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Yanmorg
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posted June 01, 2018 07:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good morning,

I am currently trying to learn more about Moon-mars (preferably the hard aspects) in natal charts and how it affects their relationships with others.

Moon-mars seems very selfish and childish in relationships no matter what sign it’s in. When the arguments start, they turn into a world wind of passion and anger only to return to normal after it blows over.

How would a partner of someone with this combination, handle those outbursts?

My partner has Moon and mars in Virgo conjunct, opposite Saturn with mars and Saturn at 0 degrees!

I love him soo much, but sometimes his criticism and pessimism becomes unbearable.

And it doesn’t help AT ALL that my mars square that Moon-mars combo.

We have a Sun-Venus DW along with other major aspects so it’s hard to stay mad at him..

How can this aspec be better handled?

Moon conjunct mars in natal and how this aslects affects their relationships.

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hearttreasure
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posted June 01, 2018 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My husband has Moon opposite Mars. His Mercury conjunct Mars makes him even more combative in an argument and can be the meanest insensitive person. If he has this negative thoughts about you, it will lash out in an argument, won't hesitate to accuse you because he thinks he is RIGHT with his analysis.

How I handle the outbursts?

It depends on my mood and it depends how ridiculous his arguments are. I usually don't response fast, as I tend to think before I speak.

My Mars is in 12th house and it's in Sagittarius, I don't get easily angry but of course I listen and remember until I get bored of the same argument, of the same **** *y behavior of his, and until he is too far accusing me of something I don't do or never did.

If I am in a good mood, I'll try to find his soft spot until he calms down.

If I am not in a good mood, I will find the harsh truth to shut his mouth and it's usually succeeded.

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Yanmorg
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posted June 01, 2018 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
My husband has Moon opposite Mars. His Mercury conjunct Mars makes him even more combative in an argument and can be the meanest insensitive person. If he has this negative thoughts about you, it will lash out in an argument, won't hesitate to accuse you because he thinks he is RIGHT with his analysis.

How I handle the outbursts?

It depends on my mood and it depends how ridiculous his arguments are. I usually don't response fast, as I tend to think before I speak.

My Mars is in 12th house and it's in Sagittarius, I don't get easily angry but of course I listen and remember until I get bored of the same argument, of the same **** *y behavior of his, and until he is too far accusing me of something I don't do or never did.

If I am in a good mood, I'll try to find his soft spot until he calms down.

If I am not in a good mood, I will find the harsh truth to shut his mouth and it's usually succeeded.


You described my guy perfectly and myself actually!

So it IS that Moon-mars.

I took it personally at first until I realized this is just how he is. This is how he handles his emotions.

Whew. These are very passionate men!

I love it and hate it.

My mars is in Sagittarius on the 7H cusp but Aries rules my 12H!

Thanks for your reply. <3

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capricorncheriscty
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posted June 01, 2018 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My grandmother is a Moon-Mars opposition and she is literally the most childish and manipulative person ever, especially when she just starts random arguments with whoever whenever.
To make matters even worse, her sun is in Gemini, Moon is in Taurus conjunct Jupiter in Taurus , and Mercury is in CANCER. She is literally so whiny and childish. Not to mention, extremely selfish!! Everything she does is for her and if someone tries to bring up their feelings just once she'll instantly spin it so that she can make it about her. "Taurus Moon is exalted" my ass....I refuse to believe that. All the Taurus Moons I've met are ridiculous, not good with their emotions at all. I don't know how my grandfather put up with her....He honestly didn't even care for her that much and I'm sure it has to do with that added Moon-Mars situation. He was an Aries sun with Scorpio moon so he naturally dominated a room and he would always tell me how my grandmother would get on his nerves with her childish and argumentative behavior. I think Moon-Mars is nice to have in synastry, but natally it is not attractive at all! Makes for a drama queen, in the worst way.

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capricorncheriscty
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posted June 01, 2018 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Something else with my grandmother (Moon opp Mars) is that she is always accusing people of coming against her or accusing people of trying to hurt her or take her down or blah blah blah....the only time we have "come against" her is because she was being rude as heck to people she doesn't even know and we all had to put her in check. Whenever we "come against" her is solely because of her own fault to begin with. Other than that, she's just being delusional and manipulative, selfish, whiny, etc etc. I could go on for hours with this aspect....I had a friend with this aspect and she is also the worst to be around when she is in one of her moods. Just an evil little brat who always want to jump and yell at someone for something ridiculous.They think they are always right in their little temper tantrum accusations but most of the time they are horribly WRONG and just end up ruining things for themselves. I'm embarrassed to be around them sometimes...As someone who has a lot of Cap-Sag-Aqua-Pisces I cannot handle all of that childish behavior, it is too much.

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