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Topic: A ten year relationship
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EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 2225
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 02, 2018 07:50 AM
  
This is the synastry and composite of my ten year relationship. It ended 3.5 years ago. We were married for 2.5 of those 10 years. I have been looking at the charts today and was surprised to see:No nodal conjunctions
Venus sq Saturn DW (if we include semi square) There’s probably more I have missed. We loved each other dearly, were best friends and had each others back however it was a bit of a roller coaster. Mood swings. He was angry at the world. I copped a lot of it. But when we were good we were oh so good. Joy, laughter, silliness. We were like two peas in a pod. But then when the moodiness hit, the criticisms, emotional put downs it was tough. Even though I still find myself missing him and thinking of him often. But I know it couldn’t have worked. It’s a shame but I knew it had had its time. I just wanted to post this to say that even with those supposedly doomed aspects like Venus square Saturn, relationships can still work. Even if it’s just for a decade. I don’t regret what we had. His natal
 My natal
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Orange
Knowflake Posts: 7185
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted June 02, 2018 08:10 AM
are you sure you are not a Leo ASC ?If you are a Leo ASC ( after all, you do performing art/dance), then his Saturn would have conjuncted your ASC and that would explain the long term relationship that you had. IP: Logged |
EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 2225
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posted June 02, 2018 08:38 AM
Pretty sure I’m Scorpio asc as per my birth certificate but kannon rectified it to 7 Leo which wouldn’t put his Saturn on my asc anyway. My dance stuff would be explained by my scorpio decan apparently. But my Saturn and moon on his asc would give the long termness too wouldn’t it?? IP: Logged |
erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 1945
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted June 02, 2018 09:27 AM
There really isn't any doomed aspects in synastry...it is the natal that makes or breaks a relationship; you must study the natal to see what you want in a relationship.
The composite shows this relationship was a big let down, started out very romantic?IP: Logged |
EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 2225
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted June 02, 2018 09:31 AM
Ive posted the natals too.What in the composite shows that? Neptune opposing the stellium?
Yes it started out so romantic and sweet and as the years progressed stress got in the way, he became increasingly critical and it just fell apart  IP: Logged |
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