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Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted June 03, 2018 11:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have asked about my friend before in this forum. We have Venus-Mars conjunction in our synastry. At first, there definitely was some kind of sexual attraction to him, but as time went by, that started to fade. It’s a good thing for me actually, because I don’t have to feel conflicted all the time. But at the same time, I am also starting to see a lot more of our differences. I feel that he would not be a suitable partner for me even if I was single. Everyone in my school seems to think so, even one of my teachers. But I just know he’s not suitable.

He’s a really good friend of mine. He always brings me and my other friends food in school to share. Very generous, giving, and loving person. He treats me like a little sister and he pretty much is like a brother to me. He and I got along very well even when we first met (sun trine sun, I love it). We share the same sense of humor and we act really silly together. He is probably by far the funniest person I’ve ever met. He’s like sunshine to everybody’s life. He knows how to lift the mood. I know for sure I’ll fight anyone who tries to beef him.

I know he has some issues he is dealing with, but he tends to just ignore his problems and just cover it up with drugs and alcohol. He is quite indulgent and has the tendency to say things and not follow through. Then when he’s on the stuff or drunk, he’s not fun to be around anymore. His issues come out and projects it on other people. He almost got into a fight at a wedding we went to because he rubbed someone off the wrong way while drunk. He becomes a bully when he’s drunk. He publicly humiliated this one girl he didn’t like that came to his party one time. Me and the people around him constantly need to baby him when he’s drunk or on drugs. He doesn’t want to be treated that way, yet the way he acts gives off a different message.

I also started to notice that he gets on my nerves when he doesn’t know when to take things seriously. He is too casual with everything that he will even just tell people to stop telling him how to act. Maybe me and others are just being judgmental? It could be that too. But I know there are times when you can act silly and others where you need to be serious. He came up to a professor once and said “yo wassup” to him. I had to pull him aside and talk to the professor myself.

I was wondering if our synastry shows long-term friendship with him. I barely have any friends that I really consider as friends, but he is one of them. I know we have differences but I wonder if there’s stuff in our chart that can overcome them? We have a quite a couple of squares but also sextiles.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted June 03, 2018 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would like to respond, but I've lost interest in reverse engineering every chart that doesn't have the planet positions columns included so I can include declinations and make sure aspects are measured to the degree.

Consider re-posting the chart with the planet position columns included, and tell us what source you have for the birth times.

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