posted April 13, 2018 03:00 AM            

I've noticed that I, and other Aries people have a tendency to fall hard for the one we desire. When it's real, we love shamelessly. But, I have yet to find someone who matches our intensity.

We put ourselves out there, but only seem to be an option for others.

I've seen it happen quite often..

I've fallen for Scorpios, Libras, Cancers, Sagittarians, and a Taurus..

My feelings always seem more abundant..

Do we move too quickly, express ourselves too loudly?

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the chase, I am an Aries after all, but I wouldn't mind if someone chased after me for a little.

I'll even settle for a light jog.

posted April 13, 2018 10:47 AM            

I have Mars in Leo rising. Leo is my fave Sun Sign--especially within orb of conjunction to my Leo 23 ASC.

Sagittarius Sun or ASC should be attracted to my Aries 25 Sun. For example, my beloved first wife with Sag Sun.

Aries ASC within orb should be attracted to my Aries 25 Sun.

Aries North Node within orb should be attracted to my Sun. That would be August 1986. More specifically 8/18/86.

What is your Ascendant Sign and degree?

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
~A little pity party~

I've noticed that I, and other Aries people have a tendency to fall hard for the one we desire. When it's real, we love shamelessly. But, I have yet to find someone who matches our intensity.

We put ourselves out there, but only seem to be an option for others.

I've seen it happen quite often..

I've fallen for Scorpios, Libras, Cancers, Sagittarians, and a Taurus..

My feelings always seem more abundant..

Do we move too quickly, express ourselves too loudly?

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the chase, I am an Aries after all, but I wouldn't mind if someone chased after me for a little.

I'll even settle for a light jog.

...Or, just peek around the corner after I'm gone.

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posted April 13, 2018 11:02 AM            

My father was a second decan Aries and Virgo, Merc duad.

posted April 13, 2018 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
~A little pity party~

I've noticed that I, and other Aries people have a tendency to fall hard for the one we desire. When it's real, we love shamelessly. But, I have yet to find someone who matches our intensity.

We put ourselves out there, but only seem to be an option for others.

I've seen it happen quite often..

I've fallen for Scorpios, Libras, Cancers, Sagittarians, and a Taurus..

My feelings always seem more abundant..

Do we move too quickly, express ourselves too loudly?

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the chase, I am an Aries after all, but I wouldn't mind if someone chased after me for a little.

I'll even settle for a light jog.

...Or, just peek around the corner after I'm gone.

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Lacey, having once been targeted by a woman of your sign, I'm all for the Aires girl making the first move, or at least indicating interest. Without any trouble at all, I can think of three or four who wouldn't have to run fast to grab this Libra male.

I could be wrong, but I believe quite a few men are intimidated by the very appearance of bold women. Aires-strong personalities, regardless of the planets, radiate that boldness whether they want to or not. So the passive approach (waiting to be chased) might not always work.

I'll take a stab in the dark and say that intense moon signs are what Aires girls should target.

posted April 13, 2018 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
This Aries knows exactly what you mean. Lets share some wisdom at this little pity party.

I have Mars in Leo rising. Leo is my fave Sun Sign--especially within orb of conjunction to my Leo 23 ASC.

Sagittarius Sun or ASC should be attracted to my Aries 25 Sun. For example, my beloved first wife with Sag Sun.

Aries ASC within orb should be attracted to my Aries 25 Sun.

Aries North Node within orb should be attracted to my Sun. That would be August 1986. More specifically 8/18/86.

What is your Ascendant Sign and degree?

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I’m a Sagittarius Rising, 13°. I’ve read a bunch of your threads before. I think my perfect match would be someone born July 20, 1992. Have yet to find someone in real life with this birthday. I’m a big fan of having Mercury trine Mercury in synastry. I think it helps smooth over a lot of issues.

posted April 13, 2018 08:09 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
First decan Leo can handle it. I am a first decan Leo and Libra, Venus duad.

My father was a second decan Aries and Virgo, Merc duad.

My ex-wife is a third decan Aries and Aqua, Uranus duad.

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posted April 13, 2018 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by GrandFireT:
Lacey, having once been targeted by a woman of your sign, I'm all for the Aires girl making the first move, or at least indicating interest. Without any trouble at all, I can think of three or four who wouldn't have to run fast to grab this Libra male.

I could be wrong, but I believe quite a few men are intimidated by the very appearance of bold women. Aires-strong personalities, regardless of the planets, radiate that boldness whether they want to or not. So the passive approach (waiting to be chased) might not always work.

I'll take a stab in the dark and say that intense moon signs are what Aires girls should target.

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posted April 13, 2018 11:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
I’ve always found myself attracted to Aries men when I was single. But none of it really took off.

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posted April 14, 2018 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I’m a Sagittarius Rising, 13°. I’ve read a bunch of your threads before. I think my perfect match would be someone born July 20, 1992. Have yet to find someone in real life with this birthday. I’m a big fan of having Mercury trine Mercury in synastry. I think it helps smooth over a lot of issues.

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posted April 14, 2018 11:34 AM            

The Sun location would be a Leo duad.

I will know it before I check. Not literally, just generally.

posted April 14, 2018 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
OHHHH SWEETIE I give you a big hug......

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Thank you. ❤️

posted April 14, 2018 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
~A little pity party~

I've noticed that I, and other Aries people have a tendency to fall hard for the one we desire. When it's real, we love shamelessly. But, I have yet to find someone who matches our intensity.

We put ourselves out there, but only seem to be an option for others.

I've seen it happen quite often..

I've fallen for Scorpios, Libras, Cancers, Sagittarians, and a Taurus..

My feelings always seem more abundant..

Do we move too quickly, express ourselves too loudly?

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the chase, I am an Aries after all, but I wouldn't mind if someone chased after me for a little.

I'll even settle for a light jog.

...Or, just peek around the corner after I'm gone.

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Yes. Yes. Yes. You do come on so strong.

Is your Asc ruler in the 5th,7th or 8th house?

I have Aries Asc with Mars conjunct the 7th in Libra. If my Sun/Moon was in Aries, I would probably attract or be attracted to Aries a lot.

Luckily my Sun/Moon is in semi detached Sag and ultra cautious Cancer respectively So I don't wear my heart on my sleeve and throw myself into affairs of the heart with careless abandon.

I know of a Asc Leo, Aries Sun with Virgo Moon who also also used to run head first into relationship. But age as well as the Moon position has mellowed him somewhat to err on the side of caution.

I don't think Aries Sun/Moon/Venus can help it really. There is a 5year old whom wants things NOW with every Aries placement (except me ofcourse )

I think that one of the pertinent questions to ask yourself is whether finding someone who us just as "all heart" like you is good in the long run.

Thing is that when you agree with each other. Life is awesome. But when you don't agree. It is just as intense.

I think its best that there is a person who is less "all heat" than Aries. Its not exciting at first but best for the long run.

But I guess that also is depending on whether Aries wants that because most Aries relationships tend to start suddenly and then quickly burn out.

Aries with Aries- hot hot hot but also many screaming matches. You are looking at a mirror most times.

Aries and Taurus- Aries will have to learn to slow down... A lot. Taurus can be impassive at times but there is longevity and less screaming matches.

Aries with Gemini- Fun. Good mental rapport as they goad each other on. Aries will need to curb their enthusiasm though - which to Gemini can often translate as aggression

Aries with Cancer - Awkward at first. But let Cancer feel you out Aries. And if you Aries resist shocking or pulling the mat from under their feet(which Aries can do effortlessly),Cancer may be more understanding of your natural passion.

Aries and Leo- When its good, its really good. But when its bad, someone will cry(and it usually ain't Leo).You two can be extreme with each other.

Aries and Virgo- Aries may feel constantly picked on . Virgo may err on the side of condescension. If they work on a mutual project or goal, attraction grows. If not, attraction goes.

Aries and Libra- Aries feels annoyed by Libra's attention to rules of engagement and appropriate social conduct.Strong physical attraction. But also strong occasional resentment

Aries and Scorpio- Scorpio may fight the strong attraction to Aries as Aries is not subtle nor easily controlled. Tempers fly and flare ups are a plenty. But seldom is that offputting for either people.

posted April 14, 2018 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Yes. Yes. Yes. You do come on so strong.

Is your Asc ruler in the 5th,7th or 8th house?

I have Aries Asc with Mars conjunct the 7th in Libra. If my Sun/Moon was in Aries, I would probably attract or be attracted to Aries a lot.

Luckily my Sun/Moon is in semi detached Sag and ultra cautious Cancer respectively So I don't wear my heart on my sleeve and throw myself into affairs of the heart with careless abandon.

I know of a Asc Leo, Aries Sun with Virgo Moon who also also used to run head first into relationship. But age as well as the Moon position has mellowed him somewhat to err on the side of caution.

I don't think Aries Sun/Moon/Venus can help it really. There is a 5year old whom wants things NOW with every Aries placement (except me ofcourse )

I think that one of the pertinent questions to ask yourself is whether finding someone who us just as "all heart" like you is good in the long run.

Thing is that when you agree with each other. Life is awesome. But when you don't agree. It is just as intense.

I think its best that there is a person who is less "all heat" than Aries. Its not exciting at first but best for the long run.

But I guess that also is depending on whether Aries wants that because most Aries relationships tend to start suddenly and then quickly burn out.

Aries with Aries- hot hot hot but also many screaming matches. You are looking at a mirror most times.

Aries and Taurus- Aries will have to learn to slow down... A lot. Taurus can be impassive at times but there is longevity and less screaming matches.

Aries with Gemini- Fun. Good mental rapport as they goad each other on. Aries will need to curb their enthusiasm though - which to Gemini can often translate as aggression

Aries with Cancer - Awkward at first. But let Cancer feel you out Aries. And if you Aries resist shocking or pulling the mat from under their feet(which Aries can do effortlessly),Cancer may be more understanding of your natural passion.

Aries and Leo- When its good, its really good. But when its bad, someone will cry(and it usually ain't Leo).You two can be extreme with each other.

Aries and Virgo- Aries may feel constantly picked on . Virgo may err on the side of condescension. If they work on a mutual project or goal, attraction grows. If not, attraction goes.

Aries and Libra- Aries feels annoyed by Libra's attention to rules of engagement and appropriate social conduct.Strong physical attraction. But also strong occasional resentment

Aries and Scorpio- Scorpio may fight the strong attraction to Aries as Aries is not subtle nor easily controlled. Tempers fly and flare ups are a plenty. But seldom is that offputting for either people.

Aries and Sag- Easy matchup. Sag is not threatened or put off by Aries' passion but rarely can match it. But if Aries gets too demanding, Sag walks.

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Thank you, Aries23Degrees. Everything you’ve written has resonated strongly with me.

My Asc ruler falls into the 1st house, but some sites interpret it as being in the 2nd.

I give my all in a relationship, which could definitely be off putting to people if it’s too soon.

I’m just looking for someone who feels the same way about me as I do them. But, I know that for most, it takes time to develop such feelings.

posted April 14, 2018 06:10 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Lacey, if your Aries Sun is in 5th House, Leo Sun might be a better match than Cancer Sun. 2nd decan Sagittarius Sun activates your ASC. Mid Aries Moon conjuncts your Sun. Mercury trine Mercury indicates great facile mental exchanges, and favors mobility and commercial affairs.

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Thank you, com.

posted April 14, 2018 10:26 PM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
My 5th house Sag Vertex is on your ASC. My mother and her mother were both Sags. That is likely where I got it from (mtDNA) but I can't pass it on. My sons' mother is also a Sag. All have Suns three days apart, so all three have Scorpio duads.

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posted April 14, 2018 11:39 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Wow, sounds like it was meant to be. Like fate.

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posted April 15, 2018 12:04 AM            

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Originally posted by SecretGeek:
Likely is genetics. My father was an Aries, married my mother a Sag for 64 years before death, and produced a Leo on the way. I am a Leo and married a Sag but didn't produce an Aries. They were Virgos but they are an Aries duad.

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posted April 15, 2018 12:11 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
You had a triangle family. Aries, Sagittarius and Leo. How fun. What’s it like being married to a Sagittarius?

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