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hypatia238
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posted August 24, 2018 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it would be a lot of fun if we all post the composite or davison or both of the people in our life that we have loved very big and deeply. Those people that make us feel above average for them whether family, friends or lovers.

Favorite Uncle, Favorite Grandparent, Favorite Best Friend, Favorite Lover, Favorite Parent, Favorite Sibling.

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hypatia238
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posted August 24, 2018 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My childhood best friend, I adored him, our hugs were epic, once I moved away every summer the person I looked forward to seeing the most was him. He was my next door neighbor since and I knew him since I was born, there was a hall connecting both of our kitchen doors and his kitchen door was always open.

This is our Davison:
Interesting mercury rules our 11th and it conjuncts Juno in the 4th, he was like a brother to me.

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posted August 24, 2018 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Grandpa and I, this is our Davison, his TOB is unknown, I rectified his chart to Taurus rising:

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hypatia238
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posted August 24, 2018 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Favorite Uncle, our Davison:

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posted August 24, 2018 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for missblyss     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
me and my daughter

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hypatia238
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posted August 24, 2018 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My dad and I, Davison, its interesting that I have the same pluto/uranus/mars stellium with his older brother, my uncle, see above:

Added: I think this is a T-Wedge.

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posted August 24, 2018 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by missblyss:
me and my daughter

Awww Venus conjunct Moon and Sun conjunct Moon.

What about the Davison or Composite?

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posted August 24, 2018 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Davison with my Ex and I, I like our composite more but I like that in Davison our chart Ruler is Venus and it conjuncts Moon and trines and sextiles our nodes while saturn squares are our nodes, is like its saying that we came together to experience everlasting love that passes the test of time since aspects the nodes I feel tell us the purpose of the relationship:

Our Composite! The theme repeats itself with moon aspecting the nodes, moon trines northnode and sextiles southnode while it opposes venus and completes a tsquare with neptune/spirit/kaali at the apex, Neptune sextiles Amor and Valentine while Amor and Valentine trine, Saturn is also squaring the nodes. Add chiron is the point of thales (trine/sextile) to that venus opposite moon. Its a composite of pure love. Our chart ruler conjuncts the SUN in composite and the Moon in Davison.

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posted August 25, 2018 05:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My two all time favorite people in the world.

davison of me with youngest child:


and davison of me with oldest child:

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posted August 25, 2018 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's interesting how mars in hard aspect to Pluto keeps popping up in important nonsexual soulmate relationships, I have it with my father and my uncle and you have it with your oldest child, although in your case the opposition is very wide, do you fight with your oldest a lot?

I guess it can manifest as intense passionate feelings for someone, intense like or dislike. I never fight with my dad or uncle actually so is not manifesting aggressively either. I mean as a teen I did have an incident or two with my dad come to remember were I was very provacative, daring him to hit me but in general our relationship is very peaceful and we get along very well, those were quite the exceptions to the rule, I was a rebellious teen. As a child there was an incident with my uncle I don't remember that he brings up were I was been a brat apparently and he dealt with it. As I grew older we became great friends and he was the family member I felt comfortable talking to about sex. Both my dad and uncle I feel very comfortable talking to about anything and they are family indeed but also feel like a good friend too.

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posted August 25, 2018 05:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
It's interesting how mars in hard aspect to Pluto keeps popping up in important nonsexual soulmate relationships, I have it with my father and my uncle and you have it with your oldest child, although in your case the opposition is very wide, do you fight with your oldest a lot?

I guess it can manifest as intense passionate feelings for someone, intense like or dislike. I never fight with my dad or uncle actually so is not manifesting aggressively either. I mean as a teen I did have an incident or two with my dad come to remember were I was very provacative, daring him to hit me but in general our relationship is very peaceful and we get along very well, those were quite the exceptions to the rule, I was a rebellious teen. As a child there was an incident with my uncle I don't remember that he brings up were I was been a brat apparently and he dealt with it. As I grew older we became great friends and he was the family member I felt comfortable talking to about sex. Both my dad and uncle I feel very comfortable talking to about anything and they are family indeed but also feel like a good friend too.


actually no, my oldest and I do not fight really at all. She and I get along pretty well, but I am the hothead and she is not. My youngest and I battle, because we are both hotheads. But it is always resolved quickly and she is extremely quick to move on. No grudge holding for her at all, but then again she is a 12th house Libra Venus.

My girls and I have a very close relationship. They are still on the younger side, and they will push limits, but the bond is very strong. Watching the evolution of the relationship over time grow from pure parenting to parenting and friendship has been probably the life experience I am most grateful for.

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posted August 25, 2018 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StoneMoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
notice too, hypatia, that with both your uncle and your father, and me with each of my daughters, there is Pluto Venus involved. I have sextiles with each of them and you have a sextile and a trine.

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posted August 25, 2018 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Two greatest loves of my lifetime, both strikingly beautiful.

My Indonesian former fiance:

My beloved first wife of 7 years:

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posted August 26, 2018 01:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for Sharing Comdoc

This is the Davison with the guy I am currently in love with, this has what is called a HUNG TSQUARE:

Our Composite:

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posted August 26, 2018 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome, Hypatia. I love your Grand Rectangle and Grand Trine in Davison. And Grand Square and Wedge in Composite. No wonder you're in love!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by hypatia238:
[b]Thanks for Sharing Comdoc

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posted August 26, 2018 12:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by comdoc:
Welcome, Hypatia. I love your Grand Rectangle and Grand Trine in Davison. And Grand Square and Wedge in Composite. No wonder you're in love!

[QUOTE]Originally posted by hypatia238:
[b]Thanks for Sharing Comdoc


I don't think is a wedge bc Mars is isolated and not sandwhiched with the trine, is like a wedge that turns into a bucket, Mars is also squaring the nodes, rules the 5th and conjuncts atropos in the 8th, this is the release point of the wedge and focal point of the chart, further reinforced by the fact it squares the nodes...

"The concentrated energy is released through the isolated planet, also known as the Apex, which channels the entire dynamism of the chart and constitutes the native's privileged focal point."

Thanks for pointing this out!!!

Also our composite vertex conjuncts his South node and my atropos exact.

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posted August 28, 2018 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^UPDATE: 10/01/2018

I did fall for him but not all the way and I don't think we are a good a fit. That tsquare in Davison with moon in aquarius at the apex leads to a lot of anxiety (I never feel secure with him), I feel the reason why we are not working to be fair has more to do with both of our current life circumstances and his natal chart, his personality not been a great fit for mine, too different in how we approach love and in our needs in that department, probably his upbringing is also factoring in as I feel he was not able to develop some important skills that are important in been able to sustain and nourish a relationship due to childhood trauma and him learning early on to be in survival mode and be selfish.

I did care for him but it feels too much like I care more and like throwing a ball at a wall. I know he cares in his own weird way but I am realizing my expectations of us need to be seriously adjusted, I think I will just remain friends with him. I would definitely classify this as a highly karmic relationship. I feel tr Saturn hitting our DC exact was the beginning of the end or a pause, we shall see.

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posted August 30, 2018 02:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted August 31, 2018 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted September 06, 2018 02:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted September 07, 2018 05:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyRealName     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here are my 3 closest:

My closest friend

My longest friendship, now long distance

Most intense feelings and deep connection

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posted September 11, 2018 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LF DX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
First great love
Composite

Davison

I fell in love with her when I was 17, I was so frail and quite an emotional mess back then, and the intensity of the feelings made me explode and scare her in the process, and after a while after a silly experience in our school, I self-sabotage it out of being completely aloof of a kiss she gave me out of an exchange of a spring bash contest and I did not gave her the clue for the prize. This is hard to explain in english as things happened in a very popular thing in my country and can't quite explain it properly.
She kinda hates me to this day, and took me years to completely overcome what I did. Though I can deny that I will always going to feel something for her

Second great love
Composite

I met her when my life started to change for the better, in a trip that we jam together, I formed a band with her and fell in love at the first note we play... Unfortunately I could not cope with her, as I by principle don't want couples in my band, and as she was a single mother, didn't felt ready for her and to help her with her difficult life, later on she put her boyfriend in our band and things went downhill, as I became the blanket for the dysfunctional relationship she had then, and the on and off thing... I kept it all inside for the sake of the band until I exploded, and quit the band and did not spoke with her for almost two years, I felt betrayed and very hurt by her actions, and it went as far as I shut down myself to romance for a long time, distanced myself of many places I was going, and almost lost my mojo for music... after the blood moon in july I finally accepted(she's still with the other guy) and started the real healing in my life... I still love her somehow, but I don't know yet if we're going to be close again.


EDITED because I realized I put a progressed composite

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posted September 11, 2018 11:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyRealName     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LF DX,

All of these hard aspects to Nodes in the charts you posted bring some heart-breaking stories in your life. I wonder why you attract this?

There may also be the 'true love stellium' with Venus, Sun and Mercury. Only I was never sure how much it matters because I've seen it in many relationships that were passionate and fell apart. I never this stellium with someone, just a bunch of Saturn.

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posted September 17, 2018 02:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by MyRealName:
LF DX,

All of these hard aspects to Nodes in the charts you posted bring some heart-breaking stories in your life. I wonder why you attract this?


I have venus conjunct mars in Leo in the 8th, I like challenging composites and davison with some nice soft aspects too to balance things out when it comes to romantic interests but composite/davisons that are like a kite or mystic rectangle with NO tsquares would not hold my attention. I think 8th/pluto people need a big epic love story and an easy composite/davison is not going to generate a love story with a romeo/juliet type of barriers/challenges that someone with a strong 8th/pluto energy deep down desires (e.g. the discovery chart of pluto has thisbe conjunct pyramus actually). We need some drama and huge barriers that need to be overcome to feel we truly found the love of our life and conquered all odds to be together, I know LF is a scorpio and probably has a heavy plutonic chart bc a scorpio with lets say mars in gemini may not need or desire that kind of relationship and would prefer something more light unless they are heavily plutonic.

Also hard aspects to the nodes are actually quite binding and karmic so it tends to bring people together like a date with destiny and keep people together specially with the square and if pluto or saturn are involved.

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posted September 17, 2018 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LF DX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I realized I put the progressed composite instead of the normal for the first woman, I fixed that now.
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Sun-Pluto-Mars stellium in scorpio in 8th square moon in aquarius. But with venus in libra and pisces ASC, so I am often between the intense and the soft.

And yes, as Hypatia said, I need more or less intense love stories, with a bit of drama(albeit I'd like and I'm trying to lessen that as I'm growing up) and some challenges to overcome. And most of my love stories and my friendships have that plutonic/8th house quality in some sense or another...

With the first woman my feelings were TOO intense that it overwhelmed me to the point of throwing up, crying and some more and to her to be I think permanently scared and weary of me because of that. As to this day, that was the only time I lost control of my emotions, and to this day I never went that intense again.

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