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Topic: We are engaged!
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polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 27, 2018 10:42 AM
Hey everyone! My boyfriend and I just got engaged after dating for almost three years This is the happiest and healthiest relationship either of us have ever been in. We are excited for our next steps together. Anyone have any feedback on our relationship based on our charts? I’d love to hear it. Thanks! Synastry: (I am blue, he is red) Composite: IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 1095 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 27, 2018 12:29 PM
Congratulations Very exciting!With your knowledge of astrology, do you sense or feel the "challenges" (if any) posed by some of the some aspects in your synastry or composite chart? Mars sq. Mars, his Venus being unaspected...Saturn squares in composite (particularly to Sun)... As we are all here to learn it would be helpful to hear it from your perspective as a lot of these things get a bad rap... IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 27, 2018 12:44 PM
Thanks! I have to be honest, I really haven’t seen many or any challenges between us. During our time together we are really quite harmonious and have never had an argument. I’m not sure really how a mars sq mars would play out. His Venus aspect has never seemed to jeopardize anything. He is quite sweet and romantic. I haven’t seen anything negative come up from this. As far as the Saturn square in the composite. I don’t think it really has an effect either. We both has sun and moon square natally so it feels comfortable to us. It doesn’t bring anything negative to us. We are very harmonious and laid back people. And our relationship is just as easy going. I’d be interested in reading up about the mars sq mars and unaspected venus to see more information about them. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9997 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 27, 2018 12:49 PM
Congrats!!!!IP: Logged |
Sophie Newflake Posts: 13 From: USA Registered: Jul 2010
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posted July 27, 2018 12:51 PM
All the best! and Congrats! IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 27, 2018 12:52 PM
Thanks!!IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 5953 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 27, 2018 01:03 PM
Congrats!!!!! And now to poke your synastry for answers to the age old question of marriage, long term commitment and all that jazz! IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 27, 2018 01:16 PM
Haha Aries, yes, definitely :-)IP: Logged |
FireVirgo Knowflake Posts: 83 From: Registered: Mar 2018
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posted July 27, 2018 01:37 PM
CONGRATS! IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4417 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 27, 2018 06:25 PM
I’d say to take everything astrologically regarding your relationship with a grain of salt because you don’t want to create problems out of nothing And you know there are no problems So I would just leave it at thatThe only reason I look to astrology is to find a purpose or understanding but you have both of those so what more are you seeking? Confirmation bias? Your word is good enough, believe me!!! ❤️ Sorry if I come off as rude I’m trying not to be it’s this mars retrograde IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 4417 From: USA ! Registered: Jan 2012
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posted July 27, 2018 06:26 PM
Ps CONGRATULATIONS❤️ And may your love last an eternityIP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Moderator Posts: 3526 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted July 27, 2018 06:52 PM
Congratulations! But I do have to move this to Interpersonal Astrology. ------------------ "Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy Expert Rectification IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 28, 2018 05:18 AM
Omgggg YAYYY!! CONGRATS!!!! This is so awesome!!! I didn't read your charts in detail but must be nice to have the stellium with Sun, Moon and Jupiter! You guys must be really happy together!! Super happy for you twinsie!! <3 IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 434 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted July 28, 2018 07:32 AM
Congratulation! I like seeing posts like these! Very rare too. Its usually the opposite in here when posting charts, more like, "will we work out" or "get back together" IP: Logged |
comdoc Knowflake Posts: 849 From: Tucson Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 28, 2018 09:09 AM
Polkadotstars, hearty congratulations! IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 28, 2018 09:14 AM
thanks all Yellow- now that you mention it, it does feel very jupitery! Didn’t notice that before!! IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9997 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 28, 2018 06:17 PM
I am in a very plutonic friends/lovers relationship right now and we have venus opposite pluto forming a tsquare with moon in the 8th in Davison. I am looking at your composite and I think is perfect bc you have some pluto but also a very nice jupiter stellium to balance out the heaviness and intensity of pluto so I feel what you have is real and has the potential to be lasting. But how is that playing out the saturn squaring the jupiter stellium and the uranus squaring the jupiter stellium? Do you feel secure or anxious in the relationship? In my case I feel my davison and composite with him is so plutonic that I don't know if it is realistic long term, we shall see. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted July 28, 2018 07:27 PM
Thanks Hypatia- I actually feel very safe and secure in the relationship. There is very much stability. I knew we’d get married within months of just dating him. I don’t know why Saturn has negative connotations, I haven’t really looked into it. Have you experienced Saturn in a composite before? Any feedback on where the negativity stems from would be insightful. I think it helps that we both have Saturn in our own charts so maybe we don’t feel the heaviness of it. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 9997 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted July 28, 2018 07:44 PM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: Thanks Hypatia- I actually feel very safe and secure in the relationship. There is very much stability. I knew we’d get married within months of just dating him. I don’t know why Saturn has negative connotations, I haven’t really looked into it. Have you experienced Saturn in a composite before? Any feedback on where the negativity stems from would be insightful. I think it helps that we both have Saturn in our own charts so maybe we don’t feel the heaviness of it.
Well I was hoping that the square to saturn to your jupiter stellium felt grounding to you two, like it helped ground those intense emotions but I also thought it may bring up insecurities along with that venus opposite pluto which on the positive note both of those aspects are very binding. Then I thought well that Uranus also hitting that jupiter stellium could lead to hot/cold, push/pull along with that venus opposite pluto. But yes in your natal you have a very grounding saturn influence so I bet that comes a lonnnnnng waaaaaaaaaay in you dealing with this composite in a more positive way. IP: Logged |
pocketrocket Knowflake Posts: 157 From: Italy Registered: May 2017
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posted July 29, 2018 03:48 AM
Congrats!!! Wish you a joyful life together! I like your natal mo/so conjuns what are gently binded with Sa in sextile and trine both ways. Esp. bc sun is your ruler of chart and Sa is his, next to Ur..IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 30, 2018 03:17 AM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Well I was hoping that the square to saturn to your jupiter stellium felt grounding to you two, like it helped ground those intense emotions but I also thought it may bring up insecurities along with that venus opposite pluto which on the positive note both of those aspects are very binding. Then I thought well that Uranus also hitting that jupiter stellium could lead to hot/cold, push/pull along with that venus opposite pluto.But yes in your natal you have a very grounding saturn influence so I bet that comes a lonnnnnng waaaaaaaaaay in you dealing with this composite in a more positive way.
Yeah I was gonna say, her natal Saturn squaring the Pisces stellium is quite grounding! Major discipline for sure *thumbs up* IP: Logged |
YellowGerbera Knowflake Posts: 974 From: Registered: Jul 2014
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posted July 30, 2018 03:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by polkadotstars: thanks all Yellow- now that you mention it, it does feel very jupitery! Didn’t notice that before!!
That's lovely!! So lucky to have found each other, literally!! <3 <3 <3 IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 1208 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted August 06, 2018 06:14 PM
Sorry, just now seeing this. There is a very stabilizing factor between us. I like the Saturn aspect it feels safe. He has a Capricorn mars, and we both have Saturn aspecting our own sun and moons. Anyways, thanks y’all! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 100397 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 10, 2018 06:11 PM
Congrats! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 100397 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 17, 2018 05:11 PM
Keep us updated.IP: Logged |