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HappyLoewe
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posted May 08, 2018 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyLoewe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Please don't quote. UPDATED - Apologies but I uploaded the wrong charts!!! I have started a new thread. Thank you to all who responded on this thread.

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outofideas
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posted May 08, 2018 03:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for outofideas     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm I was looking at his natal aspects with regards to him being a huge player. He has Mars, Sun and Venus square Saturn - he must have some serious insecurity issues despite him looking great. This may be part of why he cheats. But ignoring Saturn for a second - he is a bit of a flirt with that stellium, probably some macho type. It also opposes her stellium so I take it he is magnetically attracted to her. But then again his Saturn squares her Ascendant. A bit iffy maybe. Do you know how he feels about her?
I don't see much of a bind here apart from her Saturn semi-square his Moon. I don't see that much going on in their composite actually and I think he is not good for her and only causes trouble.

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HappyLoewe
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posted May 08, 2018 03:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HappyLoewe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks outofideas. I know they fancy each other but they have no stability. I think the macho bit describes him very well as being macho is part of his culture. He is very softly spoken and he says that he doesn't need to shout to be heard (this always makes me laugh when he says it) but he needs a pretty woman on his arm (she is a pretty girl) to feel anything. He is very good looking (which is subjective of course) and has everything going for him (education, money, job, family, etc.) but he keeps going back to the same girl and I think she does love him and care about him but I feel she is hemmed in by him a little bit. For e.g. I remember at a Christmas party he was acting the fool (fairly typical of him) but she wasn't taking any notice and he said her name about 20 times to get her attention. She laughs at his lame jokes and the silly things he says but I think that makes her life easier. As I said, its a merry-go-round of on/off all the time.

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waxlobster
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posted May 09, 2018 08:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hiya,

Just from what you've said I can gauge that they both love the drama and the rollercoaster of emotions. (Whether consciously or not).

If you enjoy stories, why not live one? Of course there may be a karmic bond between them also and this can act as a very strong glue until the lessons they came to work through together have been completed.

Do I think it will work out? No, of course not. This doesn't sound like a connection that either of them would *like* to have as a long term relationship. Not really. Why would he keep cheating if he loves her? Why would she want to commit to a man who can't commit to her?

In truth, with a T-square like his, with so many of his personal planets involved he will probably only settle down with somebody who 'completes it.' (There is a really good string about just that posted recently) Hence, somebody with mid-Gemini planets will probably the piece to his jigsaw that makes him want to be exclusive.

As for her, with Saturn conjunct North Node, she will be looking for reliability and consistency in a partner, to help reflect her own personal need for this. When her Saturn return occurs in a year or two, along with Pluto reaching this point of her chart, her life will change a LOT.

In fact this whole 2 years period will be huge for her with Saturn transiting all of the Capricorn planets in her chart.

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