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Topic: What do you think about this synastry/composite?
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 16, 2018 07:50 PM
  
This is my boyfriend's synastry with a girl he met last year. She liked him a lot, and even though he didn't do anything, I'm convinced there was some kind of attraction on his part. He came home to me because he says he loves me and they don't talk anymore. I am still curious, however, what made him come up to her? She was apparently staring at him from afar a few times. Then he saw her again in a library. He described her as a painting, like she was part of one when he saw her. This is something I have avoided asking for months because it is just too painful. I know it's just me being jealous but I still wanna know if there's any possibilities here. He gave me her details before. Birth time for her is approximate. He's red, she's blue. 
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hypatia238
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From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode
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posted July 16, 2018 08:26 PM
That Yod looks super powerful in the composite with Mars opposing that stellium in the 8th also powerful.Then the synastry with Sun conjunct venus trine moon and square mars with Moon/jupiter opposite venus is very nice. I would think there is attraction definitely but he chose you so I am thinking that moon conjunct pluto might have been too intense for him so he didn't act on it. Pluto is not everyone's cup of tea. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 16, 2018 08:30 PM
It looks like he is not plutonic himself with just pluto trine saturn in the 6th house and trine sun in the 2nd house and pluto rules his 6th so I don't think he is attracted to plutonic relationships actually, its not his cup of tea. I think that is why this thing with the other girl did not take off.It sounds like his pluto nature manifests in his career and work life. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted July 16, 2018 09:39 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
It looks like he is not plutonic himself with just pluto trine saturn in the 6th house and trine sun in the 2nd house and pluto rules his 6th so I don't think he is attracted to plutonic relationships actually, its not his cup of tea. I think that is why this thing with the other girl did not take off.It sounds like his pluto nature manifests in his career and work life.
He did have long term on and off relationship with his ex. She was highly plutonian but they had quite a few Saturn contacts in their synastry. It didn't take off because I confronted her. She got scared. He was talking to her for two months. I got sick of the fact that he wouldn't listen to me about her. It hurt me a lot that someone could just pop in like that and his attention shifts away almost completely. I've been quite good at trying to shove it in the back of my mind. But my heart chakra has been blocked and I feel disconnected to him. He and I have talked about it, sorted things out, and he has more than made up for it. But I've been finding it quite difficult to forgive him completely. The whole incident has touched a lot of my childhood wounds, specifically regarding my father. I don't feel secure in love and relationships at all. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted July 16, 2018 09:43 PM
Would you think their synastry/composite is more powerful than ours?   IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 16, 2018 10:56 PM
Can you post your davison with him and their davison..?Thank you. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted July 16, 2018 11:42 PM
Ours: 
Them:
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hypatia238
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posted July 17, 2018 11:14 AM
Its odd how similar the house placements are...Do you have her time of birth? IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted July 17, 2018 12:25 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Its odd how similar the house placements are...Do you have her time of birth?
Not the exact, but this is what she gave approximately. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 17, 2018 12:36 PM
Perhaps instead of focusing on him and whether he wants to be with this girl or not....Perhaps this is a good time to focus on you and exploring if your desire to be with him comes from a need for security or if you truly are in love with him, make this situation about you, not about him. This is an opportunity to work through your fears and release those fears. All you can do is turn this into an opportunity for growth and put this situation in the hands of god/universe and accept whatever outcome plays out and roll with it. You can handle whatever comes your way, you are a stronger than you think. Watch this 3 minute video by Will Smith:
http://www.facebook.com/aplusapp/videos/1898980196839574/ IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted July 17, 2018 12:45 PM
I just want to add that I can relate completely to you wanting to check this girl's composite and synastry with him. I definitely do that sometimes but I don't know, I don't think good comes out of that but completely understand that temptation.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted July 17, 2018 01:25 PM
I know you are right. He says she doesn't matter to him as much as I do, which is why he came back when he had a choice to just completely ditch me or not.It just still bothers me that he kept talking to her for those few months until I confronted her. Makes me wonder where his loyalty lies. If it was that easy to get distracted, what's gonna happen next time. I am going through a heavy transit right now with Saturn in my 7th house opposing my Moon in the 1st. Hence, this is a very difficult issue for me. I am trying to assess whether or not he is worthy of being in my life. My go-to pros and cons method doesn't work in this scenario. I have already cut off ties with a couple people. I am sure this is one of those tests and you are 100% right about making this about me. I have thought about it for a while now. I just needed to know what will happen in case she pops up again in the future. Either way, it shouldn't matter. Thank you for always being there hypatia ❤️ IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 24, 2018 04:11 PM
Thanks for all you do, hypatia.IP: Logged |
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