posted April 29, 2018 08:19 PM            

Hi all,

The woman in this composite recently reconnected with a man she dated briefly about 10 years ago. They started talking and the man professed that he always loved her and thought she was the sexiest woman he has ever known. All kinds of complements via text and over the phone. The woman obiously became excited about reconnecting and they have seen each other twice. In person, the man has a hard time looking in her eyes and doesn't speak to her at all the way he does over the phone or in text.

Now she feels like she's at the point where she needs to initiate conversations or any future dates, and he's playing hard to get, or he's just not interested anymore...she's not sure really.

I see the Mars to Neptune square in the composite and I can't see how that would factor into any honest, long term relationship.

posted April 30, 2018 02:48 PM            

Look at the guy's Mars sign. If he has strong Aqua,Gem or Lib in the chart I would be heavily discouraged.

posted May 01, 2018 08:24 PM            

this month as the node is squaring the mars/Neptune midpoint and the south node is conjunct the venus/sun midpoint, he is problably involved with someone else. and if she has talked abut commitment with him... then she hs chased him away. also dejaniera was just square in april and the node will conjunct the composite node at the end of this month.

posted May 02, 2018 04:33 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Thank you Todd! I think he is seeing someone else in a nearby city. Weird thing is, he told her he should have married her by now, not the other way around. She kept it to herself. Then he pulled away....

He got her hopes up.

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"no way he is looking for commitment with the t square of mars/Neptune and the sun'

posted May 02, 2018 07:18 PM            

That is the composite, not his natal. With a neptunian composite like that odds are that Neptune rules his DC or he is very Neptunian himself but Neptunians are highly idealistic not "players." A player purposely lies and plays the field. Neptunians are just looking for an ideal and may be shady because of that but not bec they want purposefully use, hurt or deceive you but bc they are looking for something extremely hard to find or that doesn't exist except in another dimension or their heads LOL. I am neptunian so I know.

That venus opposite pluto with Neptune as the point of thales forming an astrological pattern that also connects to another astrological pattern (the Tsquare) with neptune at the apex squaring mars opposite Sun is powerful, those are two astrological patterns both involving neptune the higher octave of love connected to each other by neptune.

IDK why he disappeared but maybe she is not as beautiful as she was 20 years ago and he build it up in his head the ideal she met then...

...but I don't think is about him been a player but about looking to experience god through another person that can make you feel you are in another dimension around them. Its about finding that person who can provide that kind of out of this world experience which is hard to find. Based on the composite she must have been that for him at some point and he hoped it would still feel like that and it did not so he disappeared...

...or he is married and could only hook up a few times with her and relieve that connection briefly.

Sincerely..

posted May 02, 2018 07:23 PM            

Please pretty please

Thanks.

Sedna to me equals Coward!

posted May 02, 2018 07:43 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
How do you know he is a player?

That is the composite, not his natal. With a neptunian composite like that odds are that Neptune rules his DC or he is very Neptunian himself but Neptunians are highly idealistic not "players." A player purposely lies and plays the field. Neptunians are just looking for an ideal and may be shady because of that but not bec they want purposefully use, hurt or deceive you but bc they are looking for something extremely hard to find or that doesn't exist except in another dimension or their heads LOL. I am neptunian so I know.

That venus opposite pluto with Neptune as the point of thales forming an astrological pattern that also connects to another astrological pattern (the Tsquare) with neptune at the apex squaring mars opposite Sun is powerful, those are two astrological patterns both involving neptune the higher octave of love connected to each other by neptune.

IDK why he disappeared but maybe she is not as beautiful as she was 20 years ago and he build it up in his head the ideal she met then...

...but I don't think is about him been a player but about looking to experience god through another person that can make you feel you are in another dimension around them. Its about finding that person who can provide that kind of out of this world experience which is hard to find. Based on the composite she must have been that for him at some point and he hoped it would still feel like that and it did not so he disappeared...

...or he is married and could only hook up a few times with her and relieve that connection briefly.

Sincerely..

Sun opposite Moon in Pisces square Neptune.

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first off, the qualities you can see in a natal do not always manifest in a composite....how many times have you heard.." he/she wasn't like that before we got together."

frankly I have never seen a mars/Neptune square in a composite chart that did not turn out that the guy was a "player".
and in this situation llewsacm has said it seems he is seeing some one else.
todd

posted May 02, 2018 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
first off, the qualities you can see in a natal do not always manifest in a composite....how many times have you heard.." he/she wasn't like that before we got together."

frankly I have never seen a mars/Neptune square in a composite chart that did not turn out that the guy was a "player".
and in this situation llewsacm has said it seems he is seeing some one else.
todd

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Yes that is what I said that its a composite chart, not a natal chart so I don't know why you assume he is a player looking at the composite. But there is a chance that bc the composite is highly neptunian that he has a strong neptune influence in his chart or that neptune rules one of his angles. Loooking forward to seeing his natal.

posted May 03, 2018 12:21 PM            

No venus/mars or moon/mars or moon/venus or enough Jupiter aspects and just a sun/neptune square moon which can be irritating if they don't have another sun/moon aspect that is soft or other aspects that can support that square so it feels stimulating instead of irritating. That square is playing out as a fantasy that is not backed up by the rest of synastry except for that eros conjunct psyche.

But his nessus opposite her dejanira with his mercury sextile sedna explains how he tends to drop her and just "use" her. Nessus wants to lose control to their primal nature although he wants romance too bc nessus has sun square eros. His romantic side is reinforced by his moon in pisces but this also makes him flighty and changeable.

He does find her sexy (eros/psyche, nessus/dejanira) but their synastry is not very strong although the composite is very nice.

posted May 03, 2018 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Hypatia, ty. She is the one that has sun conjunct Neptune.

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posted May 03, 2018 01:36 PM            

Moon in pisces is very romantic, sweet, compassionate and idealistic but our need for romance can be a big weakness, we won't leave our relationship bc we are loyal but we are capable of cheating bc we are looking for this otherworldly connection or encounter even if is brief. He has moon in pisces like me.

Its not about deception, the motive is to feel alive and experience a spiritual connection with another soul even if is brief but he probably dropped her bc he feels guilty bc he is in relationship...moon in pisces is a mixed bag, pros and cons.

This is coming from a moon in pisces person.