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ScandinavianCrab
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posted July 17, 2018 06:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I saw this woman at my work for the first time about 8 years ago and she was, and still is, one of the most beautiful women i know of.
I was at that time in a relationship so i never bothered to interact with her.

A year or so passes by and she started to see a friend of mine who also works at the same place. Me and my girlfriend threw a dinner and invited them along with another couple to our house. The evening was great, all of us got along really well and as the hour got late we were all a little drunk. My memory of it is a little cloudy but i think i remember that at one point in the kitchen when is were just me and her there she came very close to me with a really strange look in her eyes. Whatever i was doing there in the kitchen i finished fast and left her there rushing gracefully to the dining room where everyone else was.
Yes this could have been nothing but my imagination, but it still made me wonder what the hell she was thinking, and that along with the rest of the story bothers me from time to time..

Fast forward a couple of years. Me and my girlfriend had broken up. I was living in another city and she and my friend had broken up and he left for another city and a new job.
We started chatting casually on facebook and kept in touch on there. In the summer i had finished my education and moved back to our city. She had told me that she was seeing this other man so at that time she didn't occupy much of my mind.
But so came a late night, i were hanging out with some friends. I dont know who initiated the facebook conversation but she invited me to her apartment. I went there and though it was kinda weird, because we hadn't met face to face in about 2 years, we slept together that night. (I think it might be worth noting that transiting Jupiter was conjunct our composite Mars/Venus-conjunction, could be coincidence, could be not )
I left for my place early in the morning and about 3-4 months later she told me she was pregnant with the man who she had been seeing. (No it isn't my child, i'm very sure of that)

It has now been 5 years since that night. We are now both single and we both have young children to care for.

We have been talking about seeing each other. But at the same time as i cant get her out of my mind, i have this heavy feeling when thinking about seeing her because i cant imagine myself having a casual relationship with this woman as well as the idea of having a serious relationship, with any woman, at this time also feels more like a burden than a blessing.

Now i have shared the bigger part of the history behind this composite and i would love to get any comments on it.
Do you see anything in it that you could relate to or share conclusions about?

Do feel free to doom it, and ease some of my pain, but please try to be as objective as you can.
Both birth times are known.

Edit: If she is available later this year i will probably ask her out. I realistically cant see any other options. I will have to see this relationship to the end if i have to. It remains to be seen if she have the time to wait for me.

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posted July 17, 2018 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"with a really strange look in her eyes"

^^The "I want you" look!

Ofcourse she was giving you the "I want you" look with composite venus conjunct mars and moon opposite pluto

Those looks are so much fun....

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posted July 17, 2018 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How old are you? Do you think you really can afford to walk away from something real? and apparently she is hot. God you Geminis love to run away when something good is smacking you in the face...

If I were you I would have a friends with benefits arrangement with her till I feel ready to enter a relationship with her and then move it to the next level.

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posted July 18, 2018 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
How old are you? Do you think you really can afford to walk away from something real? and apparently she is hot. God you Geminis love to run away when something good is smacking you in the face...

If I were you I would have a friends with benefits arrangement with her till I feel ready to enter a relationship with her and then move it to the next level.


Thank you for your input Hypatia!

Yes i have plenty of air in my chart and i guess anyone here could tell that without even looking at it

Looking back at my 38 years in this life, including 33 years without any deeper knowledge of astrology, the pattern is very clear to me.

As long as things are just 'fun & games' things move very smooth.
But when i meet a woman and feel that this is someone who i potentially would ask to marry me, i become the text book description of Cancers in love. 'Walking sideways' and all that crap lol

Yes i´m probably a coward, and i guess you could say many things about it, but putting my heart on a silver plate and truly offering it to someone has never been easy for me. And i'm not saying love is easy for anyone, i'm just trying to describe myself here. I have always taken my committed relationships very seriously. When i do decide to hand over my heart it truly does belong to her, until she gives it back or i tell her that i take it back -and that is nothing that happens on a whim, far from it.

A 'friends with benefits'-relationship has only worked for me once. That was some years ago with a totally wicked Scorpio whom i'm still very fond of but i think neither her or me could ever see us accomplishing anything serious together lol.

If you read my earlier post you might understand that the earlier relationships she has had, and that i would view as committed relationships, hasn't been, from my point of view, particular committed for her. And that makes my pathetic Cancer heart move even more sideways, in circles and up and down, maybe forever in this case. I dont know..

Our composite chart clearly has signs of a deep and committed relationship. Im talking about sun in 8th, conjunct Juno, square Saturn. Saturn also touches the venus/mars conjunction.

Still we also have Neptune all over and consider what i have told you guys, is it deceiving or a blessing??

We have the chart ruler Jupiter at the Sun-Venus midpoint, whatever that would mean. And there's probably a lot of things here that i have not considered, but i was hoping that i could get some further feedback from people in here.

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posted July 18, 2018 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey!

I was thinking friends with benefits so you can pace yourself and open it to another level when you are ready. The goal is not to stay as friends with benefits forever but FwB is not for everyone, that may not work for you period, I get that.

You do have a promising composite if you choose to move forward with it; a mystic rectangle, tsquare and grand trine! Its powerful.

But that intercepted cancer in the 7th house could be why the relationship just doesn't take off in spite of the connection! It took transit jupiter activating that intercepted sign by conjuncting your venus/mars for the relationship to move forward.

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posted July 20, 2018 04:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
the idea of having a serious relationship, with any woman, at this time also feels more like a burden than a blessing.

Out of everything you wrote, what I quoted is the crux of the matter! I think it captures whatever conflict you’re experiencing, and it is the thing I can “relate to and share conclusion about.” You asked for objectivity, so maybe I can provide some of that too.

You have this connection. It’s powerful. A long time in the making. Exciting. You’re curious. You wonder about how things may be. You’re old enough, experienced enough to know to keep your feet on the ground, to expect problems, limitations and tension to arise. Old enough and experienced enough to wonder if the benefits will outweigh the costs.

The problem is that doing all this creates stress. Negative feelings from past relationships resurface. You have responsibilities to consider. These things create unpleasant expectations that may never become a reality, so stop worrying about it. These expectations are wrecking havoc on your thoughts of the future. It’s going to cloud your judgment and affect your actions. You'll stress yourself out trying to preempt developments that you have less control over than you may realize and that may never materialize. Mindfulness my dear!! Lol. It’s up to you unburden yourself. No narrative on the astrology may be able to replace the meaningfulness of the experience and the lessons that come from it.


http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zDo0H8Fm7d0

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posted July 20, 2018 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hey!

I was thinking friends with benefits so you can pace yourself and open it to another level when you are ready. The goal is not to stay as friends with benefits forever but FwB is not for everyone, that may not work for you period, I get that.

You do have a promising composite if you choose to move forward with it; a mystic rectangle, tsquare and grand trine! Its powerful.

But that intercepted cancer in the 7th house could be why the relationship just doesn't take off in spite of the connection! It took transit jupiter activating that intercepted sign by conjuncting your venus/mars for the relationship to move forward.


Yes i understand now what you mean about the friends part. I do appreciate your advise, but trust me that this will probably not work for anyone of us at the moment.

The moon opposite Pluto aspect is very apparent and we are both taking turns acting out each part even without really having committed to anything. I have a strong feeling that this crap can be worked out pretty "easily" but i don't think it will ever be done on a casual friendship basis. I think only if we honestly tried to "merge" we could achieve the trust that is needed for this to work. And i believe we have plenty of support with us to manage that.

We have both mutable moons and at a distance i think we both can detach our self's as much as needed without risking, on a friendship basis, to create a s**tload of "baggage" that we potentially would have to carry with us to a more serious relationship later on.

In november this year my dear friend Jupiter will travel over the composite ascendant. If he helps us sort things out i will let you people know


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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
Out of everything you wrote, what I quoted is the crux of the matter! I think it captures whatever conflict you’re experiencing, and it is the thing I can “relate to and share conclusion about.” You asked for objectivity, so maybe I can provide some of that too.

You have this connection. It’s powerful. A long time in the making. Exciting. You’re curious. You wonder about how things may be. You’re old enough, experienced enough to know to keep your feet on the ground, to expect problems, limitations and tension to arise. Old enough and experienced enough to wonder if the benefits will outweigh the costs.

The problem is that doing all this creates stress. Negative feelings from past relationships resurface. You have responsibilities to consider. These things create unpleasant expectations that may never become a reality, so stop worrying about it. These expectations are wrecking havoc on your thoughts of the future. It’s going to cloud your judgment and affect your actions. You'll stress yourself out trying to preempt developments that you have less control over than you may realize and that may never materialize. Mindfulness my dear!! Lol. It’s up to you unburden yourself. No narrative on the astrology may be able to replace the meaningfulness of the experience and the lessons that come from it.

http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zDo0H8Fm7d0


Hey that is a nice song! Thank you for it!

You are absolutely right! We do both carry our own baggage from earlier experiences as well as responsibilities to consider. As i replied to Hypatia the moon-Pluto opposition is very evident even when we are only interacting casually. Also acknowledging this behavior from myself have made me realize that i need to sort things out before moving any further with it.
And if she isn't around at the time I've got myself together i will see it as it never was meant to be anyways. She told me some time ago that it potentially never will be the right time for us. Who knows..

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posted July 20, 2018 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
Out of everything you wrote, what I quoted is the crux of the matter! I think it captures whatever conflict you’re experiencing, and it is the thing I can “relate to and share conclusion about.” You asked for objectivity, so maybe I can provide some of that too.

You have this connection. It’s powerful. A long time in the making. Exciting. You’re curious. You wonder about how things may be. You’re old enough, experienced enough to know to keep your feet on the ground, to expect problems, limitations and tension to arise. Old enough and experienced enough to wonder if the benefits will outweigh the costs.

The problem is that doing all this creates stress. Negative feelings from past relationships resurface. You have responsibilities to consider. These things create unpleasant expectations that may never become a reality, so stop worrying about it. These expectations are wrecking havoc on your thoughts of the future. It’s going to cloud your judgment and affect your actions. You'll stress yourself out trying to preempt developments that you have less control over than you may realize and that may never materialize. Mindfulness my dear!! Lol. It’s up to you unburden yourself. No narrative on the astrology may be able to replace the meaningfulness of the experience and the lessons that come from it.


http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zDo0H8Fm7d0


Well said. I think this is relatable for everyone at a more mature stage and can apply to a myriad of situations in life.

You're obviously still in each other's lives for a reason, despite life's attempts to pull you apart. If that doesn't scream "meant to be" in some way I don't know what does.

I say jump in with both feet and see what happens. You're THINKING too much. Typical Gemini trait.

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posted July 20, 2018 03:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:
Well said. I think this is relatable for everyone at a more mature stage and can apply to a myriad of situations in life.

You're obviously still in each other's lives for a reason, despite life's attempts to pull you apart. If that doesn't scream "meant to be" in some way I don't know what does.

I say jump in with both feet and see what happens. You're THINKING too much. Typical Gemini trait.


The thinking part is the story of my life. Put it all in the 9th and you have a sorry sucker living in his head all too much also.

I will try to use this latest eclipse to meditate and work out more often. It helps a ton.

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posted July 20, 2018 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You're THINKING too much. Typical Gemini trait.


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posted July 20, 2018 04:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hypatia! Do you know what I just noticed?!

He’s a Cancer with a Gemini moon and based on their composite sun/moon and what he said (she has a mutable moon) I think she’s a Virgo with a Pisces moon! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Don’t mind me ScandinavianCrab, I have a Virgo/Pisces fetish. Im gonna Marry Chris Pine! Kidding! She must be really pretty!

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posted July 20, 2018 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Hypatia! Do you know what I just noticed?!

He’s a Cancer with a Gemini moon and based on their composite sun/moon and what he said (she has a mutable moon) I think she’s a Virgo with a Pisces moon! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

Don’t mind me ScandinavianCrab, I have a Virgo/Pisces fetish. Im gonna Marry Chris Pine! Kidding! She must be really pretty!


LOL! Yes you are correct! Sun opposite moon Virgo/Pisces.
She's a great painter! I love her paintings, she always put me on ignore when i compliment her though.

I will marry a Virgo too someday It remains to be seen where her moon will be

Edit: Her birthday is august 27th, 1 day after Chris

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posted July 20, 2018 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ScandinavianCrab:
1 day after Chris

Shut up! 😄 Hypatia has sun/moon in the Virgo/Pisces axis too! She’s my gurl crush! 😉

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I will marry a Virgo too someday

I actually did marry a Virgo! Not fond of the nagging but the good qualities outweigh the bad. I’m a flaky Gemini after all. I’m sure he has a laundry list of traits he doesn’t like about me!!

So, she’s the typical creative Pisces! Are your moons square? Or in a T-Square?

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posted July 20, 2018 06:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I actually did marry a Virgo! Not fond of the nagging but the good qualities outweigh the bad. I’m a flaky Gemini after all. I’m sure he has a laundry list of traits he doesn’t like about me!!

So, she’s the typical creative Pisces! Are your moons square? Or in a T-Square?


Ohh yes, my dear father was a Virgo and my sister is one, that along with my jupiter-saturn-mars combo in Virgo i know pretty much what to expect

They can be a little scary practical about things sometimes, but i think that if you find some water in their chart you can at least hope there will be feelings in there somewhere too

We have a somewhat scarce synastry. The only thing i have that touches her moon is my Jupiter that opposes it. My Venus though sits on top of her IC.

Her Capricorn Ascendant is loosely conjunct my IC and i wonder if it is that or her sun on my Jupiter, or the combo, that makes her attractive.

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posted July 20, 2018 07:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ohh yes, my dear father was a Virgo and my sister is one, that along with my jupiter-saturn-mars combo in Virgo i know pretty much what to expect

They can be a little scary practical about things sometimes, but i think that if you find some water in their chart you can at least hope there will be feelings in there somewhere too

Ahhh! I see! I have 3 kids. One is a Virgo. The other 2 have Virgo rising. My IC/MC is Virgo/Pisces. It’s conjunct my draconic AC/DC. I have a Pisces sun, Virgo moon in my draconic chart. I’m pretty familiar with the energy too! People like Chris Pine activate my angles strongly and my tropical moon and Venus will trine their Virgo planets and Sextile those in Pisces creating a kite. What’s your draonic synastry like? My husband’s Virgo sun conjunct my draconic moon.

Scary practical indeed! I have a cousin who is a Cancer/Gemini. Extremely fun to be around! Funny. Adorable Peter Pan complex. He’s older than me but I have this urge to treat him like a little brother. He’s not the best decision maker! It’s kinda ironic because he’s a heart over head kind of person. He married a Capricorn/Aquarius that brings the structure he needs into his life. I can imagine how much of a good thing a Virgo could be for you.

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We have a somewhat scarce synastry. The only thing i have that touches her moon is my Jupiter that opposes it. My Venus though sits on top of her IC.

Her Capricorn Ascendant is loosely conjunct my IC and i wonder if it is that or her sun on my Jupiter, or the combo, that makes her attractive.


I asked about the moons because my moon t-squares my husband’s moon/MC, Satrurn/IC/Jupiter/Mercury opposition. Having your moon as the focal point of a t-square is not the most pleasant experience. I’ve had Jupiter/Sun conjunctions too. Super fun! But, Jupiter is my DSC ruler and it’s in my 5th house.

Aw Venus conjucnt IC. The cancer in you has got to love that! In my experience, angle contacts are stirring, especially angle/nodes and angle/angle. Where’s transit Pluto in relation to the cap AC / IC, and transit Neptune in relation to her moon and your moon?

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posted July 20, 2018 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Shut up! 😄 Hypatia has sun/moon in the Virgo/Pisces axis too! She’s my gurl crush! 😉

hahahahaha I totally have a crush on you too! I loove how witty and playful you are

That is very impressive you caught on to that she has sun in virgo/moon in pisces!

Its interesting she is a painter, bc for as long as I can remember I have this fantasy about been a painter and always joke by saying in my next life time I am going to be born in Europe and be a painter. I too have sun in virgo opposite moon as you know both squaring neptune.

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posted July 20, 2018 08:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I want to add as a virgo with moon in pisces ruling my 8th and Venus and Mars conjunct in leo the last thing I lack is emotions, there are like fireworks been set off internally inside of me daily.

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posted July 21, 2018 07:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Ahhh! I see! I have 3 kids. One is a Virgo. The other 2 have Virgo rising. My IC/MC is Virgo/Pisces. It’s conjunct my draconic AC/DC. I have a Pisces sun, Virgo moon in my draconic chart. I’m pretty familiar with the energy too! People like Chris Pine activate my angles strongly and my tropical moon and Venus will trine their Virgo planets and Sextile those in Pisces creating a kite. What’s your draonic synastry like? My husband’s Virgo sun conjunct my draconic moon.

Scary practical indeed! I have a cousin who is a Cancer/Gemini. Extremely fun to be around! Funny. Adorable Peter Pan complex. He’s older than me but I have this urge to treat him like a little brother. He’s not the best decision maker! It’s kinda ironic because he’s a heart over head kind of person. He married a Capricorn/Aquarius that brings the structure he needs into his life. I can imagine how much of a good thing a Virgo could be for you.


It is really interesting to see those patterns in families, and i think you must be a wonderful mother to your children. My little Aries son, who is almost 2,5 years, has his moon conjunct my Jupiter and even though he's only speaking 2-word sentences we can laugh so much at his crazy ideas together. I really hope it will last through out our lives.

I do work from time to time with an Aquarius woman with a stellium in Capricorn. Her sun/eros conjunction makes a grand trine with my venus and pluto and her venus-mercury-saturn sits on my IC opposing my sun and mercury while trining my mars. Her mars-uranus-neptune conjunction, also in capricorn, trining my Jupiter. And she have a moon/jupiter conjunction in early cancer.
To say the least - i didn't have to read her chart to know that we have a significant synastry..

And yes, i do need an earthy woman, may it be a Jupiterian or Neptunian Virgo!

I have looked at the Draconic synastry and the only thing that stands out really is her natal sun on my Draconic IC.

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I asked about the moons because my moon t-squares my husband’s moon/MC, Satrurn/IC/Jupiter/Mercury opposition. Having your moon as the focal point of a t-square is not the most pleasant experience. I’ve had Jupiter/Sun conjunctions too. Super fun! But, Jupiter is my DSC ruler and it’s in my 5th house.

Aw Venus conjucnt IC. The cancer in you has got to love that! In my experience, angle contacts are stirring, especially angle/nodes and angle/angle. Where’s transit Pluto in relation to the cap AC / IC, and transit Neptune in relation to her moon and your moon?



All my planets lay from 16 degrees to 29 degrees in each sign, the only exception is my Jupiter. So much of her planets are safe from my squares but on the other hand doesn't do much either synastry-wise.

You don't need to share your personal experiences if you don't want. But what could one expect in general from a moon t-square in synastry?

Yes amen to the angles and the IC-DC in particular. I had a 10 year relationship with an aries woman who's sun is conjunct my DC and my sun is conjunct her DC, our moons are conjunct in Gemini. It's 6 years ago we broke up but we still speak to each other on almost weekly basis.

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posted July 21, 2018 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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hahahahaha I totally have a crush on you too! I loove how witty and playful you are

That is very impressive you caught on to that she has sun in virgo/moon in pisces!

Its interesting she is a painter, bc for as long as I can remember I have this fantasy about been a painter and always joke by saying in my next life time I am going to be born in Europe and be a painter. I too have sun in virgo opposite moon as you know both squaring neptune.


I think the Virgo/Pisces axis seems to make an excellent foundation for painting.
Maybe you will live in some decadent artist neighborhoods in Paris in your next life (or maybe that was my dream )

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I want to add as a virgo with moon in pisces ruling my 8th and Venus and Mars conjunct in leo the last thing I lack is emotions, there are like fireworks been set off internally inside of me daily.

Your Venus-Mars doesn't happen to fall around 25 degrees Leo, conjunct my Juno/Eros conjunction? lol

I do believe you having emotions!

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posted July 21, 2018 01:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Where’s transit Pluto in relation to the cap AC / IC, and transit Neptune in relation to her moon and your moon?

Pluto is 2 degrees from her ascendant and without knowing exactly it will probably soon cross it in its retrograde motion. Its currently 6 degrees from my IC.

Neptune current does a 10 degree square to my moon, and an exact square to my Venus...

It's conjunct her moon by 8 degrees.

Thinking about it.. That is some nasty transits.!

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It is really interesting to see those patterns in families, and i think you must be a wonderful mother to your children. My little Aries son, who is almost 2,5 years, has his moon conjunct my Jupiter and even though he's only speaking 2-word sentences we can laugh so much at his crazy ideas together. I really hope it will last through out our lives.

Wonderful mother! 👀 😏

Lol!!! To normal kids: ~.•*•.~ I.am.Awesome. ~.•*•.~

To my Virgo children though... I tell them, “you don’t need to do your homework” and they’re like: 😳 “MoM, WTF” 😫😭 looking at me like I’m strange!

I’m like, 😯 “wait, what?!”

Like, “wow(!), you guys suck!” I’m not strange, y’all are strange! 🤣 I think I’m gonna sling mud at them later! 😆

Omg! Your kid must be awesome! How could it not last?!!! Just Imagine... you guys will have the time of your lives spring cleaning and shopping for things that smell good! Kidding!!! Now that I think about it, I wish I had Jupiter in Virgo.

EDIT As far as draconic charts go, it is interesting and in my experience super important. For a long time, I couldn’t understand why my husband found women with planets in the specific degrees of Gemini as my Sun/ASC attractive. Almost ALL of the women he likes have moon or ASC there. It doesn’t do much in his tropical chart. He has no midpoints there. I couldn’t figure it out. Then, I discovered the draconic chart. As I’ve mentioned, most of his plants fall along his MC/IC axis in Aries/Libra (moon, Saturn, Jupiter, mercury, Pluto and Venus). In his draconic chart, this angle becomes his AS/DSC axis and it falls along my tropical ASC/Sun in gem!!! So, his draconic DSC conjuncts my Tropical ASC.

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And yes, i do need an earthy woman, may it be a Jupiterian or Neptunian Virgo!

If you are anything like my cousin, yes you do (I mean that affectionately of course)!!! 😆

what’s the Aquarian doing later? Maybe you should find out!! Lol

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All my planets lay from 16 degrees to 29 degrees in each sign, the only exception is my Jupiter.


Transit Pluto is around 19 degrees Capricorn. Transit Neptune is around 16 degrees EDIT: Pisces.

Pluto at 19 degrees cap conjuncts my husband’s DSC. I’m a little scared to see what that will bring. When it was conjunct my DSC, he cheated on me and I found out I was pregnant. Yeay! 🤗 lol

tPluto to the angles usually indicate major transformations on the horizon. It was for me. Has it already hit yours?

Neptune is currently tightly square my sun/ASC. When it was conjunct my MC and square my Mercury, I couldn’t think or articulate my thoughts. I felt confused ALL the time even when I had nothing to be confused about. Do you know what that’s like for someone as Gemini as I am!!! Lol You probably do! 🤪 Plus, I got a job at somewhere that turned out to have the shadiest, most delusional bosses ever! Lol

Neptune scares me! I can totally relate to the reservations you have about it’s influence on the synastry. I read that this transit is a dissolving of the ego!

Get ready because once Pluto hits your angle, Saturn won’t be far behind. Hopefully, he’ll be a helpful influence though.


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You don't need to share your personal experiences if you don't want. But what could one expect in general from a moon t-square in synastry?


I’ve already shared!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/008000.html

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Yes amen to the angles and the IC-DC in particular. I had a 10 year relationship with an aries woman who's sun is conjunct my DC and my sun is conjunct her DC, our moons are conjunct in Gemini. It's 6 years ago we broke up but we still speak to each other on almost weekly basis.


Now see! I love positive break-up stories. I always tell my husband that the end of our marriage doesn’t mean the end of our relationship. It’s just different. We’re still family. We can still be friends.

I get why people end up hating each other though!

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posted July 21, 2018 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ReachingForTheStars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Pluto is 2 degrees from her ascendant and without knowing exactly it will probably soon cross it in its retrograde motion. Its currently 6 degrees from my IC.

Neptune current does a 10 degree square to my moon, and an exact square to my Venus...

It's conjunct her moon by 8 degrees.

Thinking about it.. That is some nasty transits.!



Got it! They are heavy hitters! 😒 Pluto crossing her ASC may be a tough one. I always like to try to understand the synastry and composite in the context of what’s happening in the natals and with transits.

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Her sun/eros conjunction makes a grand trine with my venus and pluto and her venus-mercury-saturn sits on my IC opposing my sun and mercury while trining my mars. Her mars-uranus-neptune conjunction, also in capricorn, trining my Jupiter. And she have a moon/jupiter conjunction in early cancer.

So, I’ve been thinking (because you know, it’s what I do 🧐🤔 ) about this... we have similar attraction patterns. Someone with planets in the mid-degrees of Aquarius will also create a grand trine for me but with my Sun/ASC in Gemini and Saturn in Libra.

Although about 8 years older, I attract these late 80s early 90s born Aquarians with the same planets in Cap.

Now that I’m thinking about it, it was one of these people that inspired this interest I have in astrology. I was looking for answers, an explanation for the connection. In fact, my very first post here was about it. Jeeeeez, it’s like they’re the same person (02/05/1990). I just don’t know his TOB. The way he looks at me, his moon has to be in Gemini, but it could be in the early degrees of Cancer.

Astrology is legit!

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Your Venus-Mars doesn't happen to fall around 25 degrees Leo, conjunct my Juno/Eros conjunction? lol

I do believe you having emotions!


Very cool!

Actually my Venus is in Leo at 23d52 and my Mars in Leo at 24d48... So Bam! Lol JK...

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posted July 22, 2018 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScandinavianCrab     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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To my Virgo children though... I tell them, “you don’t need to do your homework” and they’re like: 😳 “MoM, WTF” 😫😭 looking at me like I’m strange!

I’m like, 😯 “wait, what?!”

Like, “wow(!), you guys suck!” I’m not strange, y’all are strange! 🤣 I think I’m gonna sling mud at them later! 😆



Haha!!! You still sound like a perfect and fun parent to me Parenting is so much more than just structure and restrictions. At least for me it is. Although i will try to my best to give my dear son all the structure he needs to feel safe and comfortable.

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Omg! Your kid must be awesome! How could it not last?!!! Just Imagine... you guys will have the time of your lives spring cleaning and shopping for things that smell good! Kidding!!! Now that I think about it, I wish I had Jupiter in Virgo.

You know for a fact that he tells me when its time to clean the floors! For real!


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EDIT As far as draconic charts go, it is interesting and in my experience super important. For a long time, I couldn’t understand why my husband found women with planets in the specific degrees of Gemini as my Sun/ASC attractive. Almost ALL of the women he likes have moon or ASC there. It doesn’t do much in his tropical chart. He has no midpoints there. I couldn’t figure it out. Then, I discovered the draconic chart. As I’ve mentioned, most of his plants fall along his MC/IC axis in Aries/Libra (moon, Saturn, Jupiter, mercury, Pluto and Venus). In his draconic chart, this angle becomes his AS/DSC axis and it falls along my tropical ASC/Sun in gem!!! So, his draconic DSC conjuncts my Tropical ASC.

LOL this. My closest friend, a Leo, has been falling for a myriad of Taurus-women the last years and i have been looking at his chart and scratching my head. He has some trines from Virgo placements and moon in scorpio but it hasn't made any sense considering they're almost all Taurus suns.

Soooo i now i looked up his draconic. And of course his draconic descendant is right there in Taurus!!

And, lol, right at this moment i looked at my own draconic... I'm actually laughing right now. My draconic ascendant is at the exact damn degree in Taurus, the 25th!, as my best and longest friends draconic descendant..!! This is some wicked ****!
He doesn't believe in astrology so there's no point for me to explain this to him. At least i can vent it here

As for my draconic scorpio desc i would say that scorps usually are more attracted to me. IC is where my heart is, at least today

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