posted July 09, 2018 05:22 PM            

Should I continue feeding what I feel for her or should I just forget her?

posted July 09, 2018 05:39 PM            

You guys have a lot in common chart-wise, even though you were born two years apart.

I like the Sun/Neptune double whammy, very dreamy and romantic. The Mercury conjunct Mercury, leads to good communication. Her Venus conjunct your Uranus equals excitement. Your Venus sextile her Mars is nice for attraction.

posted July 09, 2018 07:00 PM            

Well the synastry looks nice. While Venus/Uranus can point to excitement, but also a bit of instability.

posted July 09, 2018 07:10 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
I see.

Well the synastry looks nice. While Venus/Uranus can point to excitement, but also a bit of instability.

If you’re worried that you came on too strong, you could try and pull back a little, and give her some time to miss you.

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posted July 09, 2018 07:43 PM            

Your moon and IC is conjunct her ASC (which is also your IC ruler). So this is a very binding and magnetic connection, she affects your emotions in a very deep and intense way since your moon, IC and IC ruler are all involved and one in the same. You are probably very attached and feel very connected to her. Lots of feelings of comfort and security and trust.
This is the main highlight of your connection with her.

The main issue is the t-square with both your moons, mars and her jupiter/Saturn.
Your moons being opposite tells me you don’t understand each other on an emotional level since you’re so different and have very different needs/ways of expressing your emotions. She doesn’t like to express her emotions and likes to stay in control and doesn’t feel comfortable with emotional displays or overly effusive people. You can be very moody or changeable and she may have a hard time with this.
You’re probably too emotional/sensitive for her liking and she feels overwhelmed by you or just doesn’t understand and it can irritate or be a turn off for her. Especially since her Saturn squares your moon, she may be critical towards your emotions or feel you are immature.

Your Saturn square her sun can also feel restrictive to her, she may feel like she can’t fully express herself in a spontaneous way that you will approve of. She may feel judged by you.
Your Uranus conjunct her venus means her affections for you run hot and cold or are erratic. This is usually a fling or short term affair with this aspect since one or both peoples feeling for each other are unstable.

posted July 09, 2018 11:12 PM            

Moon square Saturn can be binding and be part of the reason why you don't want to let go and want work on the relationship.

Moon opposite moon forming a tsquare with Jupiter conjunct Saturn can be a big reason why you two developed feelings for each other as saturn makes you want to commit and take the other seriously and jupiter expands the feelings and attraction generated from that moon opposite moon while saturn helps ground you two emotionally and give you a desire to work on the relationship.

I find tsquares are very binding and powerful bc energy builds up between the two planets that are opposing and then release with the planet at the apex like an explosion.

I have a sag client with moon in capricorn and venus in scorpio, she is a teen though but very smart and mature and I will tell you that your girl wants space to see if she misses you and to realize if her feelings for you are real, you need to give her that space, I don't think there is someone else in the picture but with your moon in cancer you got attached faster and she doesn't want to be with you out of a sense of duty, she wants to make sure she has real feelings and she wants you to learn to be more independent but she does care about you, give her space.

posted July 09, 2018 11:24 PM            

We have venus square uranus in synastry and composite and he has venus square uranus in his natal. Strangely his feelings for me are constant, I am the one that fluctuates and wants to break free periodically.

Since my chart ruler JUPITER conjuncts URANUS I am attracted to uranian types and they are to me and my relationships tend to be uranian. With Uranian relationships you have to give each other space and room to miss each other.

posted July 09, 2018 11:31 PM            

"Sea was in love with the Sand"

^^The sea is wild, mysterious, intense and free, its unpredictable and cannot be controlled but it always willingly returns to kiss the sand.

posted July 10, 2018 01:57 PM            

The composite is very weak.
Not many aspects again which mirrors the holes in the synastry, you don’t have many aspects between your inner planets in synastry either.
Venus is only conjunct Uranus.
Moon is afflicted by the mars square and conjunct Saturn. Only making 1 harmonious aspect to mercury.
Sun is also square Saturn.
Sun and moon making hard aspects with Saturn means the relationship feels very heavy, and like a burden or too serious. Can zap any romance. Especially when you don’t have any other positive conjunctions or trines/Sextiles with Jupiter and venus to make up for it.

Having planets fall in the relationship houses (moon in 5th, venus conjunct DSC , sun and mercury in the 7th and mars in the 8th) is great! But the fact that these planets aren’t really aspecting each other and there are no conjunctions between ANY of the personal planets is really really tough. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a significant relationship without at least 1 conjunction between the personal planets in the composite.
Scattered composites make it tough to really connect.

posted July 10, 2018 02:43 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
Hypatia; yes opposites attract, but they don’t stay together....
I agree t-squares, grand squares etc. any closed pattern formations add a lot of chemistry and can be very binding and compelling INITIALLY that is. Over time the inherent incompatibility of the squares or oppositions really start to show up and can be very challenging after the initial sparks die down.

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I disagree, tsquares keep the relationship interesting and are VERY binding and NOT just initially!!!!!!!! My parents have sun opposite moon forming a Tsquare with Neptune in composite and they have been together for over 35 years and have a great marriage. They also have a YOD in composite with venus sextile mars and the moon at the apex and they have Pluto opposite Venus conjunct Jupiter. Last they have Uranus squaring their nodes in composite (another tsquare).

My relationships that lasted at least a decade involve tsquares in composite. My best friend from high school we were best friends for a decade, we had in composite Uranus Opposite Chiron with the LOVE stellium at the apex. My other best friend whom I was best friends for over a decade, same thing, we had Uranus opposite chiron forming a tsquare with Sun conjunct Eros at the apex. My husband we have been together for 11 years and I might divorce him or NOT, we have Uranus opposite Chiron forming a tsquare with Venus conjunct atropos at the apex. One of the most important relationships of my life were I felt the deepest in love with we have venus opposite moon forming a tsquare with neptune in composite and a pluto stellium (sun-valentine-pluto-mars). The person I am into right now we have venus opposite pluto forming a tsquare with moon in davison.

So people that I tend to commit to and be with for a very long time I personally have a tsquare with them in composite. You want a relationship that challenges you, that has passion and energy, romance, that keeps your on your toes and pushes your comfort zone and that simultaneously makes you feel like home, loved and accepted.

posted July 10, 2018 05:12 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I’m not talking about composites....
I was talking about t-squares in synastry, and I wasn’t disagreeing with you lol.
I agree T-squares etc. are attractive and binding. But you need other harmonious contacts in SYNASTRY like trines and sextiles and especially conjunctions to sustain the attraction and add enough compatibility after the initial sparks of the t-square die down and the challenges start showing up (because they absolutely do, these are challenging aspects involved in a t-square after all, the t-square just makes them more manageable and more exciting than a typical square or opposition by itself since it has something else to hook into, it adds a dynamic energy and chemistry).

This is an attraction aspect, not a compatibility aspect.
You need both for a successful and healthy relationship, and for it to last.
T-squares are great, as long as you have other mitigating factors.
That’s what I’m trying to say. What I meant by intially is that if you don’t have these other compatibility factors, the t-square usually turns more destructive when it was intially all energy and excitement and attraction.

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posted July 11, 2018 04:41 PM            

I think when a tsquare in synastry or composite has planets in that tsquare that form soft aspects with other things in the chart that can be quite nice.