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Topic: Should I date him?
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TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 350
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 09, 2018 04:45 AM
  
Hey All,So I started chatting with a new guy online. He is super shy and not very communicative. I think he is also not very emotional. What kind of partner do you think he might make? Would you date him? Why or why not? And what sort of personalty do you have? Or what kind of personality do you think would suit him? I am very emotional and psychically attuned, do you think this sounds like a match for him of not? I have my doubts for us. See his natal chart below.
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Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 5403
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 09, 2018 07:44 AM
So much in the 1st house suggests a self -centred person. Neptune in 7th,Venus trine Jupiter suggests someone who makes questionable partnerships. But the sextile to Pluto from Neptune suggests they learn to be less naive.Pluto in 5th is very demanding. The type of partner that will go through your phone and freak out over messages received. Especially since Pluto trines Saturn (control) and Mars(anger). Juno opposes Merc- a talker in the relationship but also likely to be very critical. Juno/Uranus conjunct suggests that they will be hard to get close to on a mundane level i.e at times not available on the phone or going for a long time without seeing them etc. This is especially the case when we see that Moon opposes Neptune in 12th-going off the radar. IP: Logged |
SecretGeek
Knowflake Posts: 1261
From: Dallas
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted May 09, 2018 08:55 AM
I think relativity is more important than absolute when comparing energy. So a weak person alone can be strong when merged.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
Moderator Posts: 3319
From: Portland, OR - USA
Registered: Oct 2011
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posted May 09, 2018 09:35 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.------------------
Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy
Declinations: because the planets move north and south of the celestial equator IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
Knowflake Posts: 4010
From: UNITED STATES, BABY
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 09, 2018 10:25 PM
Just as I suspected, 3rd house Cancer.
3rd house is the mind and how active you are with daily life and a lot of other things. He probably had a very long memory and is slow at learning things...
Him and I actually have the same house overlay. I have the same ascendant, 2nd, 3rd house signs as him, etc.I’m not sure whether this is vedic or tropical, so I can’t say how accurate it is.. but according to THIS chart In particular, he does have ascendant Taurus as well as 3rd house Cancer. I would look into those two placements. Taurus is kind of a hedonist I’m away. They come across as a stable, focused immovable person... I personally wouldn’t date him, because with my 7th house Scorpio and my personal moon in scorpio I am big on dating Scorpios.
His venus In Taurus night find me to beautiful because my ascendant is Taurus so he might like the way I approach situations or do things...
I like emotional guys, and communicative guys. I like passion and effort. IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 350
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 09, 2018 11:44 PM
I like emotional guys, and communicative guys. I like passion and effort.So you're saying that he is none of these things? He just told me that, "friends are overrated". He is all about training and staying fit and focused on his ability to be disciplined when it comes to exercise. He is somewhat just a tad slightly obsessed with it! No friends so he can focus on his gym works outs?? Since this topic has been moved over to here, I will post our synastry chart.
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TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 350
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 09, 2018 11:51 PM
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waxlobster
Knowflake Posts: 609
From: Birmingham
Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 10, 2018 11:39 AM
Chiron in the 11th conjunct Mercury. A great lack of confidence in communicating the feeling of not matching up to others. 11th House ruled by Neptune, a foggy and possibly bad experience with friendships. He works out because he can channel the anger, and that exact Moon-Saturn doesn't trust easily, not withstanding his personal experience with people hurting him if he gets close (Chiron in the 11th, transiting Chiron recently crossed his Sun!) If you want to get involved with this man, then be prepared for the relationship to be more about the physical. From your description I thought he was about 26!! He's more like 45! Oh dear, he's probably not about to open up anytime soon if those are his long held beliefs. Would I date him? I wouldn't even want to have a conversation with him, he has no creativity, warmth or sense of humour that I can glean!! (sorry if that sounds harsh! It's based upon what he's said to you!) ------------------
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TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 350
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 10, 2018 04:35 PM
Waxlobster, is does not sound harsh as that's how I feel about him too! Sense of humour is so important to me, and he has none! No conversation skills either! IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl
Knowflake Posts: 350
From: Heavens Above
Registered: Aug 2016
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posted May 10, 2018 05:10 PM
And then I read Todd interpretation of the composite chart, and he is definitely worth going to have a coffee with  HA! IP: Logged |
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