posted April 23, 2018 10:13 PM            

Hope you can check my chart and find the root of this. Thank you in advance <3

https://imgur.com/a/Itmxpja#yB9j74o

posted April 24, 2018 10:07 PM            

You have Part of Fortune in the 7th house, I would assume that’s a good thing in terms of relationships. Mars conjunct Venus indicates someone who is attractive physical wise and personality wise. No harsh aspects from Saturn.

The only thing I would think is maybe Lilith and Pluto on the ascendant might be too intimidating to men. Men (not all) are usually repelled by women whose personalities come off too strongly.

Also, I think it’s more of an approach thing. You did mention you tend to initiate interaction with men rather than wait for them to chase you. In all honesty, even though we live in an era where gender roles are almost non-existent, men still like to chase. Don’t make yourself seem too open or eager.

For example, when they ask you for a second date, tell them you’ll check your schedule first and let them know later. This works because it keeps them on their feet. It will make them want to chase you.

I don’t think you’re the type to reveal too much of yourself too easily either. Use that to your advantage. Make them chase you. Don’t chase them.

posted May 02, 2018 06:18 AM            

But check Uranus on the 7th, 5th or Saturn on the 5th,7th.

Aquarius/Cap on the cusp of the 7th,5th too when that house cusp is empty can do that.

Mars/Pluto in the 5th,7th or 5th/7th house cusp in Sco/Aries.

Check your progressions.

I have Pluto/Saturn in 7th and I have single now since 2015. Sometimes its all about timing.

Aqua/Uranus energy can cause disruptions and abrupt changes.

Cap/Saturn energy delays.

Scorpio/Pluto energy comes across as too intimidating.

Aries/Mars energy comes across too boisterous and "in your face".

posted May 16, 2018 10:46 PM            

Still can´t see the chart? The link is actually working I guess.

https://imgur.com/a/Itmxpja#yB9j74o

(It's because we couldn't post the graphics here I don't know why)

The funny thing is that I don't have nor saturn/cap, Uranus/aqua in the 5th or 7th.

posted May 24, 2018 06:16 PM            

I had basically no luck with women until I met my wife at nearly 39. Don't give up. Consider that it is just not your time yet.

Venus in Aquarius shows a person who can have some difficulty understanding how to relate to individuals. The tendency is to relate to humanity more broadly, missing some of the things that can make particular relationships closer than just friendship. I recommend learning about different personality types like with the Briggs-Meyer assessment, etc. This can also serve as a conversation starter.

Your chart shows Moon square Pluto and quincunx Saturn, so it would be good to learn to relax emotionally and learn what it is like to be more easy-come-easy-go. I know that when you put yourself into something you really mean it and are all-in, but there is a level of emotional intensity in this aspect that can be unhealthy. So deep relaxation methods -- and I mean deep relaxation will benefit you tremendously. So look into anything like that and experiment with different methods for what works best for you. Your own emotional intensity can be what holds you back. That can come from fear of loss, and the mistaken reaction generated belief that you must grasp harder to what you have or who you love so you don't lose them. But that is futile, because we don't control that.

Your chart also has Mars closely parallel Saturn. This aspect is tighter than the conjunction you see on your wheel chart. This means that you tend to hold yourself back a lot from asserting yourself as you would like. That may be for good reason at times, so don't get down on yourself for not feeling and acting as bold as you see others doing. Saturn aspects like these are all about timing and are helping you develop the wisdom to take action in measured steps a bit at a time when you are sure what you are doing is constructive rather than impulsive. Neptune is also parallel Mars and Saturn, so you have a further tendency for doubting yourself and second-guessing yourself. Ultimately, you can learn to let Neptune and its imaginative power have its way in leading both the Saturn and Mars energies. Everything is first created on the level of pure consciousness. So ignore what the circumstances look like and your past up to now and imagine the ideal life that you want and how that meshes with a healthy partnership.

You have some good aspects in your chart like Venus conjunct Mars, even the Venus quincunx to Jupiter is a good aspect so long as you don't bend over backwards trying to please too many people.

Sun sextile Saturn and Neptune shows a steady and creative/spiritual energy.

Mercury sextile Uranus shows communicative ability and mental sharpness.

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