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posted July 27, 2018 05:29 PM            

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Hi, i was seeing this guy and it all started very good, he was very interested in me, suddenly he had a month and a half trip out of the country, and when came back he had lost all interest, he still talks constantly to me, but clearly not in a romantic way, my guessing would be the aspects between sun/moon and uranus, but i want to know if should keep trying or just let it all go.
Its really exhausting and the fact that he keeps contacting me in a friends way really doesnt let me let go of him

https://i.imgur.com/D1KU7lm.jpg

I'could really use some insight , this really is draining me

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posted July 27, 2018 05:39 PM            

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Im having issues embing the images but heres the aspects between our planets

https://imgur.com/a/JIKOURj

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posted July 28, 2018 01:45 PM            

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First off, know that nothing is "doomed" by astrology. Just some things are more challenging.

The first thing I notice is the pattern completion of the mytable square. Blue has a Venus Mars Saturn T square and red has a Jupiter Saturn square that overlays to complete a grand mutable square. Pattern completion is a tricky thing. It compels you to be together, that you feel more connected than with others, but that's not the same as meant to be.

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posted July 28, 2018 06:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
First off, know that nothing is "doomed" by astrology. Just some things are more challenging.

The first thing I notice is the pattern completion of the mytable square. Blue has a Venus Mars Saturn T square and red has a Jupiter Saturn square that overlays to complete a grand mutable square. Pattern completion is a tricky thing. It compels you to be together, that you feel more connected than with others, but that's not the same as meant to be.

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Hey Gemini Blues
First of all thank you for taking the time to check my post and answer.

I know astrology doesnt make something entirely "doomed" just as you said,but we all know it would be way easier to give up things that are EXTREMELY challenged (IMO).

And about pattern completion , taking in mind saturn ive read that it kinda is like relationship glue (it does represent struggles, but after all keeps people together) not in a perfect harmonic way but it helps, i was trying to focus on good aspects that we have like, moon sextile pluto, exact trine between venus and mars, but just from a personal POV would you think the good aspects that are shown could outpower the negative ones? including this grand square?

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posted July 29, 2018 11:22 PM            

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Sure. First off, completing a square isn't bad. It's more beneficial. But it's not without challenges. The Venus Mars trine is nice. It's not going to be a large initial attractor but it is going to smooth over some (maybe a lot) of the rough spots. Sun trine Pluto DW... Perhaps you will help each other evolve in beneficial ways, or be supportive of each other's growth?

Finally, challenging aspects are still better than no aspects. I have 2 separate t squares in my chart, one fixed, the other mutable. It's awfully tough to have an aspect with me without having challenging ones with something or another. I'm used to it because I live with my natal every day. If the person I'm with has squares or Ts too, then it's nothing we both haven't faced, and it's like being on the same wavelength. And if they're overlapping, well, it's like at least we're in it together.

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posted August 09, 2018 03:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
First off, know that nothing is "doomed" by astrology. Just some things are more challenging.

The first thing I notice is the pattern completion of the mytable square. Blue has a Venus Mars Saturn T square and red has a Jupiter Saturn square that overlays to complete a grand mutable square. Pattern completion is a tricky thing. It compels you to be together, that you feel more connected than with others, but that's not the same as meant to be.

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