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astrosaz
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posted June 18, 2018 07:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not sure where the best place to post this is...

Is a typical thing for someone with Mars Square Uranus or Venus Square Pluto natal aspects to say ' I need someone to keep me on my toes ' ...

What does that mean and how do I do that? I have Venus square Uranus so I would think I'm pretty good at keeping someone on their toes, if it it's my interpetation of the saying.

Anyone with these aspects have the same feeling ?

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Randall
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posted June 20, 2018 11:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted June 21, 2018 03:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my ex-lovers was very good at keeping me on my toes. And i don't want to go trough this sh*t again, even though i have Mars trine Uranus. I never knew when he was going to cancel date again (i felt extremely hurt by it btw), and he cared way too much for his female best friend for my taste... He had his Uranus opposite my Sun and his Pluto square my Venus. I guess I was good at keeping him at his toes as well - he said that he never know what i'm going to do next. My Uranus was widely (4) squaring his Sun and probably conjunct his Moon.

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posted June 21, 2018 10:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for waxlobster     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well Mars-Uranus certainly steers clear of predictability and dullness :-)

I'm not sure what, "keep you on your toes" means as such though. That sounds a bit like game playing, and if so it could imply that the person is at a place where they want to explore, rather than have a relationship.

Venus-Uranus is a good match for a Mars-Uranus in terms of keeping everything interesting and away from the mundane. Gut feeling is this person is trying to say that they don't want a committed relationship at this point though.

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posted June 21, 2018 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Last guy I dated said I constantly kept him on his toes. Lol
Well maybe he should learn to walk appropriately ... k
Mars scorpio tropical
Mars libra Vedic

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astrosaz
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posted June 24, 2018 02:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to hear that Vixen, I HATE Venus 'harsh' aspects in synastry they make me feel sea sick! Yet they are so irresistable when they happen

Waxlobster I also don't know what he means by 'being kept on my toes' it's rather vague, I think many people have different interpetations

I just assumed that keeping someone on their toes means being unpredictable, playing hard to get? Which I can definitely do, but I don't want to do that forever. Can you be emotionally honest and vulnerable with someone and still keep them 'on their toes' hmmm..

Maybe he just means a woman who will hold him accountable and wont just roll over to every whim? It's definitely a vague saying


I'm also a Scorpio Mars tropical Desiring Shadows

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hypatia238
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posted June 24, 2018 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon square Uranus will keep you on your toes LOL

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posted June 24, 2018 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Someone who keeps you on your toes means someone who is spontaneous and always surprising you with something new and unexpected. You're walking on your tippy toes ready to keep flitting and jumping after them instead of slugging tragically flat on your feet, some people get bored of that. They pull you out of your more relaxed state and make you more accepting of spontaneity and adventure. Like Uranian and Jupiterian energy.

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posted June 24, 2018 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well my chart ruler Jupiter conjuncts Uranus which rules my 3rd house, I have always been rebellious and freedom loving, march to my own rhythm, my own person, think my own way, question things often, I value a lot intellectual freedom, always have. I like to keep people on their toes by saying things for shock value too just to see how they will react.

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posted June 29, 2018 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

quote:
Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Last guy I dated said I constantly kept him on his toes. Lol
Well maybe he should learn to walk appropriately ... k
Mars scorpio tropical
Mars libra Vedic

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hypatia238
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posted June 29, 2018 09:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think capricorn with venus in aquarius, venus in aquarius beliefs in change and sun in capricorn will hold you accountable and push you so those changes happen.

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TaurusVenusGirl
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posted June 30, 2018 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Mars square Uranus.

I definitely need to be kept on my toes in a relationship.

What that means to me, is not getting married, so I dont become complacent and work to keep my lover with me.

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posted June 30, 2018 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hypatia nailed it.

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