i said no. and those female friends... i got scared and paranoied.

i started being cold and distanced. he felt that. i felt him pushing away and then coming back.
like a toy.

so i started being very cold and do my thing.

i became BETTER than him, more popular and more work oriented. he felt that.
got scared. and started doing a bad PR behind my back.

posted April 13, 2018 10:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
it sounds complicated what you had but it was interesting to read your post and read about the dynamic of your connection

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thank you.
i hope somehow i will be friends with him in the future but i dont know.

posted April 18, 2018 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by FmVenusWLove:
Hey Myapie, out of curiosity do you have the correct birthtime for him?

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posted April 25, 2018 04:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Bump!

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posted May 16, 2018 04:39 AM            

my parnts ( yes i still get advices from parents) told me that i have changed since 2015 a LOT.
my mum told me that with my behaviour and cold acting i could have scared him off.

i thought about it as well but actually i didnt know.

how would you react to someone if you know you are not the 'one' he is dating?
i saw him having options , it was visible. and he thought that i would be ok to be ONE OF THOSE GIRLS.
( in the same time).

with my aries pride i didnt let it happen.

i wanted to date him normally. even if we would have had others, for me it was unnecessary to tell or show me this. he could have had hidden it... lol.

i felt bad.
anyways. a lot of his friends were sticking their noses in our relation, especially ONE taurus woman that i described in another thread... it was weird because i thought that she was jealous of him having her own boyfriend...

that was sic and toxic relation.

i didnt like him partying so much. i didnt wanna party so much with him and his way of life was too fast for me. he didnt understand. he was chasing me even 2 years after and was jealous of me even 2 years after.when saw i moved on and met other people.

he was acting like a toxic or sic person jealous guy of me moving on....
i knew he had others so why wouldnt he let me move on???

then i moved to other country and since last year- february 2017 when i was already in spain, and came back to my city in september- we do not have a contact...
we saw each other sth like 2-3 times on the street.

with you telling me that i was a saturnian person, now after 3 years i think maybe its true?that actually i scared him off with my pride and willing to be the one?

so why would his other male friends liked me and actually i thought that he was jealous of me but didnt make any moves? and when i moved on he started being toxic and doing weird things?

if he wanted something and was scared why wouldnt he write? i m not a fairy to read people's mind...

when i wanted to date him and i was asking him out he didnt want... so i moved on.

but i felt blockage of him that i couldnt... like it would be toxic...

why was it so intense? because of this saturn aspect?