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Topic: Something that I've realized about synastry
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ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2892 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 31, 2018 10:29 AM
That it's difficult to have a hookup or sex only thing with someone who you are actually somewhat compatible with. Having aspects that makes you compatible It's different when you actually feel affection. When you actually like the same music, movies, food, same outings it really makes a difference. When you are compatible that makes you really want a connection rather it be romantic, friendly etc. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 100445 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 01, 2018 11:36 AM
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TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 436 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted September 01, 2018 06:18 PM
Lol, I've noticed that year's ago without astrology. A hook up is only easy when you are poorly mismatched. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 100445 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 06, 2018 02:24 PM
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 10018 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 06, 2018 02:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: True.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 5971 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted September 06, 2018 05:18 PM
But even when poorly mismatched one is vulnerable. Because there is a greater chance of a small kind gesture to be misinterpreted as something greater than what it is. Then the scale tips.The next thing one will say to themselves "they like me. They just are shy about it" etc. Like a desert that sprouts an oasis wherever there is a drop of water. Don't hookup altogether is my rule. But if you must, don't do it with the same person. We are human beings essentially. And emotional to our core and often times we cannot "control" the extent to which we find ourselves caring for someone. Bad synastry does not always equate that the two people involved will not catch feelings. As much as good synastry is no guarantee of a "happily ever after" IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2892 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 06, 2018 05:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: But even when poorly mismatched one is vulnerable. Because there is a greater chance of a small kind gesture to be misinterpreted as something greater than what it is. Then the scale tips.The next thing one will say to themselves "they like me. They just are shy about it" etc. Like a desert that sprouts an oasis wherever there is a drop of water. Don't hookup altogether is my rule. But if you must, don't do it with the same person. We are human beings essentially. And emotional to our core and often times we cannot "control" the extent to which we find ourselves caring for someone. Bad synastry does not always equate that the two people involved will not catch feelings. As much as good synastry is no guarantee of a "happily ever after"
We know that just because you have a good synastry doesn't always mean happily ever after. We are just saying that when you have things in common. It can make things difficult because you may have the desire to want to spend more time with that person. Besides only hooking up for sex. IP: Logged |
TaurusVenusGirl Knowflake Posts: 436 From: Heavens Above Registered: Aug 2016
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posted September 07, 2018 03:13 AM
I have a casual sex hook up. Thats all it is. I dont want anything more from him. Thats it. He feels the same. I know I will never love him or fall for him and vice versa. Its why I continue to see him as I know the option is still open for me to be with someone else, if I am ever meant to fall in love again. I doubt I will, but its open and free for it to happen for me, and if it doesn't I am happy as I still have intimate psychical closeness with someone without an emotional commitment. Do do have good synastry too. Not that I really care. As long as he's up for it when I am, that's all I care about IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 2892 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 07, 2018 08:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl: I have a casual sex hook up. Thats all it is. I dont want anything more from him. Thats it. He feels the same. I know I will never love him or fall for him and vice versa. Its why I continue to see him as I know the option is still open for me to be with someone else, if I am ever meant to fall in love again. I doubt I will, but its open and free for it to happen for me, and if it doesn't I am happy as I still have intimate psychical closeness with someone without an emotional commitment. Do do have good synastry too. Not that I really care. As long as he's up for it when I am, that's all I care about
Would you hangout with him besides hooking up for sex?
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