posted May 12, 2018 07:20 AM            

This relationship has been on and off for a while now. They get on well for so long before it all goes wrong and then they don't speak for months, date other people and then it reignites. One minute they are getting married, the next minute they are not, then moving in together and then they are not.

One thing to note is that he is a massive cheater. In the past, they have split specifically down to his cheating but they talk it out, he buys some things and they reconcile. Due to her job, she travels an awful lot whilst he stays at home. He parties practically every night. Recently, she was away and he was, of course, out partying and scanning the room !

What do you think of their synastry and composite? I have my own thoughts about it but I would be grateful for your reviews too. Thank you HL

Synsastry:

Composite:

posted May 12, 2018 10:05 AM            

The problem is the composite. Synastry shows how the two feel about each other, they are verrryyy attracted to each other. But the composite is the relationship itself, the dynamics and how the two people ultimately mesh.

posted May 12, 2018 01:40 PM            

He is actually very emotional and extremely sensitive with his Neptune conjunct his ASC and his Pisces moon, very romantic and idealistic, but with his Virgo stellium this makes him very critical and nit-picky, he probably has super high standards and expectations with all this Pisces-Virgo energy, and is never staifsifed because he is chasing an ideal and illusory perfection. The stellium being in the 8th makes sense with him being very attractive and into girls and sex etc. As this is the Scorpio house lol and it rules sexuality, Venus conjunct mars people in general are usually very much into the opposite sex and are very amorous with strong sex drive, they are usually never single for long and always find people to date. I've known lots of men AND woman who are cheaters with this placement, not always but it seems these people have a stronger tendency towards this than people without this conjunction, especially his being conjunct his sun and in the 8th house.
Also his stellium in the 8th can make him very jealous and possessive or demanding and it makes sense that he always wants her attention lol.

posted May 12, 2018 04:18 PM            

Some of her previous BFs have been popular people who have big personalities so this makes sense. She is not chaste by any means !

He is much more sensitive and perceptive and more easily wounded than her. She can be a tough cookie and a bit of cow at times. He doesn’t suffer fools gladly.

He’s got a type which is dark and super-skinny. They all start to take on this appearance after a while of losing weight and being ultra-thin. They are not fat or anywhere near it to begin with but all of them end up losing more weight and becoming petite and tiny-looking. He will tell them not to put on weight and to watch what they eat and to exercise. He has no compunction about saying this. He is quite picky in terms of calling someone a “girlfriend” but he will go through tons of girls until he finds a “girlfriend”. He is very good looking but he is a massive cheat and, I think, unless he is completely blown away by a girl, he is likely to cheat. In fact, I’ve never known him not to cheat. There have been issues in the past with his cheating and talking to other girls – I don’t think he can help himself. He is currently on his best behaviour but that is only likely to last for so long (it sounds cruel but it is the truth). I think he needs the attention and approval from women – it ticks a box in his head that he is a real man! Lol

She is very ambitious and has done well for herself. I hate to say it but I think he will hold her back if she allows it. I know she has big plans for the future and wants to branch out in her field. I think she will do well if she doesn’t listen to him too much or take on everything he says.

posted May 17, 2018 06:53 PM            

Jupiter opposed to Uranus is also part of the off and on dynamic and the Saturn/Neptune conjunction shows he doesn't know what he wants.... could be substance abuse issue also though this is a symptom of our times.

posted May 18, 2018 06:05 PM            

I would agree that they are both selfish people in their own ways. I feel that he doesn't know how to say what he really wants - he is a macho type who believes that his money and good looks will be enough but he is a deep thinker and very sensitive. I can see he is searching for something and he has half of it with her and he hopes it will all fall into place. She seems to put her career first and he hates that. He wants total control but she doesn't really give it to him and that might be another challenge that he enjoys with her. But they can't communicate at all. when he does talk, he is wacky and off the wall and she is more down the middle but laughs at his silliness. For some reason, they don't spark with conversation, they spark with sexual attraction. I can see he gets on her nerves a lot but she laughs it off.

He goes through girls like Tuesday follows Monday. He's searching for that blow me off my feet connection where his mind is just as absorbed as his body.