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virgolotus
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posted July 07, 2018 02:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello, Goobers
Itís been awhile.. I lost touch with astrology until I remembered why I got into it in the first place. I turned to it in my time of need. 💙 I need any interpretations you catch on this synastry. One thing I can point out which is very true to us is the Moon (them) opposite Venus (me). Iím an on the inside in blue. Please dissect a bit more for me! Truly greatful for any feedback.

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posted July 07, 2018 03:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is our composite. Itís the first time I look at it and already I fear that 12th house.

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posted July 07, 2018 04:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Neptune is so prominent.. and so is the Piscean energy.
How sad..

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LunaIscariot
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posted July 07, 2018 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is this a romantic synastry?

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posted July 07, 2018 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Is this a romantic synastry?

Yes it is. With my soon to be ex-partner if we donít remedy this..

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virgolotus
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posted July 07, 2018 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does it not seem like a romantic synastry?

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posted July 07, 2018 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Unfortunately no, it doesnít look like a good romantic synastry.
I would like to see mutual overlays to the 5th, 7th, or 8th houses or symbolism matches.
And more harmonious aspects between the inner planets.
I also always look for compatible moons for any long term compatibility potential especially if the partners are going to be living together.

You two have square moons by sign, Aries and cap.
These are very incompatible signs.
You have a cap moon, so you are cautious and more reserved in your emotional expression. And you have a deep need for security and stability.
He is Aries moon, so he is very impatient, irritable and quick to anger or become annoyed. He can have outbursts and be very animated emotionally.
This can really get on your nerves after awhile, youíll feel he is immature or too impulsive/reckless.

I like the same venus signs, means you have a compatible love nature/style and way of expressing and receiving love. You both strongly value harmony and balance in your relationships. Enjoy doing things as a partnership and just being together etc.

Also the conjunct angles is a powerful connection, very binding and magnetic and usually indicates a soulmate type relationship.
But this is still a poor romantic synastry, not enough positive interaspects or any overlays to the romance houses besides his moon in your 5th (and his mars in your 8th but you already have that Natally so itís not gonna be felt much for you since youíre so used to it).
Symbolism wise we have his Saturn in the 7th which matches your moon in cap, and his ASC ruler sun in Virgo in his 2nd house matches your Taurus rising. And your stellium in the 11th matches his aqua DSC and his stellium in the 2nd matches your Taurus DSC. And your Virgo stellium matches his DSC ruler in the 6th....
Oh and your mars in the 8th resonates with his Aries moon...
But I donít think itís strong enough for real sustained attraction. I like to see at least 1 personal planet in the actual sign of the other persons DSC, 5th house or 8th house.
The composite doesnít look much better.

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posted July 07, 2018 05:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never noticed the angles being in conjunction. Our relationship is very magnetic and when weíre together itís like perfect harmony! But his Aries nature does get to me in the sense that he is very sloppy, childish, and defensive (quick to anger).
When weíre apart I crave him physically because of how ďcloseĒ and harmonious we appear to be (Venus) but heís very absent emotionally.
I tried to be passive about what I donít like, but the relationship just got very stagnant.
He asked me if I would live with him but have our seperate rooms. I thought it was a joke, but realized that it was a thing and that it would probably work.
Iím very confused. I am so drawn to him and it almost feels like I might ďLoveĒ him, but I donít see myself being happy long-term if he stays emotionally/romantically withdrawn.

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posted July 07, 2018 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes all the angles conjunct is rare but very powerful.
I think the lack of emotional connection is because the moon in composite is pretty lonely only making one aspect and itís pretty wide. So itís hard to emotionally connect in this relationship

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posted July 07, 2018 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Yes all the angles conjunct is rare but very powerful.
I think the lack of emotional connection is because the moon in composite is pretty lonely only making one aspect and itís pretty wide. So itís hard to emotionally connect in this relationship

Thank you for your insight.

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posted July 07, 2018 07:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LunaIscariot     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh nvm itís not wide itís 2 degrees lol on my phone it looked like a 7

And youíre welcome 😊

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posted July 07, 2018 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi virgolotus

you hhve composite venus square to Uranus and Neptune which shows a very intense sexual/emotional/psyche connection. but Uranus makes this totally unstable. I ssume that this is recent hook up , I would expect some time in January,though you might have met towards the last of 2017.
it looks the intensity peaked in may and quicly went down hill since then.

it seems he turned off at the end of may as the south node was conjunct to the Saturn/Neptune midpoint then. but worse, Neptune/Saturn midpoint shows he is being deceptive and most likely has met someone else that he is more interested in than you.

he may string you out for a month or so but the he will end the relationship by late September if not before.

Uranus relationships are like comets the come suddenly and burn brightly but they eclipse just as quickly as they arrived.

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posted July 08, 2018 04:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgolotus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by todd:
hi virgolotus

you hhve composite venus square to Uranus and Neptune which shows a very intense sexual/emotional/psyche connection. but Uranus makes this totally unstable. I ssume that this is recent hook up , I would expect some time in January,though you might have met towards the last of 2017.
it looks the intensity peaked in may and quicly went down hill since then.

it seems he turned off at the end of may as the south node was conjunct to the Saturn/Neptune midpoint then. but worse, Neptune/Saturn midpoint shows he is being deceptive and most likely has met someone else that he is more interested in than you.

he may string you out for a month or so but the he will end the relationship by late September if not before.

Uranus relationships are like comets the come suddenly and burn brightly but they eclipse just as quickly as they arrived.

todd


I actually already broke it off. Just didnít want any pretext. Weíve known each other since late 2013 but in March this year we made it official. We decided to be ďjust friendsĒ but he keeps trying to grab my attention by being his playful self and pushing my buttons.

Another interesting note! Right after I broke it off he got into a car wreck not even minutes after! Yikes! I had a bad feeling before he told me the next morning. Could it be a karmic sign? Uranus, maybe?

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posted July 08, 2018 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by virgolotus:
I actually already broke it off. Just didnít want any pretext. Weíve known each other since late 2013 but in March this year we made it official. We decided to be ďjust friendsĒ but he keeps trying to grab my attention by being his playful self and pushing my buttons.

Another interesting note! Right after I broke it off he got into a car wreck not even minutes after! Yikes! I had a bad feeling before he told me the next morning. Could it be a karmic sign? Uranus, maybe?


a car wreck that is car-mic alright.
it reminds of when Calvin harris broke up with talyor swift, he got into a car accident also. that was a pluto/venus transit. I know a woman that was brought up in Calvin Harris's hometown and she had a friend that dated him. actually I think talyor swift broke up with him, even though just one week earlier she a twitted that they were doing so well. it seems that in that period of time calvin was seen going into a massage parlor in their home town, for a.. ahem.. full body massage. I think talyor found out and abruptly ditched him before the accident.

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posted July 14, 2018 08:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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