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margym0o
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posted June 28, 2018 10:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Mind putting in the data into this free synastry calculator here?

https://www.horoscopeyourself.com/relationship-horoscope/


They have this super helpful aspect analysis under "dominant features". I'm super curious what it would put out for these two, or if you have their birth data I could try it myself.


Wow cool website! I might have to play around with this myself.

Here is what it says for them under Dominant Features (warning it's long):

Dominant Features
The Dominant Features are a computerized sythesis of the horoscope that helps you to immediately notice and understand the most important patterns without spending a minute on counting elements, qualities or aspect types. These and more will be done and presented below for you.

Aspect Analysis
We have found 54 aspects in this Relationship horoscope. Our clasification based on type, actors and orbis marked 2 as Very Important, 5 as Important and 9 as Relevant aspects. The 38 other aspects are of Supplemental (27) or Marginal (11) influence. You can view them all further below and navigate them by using filters.

Aspect Count by Category
Aspect Category Harmonic Neutral Disharmonic
Karmic Influence 1 0 0
Uplifting Influence 1 1 0
Communication Barrier 0 0 1
Friendly Influence 8 0 0
Key Influence 3 0 0
Traumatic Influence 0 0 6
Emotional Influence 2 0 3
Attraction 2 1 2

Abundance of Friendly aspects (133% more as expected) brings a boost of communication, common topics, similar interests, opinions and ways of thinking.

Abundance of Traumatic aspects (51% more as expected) shows frustration, misunderstandings and conflicts. Both partners drain each other’s energies and a sense of separation is prevailing

Abundance of Key aspects (48% more as expected) brings direct, strong contact, intense sympathies or antipathies, mutual understanding, a similar wave length or differences that can balance the couple. In case of forming a relationship these aspects can strength the ties and add depth to it.

A lack of Communication Barrier aspects (54% less as expected) shows little difficulties in communication and no significant differences in thinking. However, whether good understanding and easy communication will be present is not indicated by this influence.

A lack of Karmic aspects (69% less as expected) shows that this relationship can have a lot of advantages but no irrational, inexplicable or spiritual bonds that could feel heavy but also enriching.

A lack of Uplifiting aspects (70% less as expected) gives such relationship a higher risk of boredom, routines or a clumsy, awkward feeling, especially in the later phases. On the other hand, stability is easier to achieve.

A lack of mutual Opposition aspects (6) means a tendency for one-sided relationships and therefore imbalances. Missing perspective and broader views can lead to confusions.

Mutual Completion
Man has none of the characteristics that we look for and would be missed by Woman.
Woman has none of the characteristics that we look for and would be missed by Man.

Shared Similarities
Emphasized North hemisphere in both partners shows extroversion and much interest for the outside world in both. This relationship might lack a personal foundation, interest in home and inner matters.

Emphasized Autumn zodiac quadrant in both partners shows a union of two personalities oriented on group integration, interpersonal relations and the spread of experiences.

Venus as Evening Star (Phosporus), in both partners shows a union of two emotionally cautios personalities with a tendency for restraint and analysis.

Shared Weakneses
Both partners are missing influence of the Southern hemisphere therefore this relationship might enforce their difficulties in understanding their own inner world and developing connections to their roots and inner needs.

Woman prefers a Neptune relationship, his/her life is focused on ideals, fantasy (romance, passion or illusion), communion of bodies and souls, love infatuation even intoxication. This relationship is like an escape from reality, he/she puts everything into it, all the love and energy; but expects that Man will do the same, which, however, may not be always possible.

Man prefers a Sun relationship, therefore his/her relationship life is centred around attention, creativity, self-confidence, pride, authority, and vitality; but also egoism, egocentrism or domineering. He/she puts everything, all the love and energy into this relationship and expects that Woman will do the same, which, however, may not be always possible.

Additional information
Many planets of the woman standing in the tenth house of the man helps him to find his social or spiritual identity and direct his career. She influences his reputation, social standing or profession strongly and can hold a position of authority, in some ways like a father figure.

Composite soli-lunar phase LAST QUARTER MOON indicates that the couple may together act rigorously, reformist and purposeful. The relationship makes it important to always review the current status quo and assert beliefs in society. A bigger emphasis to prepare a common ground for a common future.

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posted June 30, 2018 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
My point is that TSQUARES are very powerful in composite and synastry, period. Any astrological pattern that has an apex means that energy is building up and that leads to powerful connections/emotions.



The more I learn about astrology, the more I understand I know nothing!

It feels like I try to grasp the basics, like asc and how this or that aspect plays out etc. Building blocks really.

Its just now I start to think and wonder about t-squares, kites etc! I have so much to learn, I get so frustrated!

Oh and Hypatia, I will reply to 2 posts that you wrote in! I just had to take a time out froom thinking too much about synastry and pluto and 8th house and moon etc . This crush will linger in a little longer for me it seems.

But pluto really want to understand, so he can learn from the mistakes, destroy and move on! For now, I have one foot out the door and one foot in the building!

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posted June 30, 2018 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Composite tsquares are ridiculously powerful IMO.

1. We fell in love: composite Venus opposite Moon forming tsquare with Neptune conjunct agapenor exact. Neptune the higher octave of venus at the apex of tsquare.

2. He fell in love: composite venus conjunct jupiter and southnode all opposite moon forming a tsquare with Neptune conjunct AMOR.

3. I feel we are both falling in love: composite venus opposite moon forming a tsquare with Neptune conjunct Amor. Plus venus conjunct Jupiter, Jupiter conjunct Southnode.

I cannot emphasize enough that tsquares are very powerful in composites, I feel them hard, more so than kites.

That couple has a beautiful tsquare between venus opposite Mars with Neptune at the apex of tsquare and then this astrological pattern is connected to a second astrological pattern as the composite moon is at the point of thales of that venus opposite mars (trining and sextiling that lovely opposition). When two astrological patterns interconnect like that, this is very powerful. Add Pluto on the MC forming a sextile to Neptune the apex of the tsquare. See all the connections attaching themselves to that tsquare?

As for the synastry the house overlay is nice, Sun/Mars/Northnode on the other person's 5th house square their moon and trine their sun in the 8th. Venus conjunct Moon in Leo in the 8th on the other person's 7th house is an aspect conducive to marriage. Venus conjunct Saturn on their 11th also binding. But to comment more on the synastry I would need the wheel that shows you the placements and degrees at the bottom, there could important minor aspects at play.


UPDATE/CORRECTION and MORE KEY INFO:

So example number 3 needs to be corrected, he had giving me his wrong birthdate but now with his right birthdate it makes even more sense why I fell for him and got so attached so quickly.

3. In Davison we have Venus in the 11th opposite Pluto in the 5th forming a TSQUARE with MOON in the 8th at the APEX! BAM. hahaha, In composite venus conjunct sun, venus conjunct pluto, moon square pluto.

1. With the first guy we had that moon in the 5th opposite venus in the 11th forming a tsquare with neptune conjunct agapenor in the 2nd plus we had a sun-pluto-valentine-mars tight stellium. In Davison we had venus conjunct moon. We fell hard for each other. I will add neptune rules his 7th so that tsquare was probably perfect for him falling in love.

2. Now the second guy I did not fall for him, he fell for me, he has a bunch of quintile energy in his chart and my venus conjunct mars formed a dw quintile aspect with his venus and mars ect...We had the venus opposite moon forming a tsquare with neptune but in the 6th/12th/3rd house and not a strong pluto presence in the composite. I enjoyed talking with him a lot, I remember our conversations fondly, we did have a connection but I did not fall for him. I will add that neptune rules his 7th so that tsquare was probably perfect for him falling in love.

So I think a tsquare is very powerful but the houses it falls on makes a BIG difference in how that power will manifest itself. I feel pluto gives that feeling of I will always love you and have a strong bond with you.

For me to feel IN LOVE, I need a pluto steliium or pluto tsquare happening in the davison or composite. Those are my conclusions.


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So Yes Margy, I feel your instincts could be right about them. Looking at their tsquare more closely and that lack of pluto presence in their composite chart I am NOT convinced they are in love. ***The ruler of the 2nd is Neptune falling in the 12th and Neptune is the APEX of that tsquare, she could be with him for the money (2nd house ruler in the 12th, ulterior motives). There is not a strong pluto influence in their composite chart either. Add what I mentioned earlier about Saturn rulling their composite chart and falling in the 10th giving it a more business like theme, focusing more around appearances and how they appear to others.

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posted June 30, 2018 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
4. I do have one example of someone I fell for that I did not not have a tsquare in composite or davison.

In composite we had Venus conjunct Pluto square Jupiter. We also had Pluto in the 10th inconjunct Moon forming a YOD with EROS in the 5th house.

5th house, pluto/venus, pluto/moon seem to be a pattern for markers of falling in love.

The tsquare though is more powerful bc it builds up the energy I feel between moon/pluto/venus.

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posted June 30, 2018 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Melinn:
The more I learn about astrology, the more I understand I know nothing!

It feels like I try to grasp the basics, like asc and how this or that aspect plays out etc. Building blocks really.

Its just now I start to think and wonder about t-squares, kites etc! I have so much to learn, I get so frustrated!

Oh and Hypatia, I will reply to 2 posts that you wrote in! I just had to take a time out froom thinking too much about synastry and pluto and 8th house and moon etc . This crush will linger in a little longer for me it seems.

But pluto really want to understand, so he can learn from the mistakes, destroy and move on! For now, I have one foot out the door and one foot in the building!


I totally understand! I have avoided this section of the forum in the past bc it would get me thinking too much about my ex LOL.

Looking forward to your responses .

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posted July 01, 2018 02:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
COMPOSITE
the trine moon-venus exact in composite in house 5-9 is SUPER good to feel good in a relationship.

sun in 8th although heavy, add intensity to sexual/intimate relationship. they can see each other vulnerability and bring to each other awareness. while this may too much on occasion the moon-venus and the easy aspect from jupiter which add a lighthearted and romantic position (moon in 5th) helps a lot. they must enjoy lot of travelling and thinking beyond the day to day situation and this is really helpful in long term relationships. Jupiter in 12 bring digging into collective subconscious which reinforce the 8th sun placement. there is a danger of being influenced for good or bad by the vibes of the psychic environment.

mars-venus opposition... that is good for a sexual relationship in my opinion. added to the easy aspect mars-moon, makes their instintive desire to blend. sometimes one of them can come too strong on the other, but the moon-venus compensate for that rough aspect, which is good for sexuality and expression of emotions, but not to sensitive to feelings.

I Do not like the neptune-mars square. that suggest either cheating and lying (mars in 3rd) or acting in a way that is misunderstood by the other as cheating. however, the easy aspect mercury uranus suggest they can be blunt to each other and open to be challenged in their thinking, but also realistic and not so dreamy when looking at each other (saturn-mercury). this couple seems to receive influence (neptune-jupiter) from phychic forces in the environment. they need to be careful with whom they normally interact as a couple. their energy together seems to be a magnet for energies out there. I believe that sun iluminating 8th house stuff helps this couple to see each other dark sides. pluto in 10 suggest that they are perceived as powerful and even threatening. the 8th house sun is SEEN by others by this pluto placement.

overall, i see that composite is not bad as sun and moon receive more positive aspect (sun-jupiter and moon-venus). position of moon in 5th house. the mars-neptune seems to be the more negative aspect, but depending on each other level of maturity and moral values it can be dealt with as there is lot of realism in the chart (AC capricorn, mercury-saturn) and awareness of dark side of each other (sun in 8th). while there is intensity and seriusness, there is also lighhearted influences.

later post on synastry and analysis of interface composite with natals of each other

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posted July 01, 2018 03:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i need to see the aspect grid of synastry. without degrees here it is difficult to see aspect orbs and such...

the sun-moon aspect is powerful in synastry. even if difficult aspect. his sun in gemini resonates with the moon in 3rd added that the ruler of his 7th. he can express himself easily in her presense and that is very important to gemini 7th house. ruler of moon-venus (sun) aspect her moon. so the hole is not so much if you think that venus-moon is connected through the sun. i suspect that his sun must be around 26 degrees of gemini. if that so, his sun conjunct composite moon and that is powerful...

she has sun-mercury conjunction. that in itself makes her a mercurial person, exactly what resonates with his gemini 7th house and that conjunction trines his sun-mars in 7th. sun-sun aspect are very important and in his case sun is ruler of his 8th. the composite of sun in 8th is brought in synastry when her sun aspect his sun ruler of 8th.her sun-mercury in 8th is very appealing to him. having moon-venus in LEO makes him to like a woman with presense. the two qualities that most resonates with his likes (gemini 7th house and venus-moon in leo) are brought to the 10 house of him. here you go, a woman that makes him looks more glamorous and mercurial. and that is soooo good for his needs. her pluto square his moon, her uranus trine his moon, neptune quincunx his moon.

when we look at rulerships, we can see he is also touched by her, not only her. i will dig into this once you post the aspect grid. without this, many aspect maybe off...

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posted July 01, 2018 03:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StoneMoon:
there's also the Pluto square moon and pluto sextile mars happening... that can be pretty strong.

and very important to him as his moon-venus are in 8th house. he needs intensity, which the sun 8th house in composite fullfills

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posted July 01, 2018 03:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
after seeing the aspect grid with the trine sun-sun orb, i think it is too wide. in my personal experience (my own synastries with people) i do not see minor aspect such as quintiles playing a mayor role when lack of major aspects are. in my opinion, he is not so much into her as she is into him, but people marry for different reasons and he may have married her for having a troppy wife. her sun-mercury in his 10 suggest that she really makes him good. you have already said that she is more attractive that him. the moon-pluto is tight orb, but it is her pluto. that add to her intensity of feelings. my experience is that it is the pluto person who needs to dominate and owns the moon.

i need to see his natal chart with the degree of planets to see if composite makes an important aspect to his natal. that could explain the impact of relationship over him. sometimes people are impacted by the relationship and not by the person itself.

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posted July 01, 2018 03:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for nordicsoul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Wow cool website! I might have to play around with this myself.

Here is what it says for them under Dominant Features (warning it's long):

Dominant Features
The Dominant Features are a computerized sythesis of the horoscope that helps you to immediately notice and understand the most important patterns without spending a minute on counting elements, qualities or aspect types. These and more will be done and presented below for you.

Aspect Analysis
We have found 54 aspects in this Relationship horoscope. Our clasification based on type, actors and orbis marked 2 as Very Important, 5 as Important and 9 as Relevant aspects. The 38 other aspects are of Supplemental (27) or Marginal (11) influence. You can view them all further below and navigate them by using filters.

Aspect Count by Category
Aspect Category Harmonic Neutral Disharmonic
Karmic Influence 1 0 0
Uplifting Influence 1 1 0
Communication Barrier 0 0 1
Friendly Influence 8 0 0
Key Influence 3 0 0
Traumatic Influence 0 0 6
Emotional Influence 2 0 3
Attraction 2 1 2

Abundance of Friendly aspects (133% more as expected) brings a boost of communication, common topics, similar interests, opinions and ways of thinking.

Abundance of Traumatic aspects (51% more as expected) shows frustration, misunderstandings and conflicts. Both partners drain each other’s energies and a sense of separation is prevailing

Abundance of Key aspects (48% more as expected) brings direct, strong contact, intense sympathies or antipathies, mutual understanding, a similar wave length or differences that can balance the couple. In case of forming a relationship these aspects can strength the ties and add depth to it.

A lack of Communication Barrier aspects (54% less as expected) shows little difficulties in communication and no significant differences in thinking. However, whether good understanding and easy communication will be present is not indicated by this influence.

A lack of Karmic aspects (69% less as expected) shows that this relationship can have a lot of advantages but no irrational, inexplicable or spiritual bonds that could feel heavy but also enriching.

A lack of Uplifiting aspects (70% less as expected) gives such relationship a higher risk of boredom, routines or a clumsy, awkward feeling, especially in the later phases. On the other hand, stability is easier to achieve.

A lack of mutual Opposition aspects (6) means a tendency for one-sided relationships and therefore imbalances. Missing perspective and broader views can lead to confusions.

Mutual Completion
Man has none of the characteristics that we look for and would be missed by Woman.
Woman has none of the characteristics that we look for and would be missed by Man.

Shared Similarities
Emphasized North hemisphere in both partners shows extroversion and much interest for the outside world in both. This relationship might lack a personal foundation, interest in home and inner matters.

Emphasized Autumn zodiac quadrant in both partners shows a union of two personalities oriented on group integration, interpersonal relations and the spread of experiences.

Venus as Evening Star (Phosporus), in both partners shows a union of two emotionally cautios personalities with a tendency for restraint and analysis.

Shared Weakneses
Both partners are missing influence of the Southern hemisphere therefore this relationship might enforce their difficulties in understanding their own inner world and developing connections to their roots and inner needs.

Woman prefers a Neptune relationship, his/her life is focused on ideals, fantasy (romance, passion or illusion), communion of bodies and souls, love infatuation even intoxication. This relationship is like an escape from reality, he/she puts everything into it, all the love and energy; but expects that Man will do the same, which, however, may not be always possible.

Man prefers a Sun relationship, therefore his/her relationship life is centred around attention, creativity, self-confidence, pride, authority, and vitality; but also egoism, egocentrism or domineering. He/she puts everything, all the love and energy into this relationship and expects that Woman will do the same, which, however, may not be always possible.

Additional information
Many planets of the woman standing in the tenth house of the man helps him to find his social or spiritual identity and direct his career. She influences his reputation, social standing or profession strongly and can hold a position of authority, in some ways like a father figure.

Composite soli-lunar phase LAST QUARTER MOON indicates that the couple may together act rigorously, reformist and purposeful. The relationship makes it important to always review the current status quo and assert beliefs in society. A bigger emphasis to prepare a common ground for a common future.


good tool, thanks for link

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posted July 01, 2018 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for capricorncheriscty     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
COMPOSITE
the trine moon-venus exact in composite in house 5-9 is SUPER good to feel good in a relationship.

sun in 8th although heavy, add intensity to sexual/intimate relationship. they can see each other vulnerability and bring to each other awareness. while this may too much on occasion the moon-venus and the easy aspect from jupiter which add a lighthearted and romantic position (moon in 5th) helps a lot. they must enjoy lot of travelling and thinking beyond the day to day situation and this is really helpful in long term relationships. Jupiter in 12 bring digging into collective subconscious which reinforce the 8th sun placement. there is a danger of being influenced for good or bad by the vibes of the psychic environment.

mars-venus opposition... that is good for a sexual relationship in my opinion. added to the easy aspect mars-moon, makes their instintive desire to blend. sometimes one of them can come too strong on the other, but the moon-venus compensate for that rough aspect, which is good for sexuality and expression of emotions, but not to sensitive to feelings.

I Do not like the neptune-mars square. that suggest either cheating and lying (mars in 3rd) or acting in a way that is misunderstood by the other as cheating. however, the easy aspect mercury uranus suggest they can be blunt to each other and open to be challenged in their thinking, but also realistic and not so dreamy when looking at each other (saturn-mercury). this couple seems to receive influence (neptune-jupiter) from phychic forces in the environment. they need to be careful with whom they normally interact as a couple. their energy together seems to be a magnet for energies out there. I believe that sun iluminating 8th house stuff helps this couple to see each other dark sides. pluto in 10 suggest that they are perceived as powerful and even threatening. the 8th house sun is SEEN by others by this pluto placement.

overall, i see that composite is not bad as sun and moon receive more positive aspect (sun-jupiter and moon-venus). position of moon in 5th house. the mars-neptune seems to be the more negative aspect, but depending on each other level of maturity and moral values it can be dealt with as there is lot of realism in the chart (AC capricorn, mercury-saturn) and awareness of dark side of each other (sun in 8th). while there is intensity and seriusness, there is also lighhearted influences.

later post on synastry and analysis of interface composite with natals of each other


I have heard that the 8th house in inner planets in the composite makes it hard for a couple to part, even if they are not really compatible. It's like gorilla glue, they're just so committed to each other even if it may seem like there is something not "correct" about their being together....as an 8th house person natally I can see how this would play out in a composite, it makes you very intense, everything you do and everything you say with each other is intense and you REALLY mean it, every action, every word and that's why it can be hard to break it off and let go. I don't think the effect would be the same if we are talking about outer planets in the composite (uranus-neptune-pluto) bc those planets represent more so how others see you two as a couple than how you see yourselves being together (inner composite).

Therefore, I think it is their Sun in 8th that is really bonding them like glue despite OP feeling as though they are "astrologically challenged". Personally, I don't think the synastry was too bad but to blatantly answer OP's question I will also say that it is because of composite Sun in 8th that they haven't parted despite. Moon trine venus is also good.

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Could you post the Davison chart, too?

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posted July 09, 2018 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Could you post the Davison chart, too?

Davison chart:

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posted July 09, 2018 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by nordicsoul:
after seeing the aspect grid with the trine sun-sun orb, i think it is too wide. in my personal experience (my own synastries with people) i do not see minor aspect such as quintiles playing a mayor role when lack of major aspects are. in my opinion, he is not so much into her as she is into him, but people marry for different reasons and he may have married her for having a troppy wife. her sun-mercury in his 10 suggest that she really makes him good. you have already said that she is more attractive that him. the moon-pluto is tight orb, but it is her pluto. that add to her intensity of feelings. my experience is that it is the pluto person who needs to dominate and owns the moon.

i need to see his natal chart with the degree of planets to see if composite makes an important aspect to his natal. that could explain the impact of relationship over him. sometimes people are impacted by the relationship and not by the person itself.


His natal:

Her natal:

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posted July 09, 2018 03:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Davison chart:

Venus/Mars/Saturn points to the attraction, and the stability between the two. While Moon opposite Saturn indicates a close emotional bond. I love the Moon/Venus trine, it adds a very comfortable feeling to the relationship.

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Synastry charts on their own aren't everything. Look into solstice points (just learned about those), declinations, and the draconic synastry. Looking at those will often fill in missing information. For example, without knowing the decrees I can see that her solstice Moon is conjunct his South Node/Nodal axis and his Sun/Mars are contrascia her Jupiter. Those are excellent connections for a married couple. That T-square in their Davison is very binding as well. Sun in the 8th house Composite, Venus on the 9th house cusp and Moon in the 5th...couldn't get any better I think. I have those placements for Sun and Moon with someone I'm very attracted to!

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Looking at the synastry I honestly thought that someone is definitely lying about their birth date out of the two. There is nothing.
Her Dsc ruler Moon is in Pisces, he mirrors that with Neptune in his first house.
He has Venus in H8, she mirrors this with her Scorpio Venus.
And that's it!!
No relationship potential at all judging by the synastry, let alone marriage.

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posted August 07, 2018 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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margym0o
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posted August 08, 2018 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HelixID:
Looking at the synastry I honestly thought that someone is definitely lying about their birth date out of the two. There is nothing.
Her Dsc ruler Moon is in Pisces, he mirrors that with Neptune in his first house.
He has Venus in H8, she mirrors this with her Scorpio Venus.
And that's it!!
No relationship potential at all judging by the synastry, let alone marriage.

They're not lying!

I guess everyone has a different take on it...

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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted August 08, 2018 02:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I mean yes the synastry does seem very INACTIVE, I look at my synastry with people I like and have lasted with and there is a lot of action and lines everywhere (just checked three synastry charts and with all three I have a butterfly pattern with each) BUT that moon square pluto generates emotional intensity and that moon aspect mars double whammy generates attraction along with sun square moon even though they are challenging aspects.

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posted August 13, 2018 01:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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