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posted May 22, 2018 07:26 PM            

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This is for anyone interested in studying the charts of long-term couples;
My mom met my dad through her friend when we she was around 19/20 and they started dating shortly after.
They have been together for around 25 years now, but aren’t married. They have 4 kids between them including myself.
My dad cheated on my mom and left her for another woman about 15 years ago, but they got back together after only a year or two of separation....
They have no plans to break up at all, and I know they will be together until they die.

Both birthtimes accurate!

synastry (mom inside)

Composite

Update; they since broke up! LOL
In June 2019

Transit Saturn/Pluto square composite Venus/moon/asc

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posted May 22, 2018 10:11 PM            

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Composite sun, Chiron, moon in the 12th wow!!! So it can work... good to see.

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posted May 22, 2018 10:44 PM            

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Lol yes. It’s funny because 12th house rules escapism or addiction/drugs etc.
And around the time he left my mom, they were heavily into drugs and addiction. My dad introduced my mom to them (cocaine) so that’s how that 12th house sun and moon played out
But they have both been sober for over 13 years now 👍
Their relationship has always had it’s ups and down, with my dad being physically abusive and the drugs and cheating etc. But for the last 10 years there has been none of that and their relationship is probably better now than it ever was my dad has thankfully mellowed out in his old age lol and when he isn’t on drugs or into the criminal lifestyle anymore
I think the moon/Venus conjunction on the ASC is very powerful and has kept the bond strong over these years despite many obstacles. It also conjuncts both of their Venus natally 👍

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posted May 23, 2018 06:27 PM            

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Wow!! That damn mars square Uranus aspect! One to watch out for in a composite.

That’s such a hopeful story and really good to see they stuck it out! The ruler of the IC conjunct ascendant too! Plus descendant ruler too. Very nice

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posted May 23, 2018 06:46 PM            

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Time of Birth for either may be incorrect, I rectified their chart but I could be wrong.

My parents have been together for over 35 years and my father has only been married to my mother and that is it. Wonderful marriage.

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posted May 23, 2018 06:53 PM            

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^^What I see is:

1. Moon opposite Sun forming a tsquare with Neptune.

2. Jupiter conjunct Amor Exact, Venus conjunct Jupiter, Venus conjunct Eros

3. Love Yod: Venus sextile Mars exact inconjuncting Moon.

4. Vertex in the 7th, Northnode in the 7th.

Ha Uranus squares the nodes and they will never divorce.

Moon in the 11th, they met through a mutual friend, maybe I did rectify their charts well.

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posted May 23, 2018 07:38 PM            

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Wow Hypatia that’s a great composite!
That yod with venus, mars and moon sounds so lovely! And with sun and mercury opposing it, all the personal planets are involved!!! That is almost too good to be true
The venus conjunct Jupiter is also really nice, I had this with my ex and we were very forgiving and tolerant with each other no matter what happened we would always be able to bounce back.
Sun trine Saturn is also great for longevity and stability.
I think the t-square with Neptune is only adding to the dreamy, idealistic and maybe even intuitive connection between them.
Venus opposite Pluto and Mars trine Pluto spells intense passion and chemistry too!
I hope to find a composite this good someday haha!
Can you post the synastry too? 😊

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posted May 24, 2018 11:10 AM            

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^^ Great feedback, thank you!

Yes I did not realize how nice their composite was till now. I was like wow.

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posted May 24, 2018 11:25 AM            

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My parents-together for 50 years. No cheating or fighting.. ever. Birthtimes unknown.

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posted May 24, 2018 04:12 PM            

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CHOC; wow nice synastry!
Your moms moon conjunct your dad sun, mercury and maybe Venus too depending on her birthtime. Either way, her moon is definitely Scorpio regardless of birthtime, so the energy still resonates with his Scorpio stellium even if not conjunct by aspect. That’s huge in terms of compatibility and attraction 👍 Very nice.
Also, compatible moons in the same element is also ideal, adds a lot of harmony and emotional understanding and makes living together easier and I also noticed most long-term couples have compatible moons (water-earth, fire-air or same element) or by aspects or house placement there is similarity between the moons. Or moons on each other angles, epecially the 4th.
Another big thing is that your dad’s moon in cancer conjuncts his Pluto! So this adds a strong Scorpio element to his moon nature which makes him understand and empathize with your mom’s needs and feelings even more.
All of this combined tells me they probably have a very passionate and intense (scorpio/pluto) emotional bond together. Very loyal, committed and intimate with a real harmony and understanding of each other. Beautiful ❤️

Your moms sun and mercury form a T-square with your dads Jupiter and mercury/venus. Given the nature of these planets (no harsh or malefics) this is actually positive! It’s a closed pattern formation so it adds some stability to these squares, more harmony/integration and a lot of chemistry. Enough differences and exciting tension to keep the spark alive.

Juno conjunct Saturn and Vesta is also huge! This adds a lot of loyalty and devotion/commitment and longevity. It’s no surprise they’ve been together so long 👍

The composite is interesting. We don’t have TOB which is huge for me in composite because I like to look at house placements and house rulers and especially aspects to the ASC.
But they do have venus conjunct mars!
This is a very sexy aspect, gives a lot of attraction, passion and sexual compatibility.
I wonder how that t-square of mars, Saturn and Jupiter plays out...too bad we don’t have the time of birth to see which houses these planets fall in and which houses they rule in the composite lol
Moon conjunct Neptune is nice sweet, lots of empathy and forgiveness and maybe even a psychic or intuitive connection ❤️
Saturn sextile the sun and mercury is also great for stability and commitment.
They don’t have any hard mars, Saturn, Uranus or Pluto aspects to the inner planets which is also ideal 👍 besides the t-square with mars-Saturn of course lol but it’s in a closed pattern formation which helps integrate the energy more positively and productively especially with one of the planets being Jupiter 👍 it’s very helpful.
Overall, really lovely synastry and a rather nice composite too. I can see why they’ve been together so long, lovely couple ❤️

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