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Topic: Is this a significant composite?
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Randall
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From: From a galaxy, far, far away...
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posted July 15, 2018 08:55 PM
  
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cultstatus
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From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 18, 2018 01:48 AM
We’ve only hung out on three occasions but it has already clear the 8th house composite influence. It is very intense - it feels uncomfortable because we don’t even really know each other to feel such a depth of feeling. I’ve kind of dipped out for the time being because I don’t want to lose control of myself so I found a reason to block communication. I also can’t see past the age issue at the moment. And it feels like it wants to be a deep and meaningful relationship but my rational mind is saying not to go there. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 22, 2018 07:14 PM
It’s over. He basically just used me, in my eyes. And when I asked if he wanted to see me again he said I don’t know (so no). I thought it was a strong composite, I’m shocked that things ended so quickly and coldly with such a composite. How does this corellate to the chart? IP: Logged |
todd
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posted July 22, 2018 07:29 PM
it seems that chiron conjunct the node and opposed to Saturn manifested the controlling and distant vibration.
in addition the mars/pluto midpoint is square to the sun/venus conjunction which goes along with how he treated you in the end .
I can't see the transits that would correlate with his behavior now
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cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 23, 2018 07:24 PM
Hi ToddThank you for the reply - are you able to check the updated composite I posted half way down the first page? That’s when he provided his accurate birth time to Vhiron not on node etc. I’m still in shock that I have gotten it so wrong with this person. IP: Logged |
todd
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posted July 23, 2018 09:23 PM
okay
I checked the composite and it has vertex on the descendant square to Neptune/Uranus.
this shows the active deception that occurred and with vertex on the descendant there was a destinical/karmic feeling generated.in addition with Uranus/Jupiter midpoint conjunct to Neptune, the sudden breakup came with no warning.also your node at 14aries24 is square to Neptune and your mars/moon at 14arie6 is conjunct the composite Neptune . so the deceptive energy totally overwhelmed you emotional/desire body energies todd IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 23, 2018 10:26 PM
Thank you ToddIt’s just crazy that that kind of a composite would be for such a fleeting connection? I don’t even have this type of composite with close friends? I have no idea what to even take from the situation other than to start to believe that I shouldn’t believe in anyone. IP: Logged |
todd
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 23, 2018 10:38 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
Thank you ToddIt’s just crazy that that kind of a composite would be for such a fleeting connection? I don’t even have this type of composite with close friends? I have no idea what to even take from the situation other than to start to believe that I shouldn’t believe in anyone.
I think the vertex on the descendant is really to blame. it can give a sense of karma or destiny and then with Neptune, the deceptive quality is hidden. i always preface vertex ascendant conjunction with the warning that this aspect,though often very strong ,does not always translate into a element of the relationship. though in your case the Neptune square certainly worked out deceptively. todd IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 23, 2018 10:53 PM
So accurate. If felt so karmic and destined. Like I’d met someone so important that it was hard to see past it and see it as someone I actually didn’t know at all. IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 23, 2018 10:59 PM
If the composite affects both individuals why did I cope the deception element of it? Does he not feel the intensity to the same level? IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 1947
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 24, 2018 03:12 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
If the composite affects both individuals why did I cope the deception element of it? Does he not feel the intensity to the same level?
I think one reason is that Saturn is opposed Chiron and the south node. this shows a underlying manipulative and domineering stance. another point is that he used the Neptune/vertex energy in a controlling deceptive manner and you were feeling the vertex/Neptune in a spiritual manner. as I have said the vertex is very tricky when applying it's energy to the rest of the chart/relationship. you would think that the spiritual/karmic connection would mean certain realizations from him...... but these did not occur. he used the vertex energy for it's basic energy. I mean that the vertex is a energy source that brings"cosmic" content, but it is also just an intense energy, devoid of theoretical qualities. todd IP: Logged |
cultstatus
Knowflake Posts: 358
From: Australia
Registered: Nov 2014
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posted July 24, 2018 09:20 PM
So interesting, I do understand what you're saying. It seems to be from experience with a few people that the descendant being activated is kind of inherently bad? Like if the square was toward the ascendant would you see this manifest more positively? IP: Logged |
margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 1085
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 25, 2018 09:25 AM
I am sorry you're going through this. More than just the astrology part of it, sometimes things just don't work out for "real life" reasons. The age spread was a concern for you from the beginning. Perhaps he sensed your hesitation? You also admitted to putting the relationship on a bit of a "time out" because you felt it was too intense too soon so maybe he had issue with that. Did your timelines in life match up? Did you feel as though you were on a similar path? I feel as though timing is EVERYTHING when it comes to relationships. If we are not mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually or otherwise ready to accept the love of another (this goes for him too) we can cross paths with someone who we might be compatible with, or not. People grow and change and sometimes meeting later in life matches you with someone more suited for you. If all other "real life" factors had been aligned perhaps this composite would have had a better chance. IP: Logged |
todd
Knowflake Posts: 1947
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 25, 2018 05:59 PM
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Originally posted by cultstatus:
So interesting, I do understand what you're saying. It seems to be from experience with a few people that the descendant being activated is kind of inherently bad? Like if the square was toward the ascendant would you see this manifest more positively?
I consider the asc and dsc the same entity. they are endpoints of a mathematical axis. so I don't think it would make any difference whence the aspect was closer to the desc or the asc. the over riding problem is the strange nature of the vertex's energy.
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