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Topic: Just 4 fun: I was obsessed w this person for 7 years. WHY??
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HieronymusTush
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posted August 31, 2018 05:28 PM
  
This composite is of a relationship that lasted almost seven years, when I had no idea about astrology. I was shocked to see the composite last year. It looks empty as heck to me. How could it remain loving and sustainable for that long? Where is the obsession on the chart? What are the astrological signs of its main draw? Is there anything special about it that I can't see? 
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athenaia
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posted August 31, 2018 05:38 PM
Venus square Pluto at an orb of 0°05. Mystery solved  IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted August 31, 2018 05:43 PM
I swear it really felt very obsessive and Plutonic throughout - but can Pluto squares account for that much? I'm laughing as I type, not to poop on the experience at all, but sun, moon, Venus are empty - house placements feel neighbourly at best (lol) - Saturn is hanging by a thread - so for the life of me I can't understand why this relationship felt so romeo and juliet-y to me for years IP: Logged |
StoneMoon
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posted August 31, 2018 06:03 PM
also venus/mercury semi square marsIP: Logged |
Orange
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posted August 31, 2018 06:46 PM
Where is the f***ing synastry?? Gwad. Now I have to wait. IP: Logged |
llewsacm
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posted August 31, 2018 07:14 PM
Simmer down orange...lolYes I agree synastry would be helpful. However you have Pluto on the south node in the composite square Venus/Merc so that could very well point to the obessive quality you had experienced. IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted August 31, 2018 07:16 PM
oh. the synastry is as magnificent as the composite, if not better... with sun inconj sun lol   IP: Logged |
Bearee
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posted September 01, 2018 02:03 AM
One Venus conjunct South Node and the other Venus conjunt North Node 
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outofideas
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posted September 01, 2018 05:20 AM
Obsessed in what way?
The node is semi square to Mars and Neptune is semi-sextile Venus. I'm thinking you were head over heals for him and could not help feel extremely attracted and dreamy about him.IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted September 01, 2018 06:01 AM
Pretty much in the same way you described! I was inconsolable when it ended. I think especially towards the end, and since we were teenage sweetheart, the relationship had a certain centrifuge quality about it, he had become the 'body' and the 'exterior' (aesthetic values, superficial creativity) I had become the 'mind' and the 'interior' (intellectual values, mental creativity and judgment) and we both hated it. Had it not been for the obsessive quality and the familial connection I mentioned, I think the relationship should have ended at least two years earlier. I was so surprised to see how little of this was apparent in the charts. ------------------
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capricorncheriscty
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posted September 01, 2018 11:04 AM
Vetex in 8th in synastry.
8th house ruler SUN in the 10th house conjunct PLUTO in synastry.IP: Logged |
Nezumi
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posted September 01, 2018 01:55 PM
There's a Venus/NN/IC conjunction in the synastry which falls on top of the composite Moon in Aries.That composite Venus/Mercury conjuncts Libra's natal Mars in Aquarius. Then you guys had that Venus conjunction SN in synastry conjunct the composite ASC. There's then the Moon/Saturn square in the synastry which while it's not the most comfortable aspect it does tend to point towards longevity.
There was also a Moon/Jupiter DW going on which can be pretty nice in general.
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HieronymusTush
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posted September 02, 2018 11:50 AM
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Originally posted by Nezumi:
There's a Venus/NN/IC conjunction in the synastry which falls on top of the composite Moon in Aries.
Nezumi, can you explain how you go about comparing a synastry conj to composite? V interesting This has been very entertaining and informative. Thank you everyone!! ------------------
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Chalk
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posted September 04, 2018 10:20 AM
Composite - Ascendant in Scorpio, Lilith in 7th house, pluto square venus, pluto conjunct south nodeSynastry - Pluto conjunct Sun IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted September 04, 2018 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by Chalk:
Composite - Ascendant in Scorpio, Lilith in 7th house, pluto square venus, pluto conjunct south nodeSynastry - Pluto conjunct Sun
Ooh - and what does Lilith do in the 7th house? IP: Logged |
dribaby
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posted September 05, 2018 10:50 PM
I'm going thru the same situation with my current guy. We have venus trine pluto in our composite which is the tightest aspect and then sun square pluto both ways in synastry. I never been so stuck in my life smh
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Randall
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posted September 14, 2018 05:21 PM
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Nine
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posted September 14, 2018 07:41 PM
When did it start and end? The reason it lasted as long as it did, was because the pSuns were moving in tandem. You were born on the 21st, him on the 19th, but he's a year older so by the time you were born his sun had progressed to the 20th. Thus, through the years your pSuns were moving side-by-side. This isn't covered in traditional synastry, but it denotes major attraction. The most intense attractions I've felt have been from people whose pSuns passes over the 9th day of any month. Same is true for people I get along with, or give second chances, our pSuns are moving in sync. This relationship most likely ended once the pSuns returned to their natal dates. So, you to the 21st, and him to the 19th. IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul
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posted September 15, 2018 12:33 AM
best relationships always have venus/pluto or moon/pluto in their dynamic!
you have the square in the composite, it's a hard one to get over...if ever!
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HieronymusTush
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posted September 15, 2018 03:58 AM
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Originally posted by Nine:
When did it start and end? The reason it lasted as long as it did, was because the pSuns were moving in tandem. You were born on the 21st, him on the 19th, but he's a year older so by the time you were born his sun had progressed to the 20th. Thus, through the years your pSuns were moving side-by-side. This isn't covered in traditional synastry, but it denotes major attraction. The most intense attractions I've felt have been from people whose pSuns passes over the 9th day of any month. Same is true for people I get along with, or give second chances, our pSuns are moving in sync. This relationship most likely ended once the pSuns returned to their natal dates. So, you to the 21st, and him to the 19th.
Nine, we dated briefly in high school for a few months, which would be in 2004. Then we got back together in late 2005, and broke up in late 2011. I'm going to be so surprised if it fits the timeframe you're looking for. Mir taught me a few things about progressed in this thread and cited you as his progressed master Would you care to take a look there? http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/008121-2.html
girlwiththerainysoul, tell me about it I always attract strange and deep bonds like this with my Scorpio Venus. I ran into this person on the subway last year, we both started crying immediately. (I know) We chatted for a few minutes and everyone on the train was just staring at two teary-eyed people exchanging superficial pleasentries We said we should definitely get together but knew it was never going to happen. It was a great, unspoken sort of closure for me (in the sense that I knew exactly why the relationship ended, and was okay about it. I was also happy to see how much I'd grown in the years between), but I'd been super mad at him for years. This Plutonian stuff is an odd frequency to experience attachment in, it really doesn't truly conclude ever, even if you don't talk for years. I wish someone would write a book about it in the way Liz Greene wrote about Saturn. Any reccommendations anyone?
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Nine
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posted September 15, 2018 08:26 AM
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Then, after so many years, we met again last year, and promptly fell in love
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We dated briefly in high school for a few months, which would be in 2004. Then we got back together in late 2005, and broke up in late 2011.
Which seven year period are talking about? 2004 to 2011, or 2011 to 2018? IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted September 15, 2018 09:06 AM
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Nine
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posted September 15, 2018 11:47 AM
Thanks, I'll go look at the synastry again. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted September 15, 2018 01:24 PM
For me, a relationships is timing and how a person makes you feel. For this reason I believe the progressed moon reveals a lot about how a relationship will develop.When it comes to attraction I believe the Sun plays a key role, after all, everything is magnetized and revolves around the Sun. So it follows you will need Sun contacts to attract another person into your orbit. This relationship lasted as long as it did because you guys were born pretty close to each other (20 & 21) as well as being close in age. This guarantees that your pSuns will remain in lock step. Eg. as you pSun moves to 6th, so will his...etc You are a Libra, he as moon in Libra that will create a natural bond coupled with your birthdates being a degree apart, you just needed the right catalyst to spark a romance. In 2004 his pMoon had moved into Gemini, there is was in conjunction to your nMoon. This, imo, ignited the natal Sun-Moon conjunction. Or rather released the relationship potential denoted in the natal synastry. The Beginning and the End are the Same. When does a day begin - at midnight. When does a day end - at midnight. Thus, the very aspects you find at the beginning of a relationship, are the same ones you will find at the end. What matters is what occurs during the lifespan of the relationship. In 2011 I see your pMoon had entered Taurus, here in was in conjunction to his nSun. His own pMoon was in late Virgo early Libra, in conjunction to your nSun. It was at this point when the relationship came to an end. So, the cause of the sustained attraction is your natal Sun-Moon conjuction, that your birth day are one day apart, AND, that your pSuns will remain 1° throughout your lives. Those numerical and astrological closeness will create a need for physical closeness as well. IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush
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posted September 15, 2018 02:23 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
For me, a relationships is timing and how a person makes you feel. For this reason I believe the progressed moon reveals a lot about how a relationship will develop.When it comes to attraction I believe the Sun plays a key role, after all, everything is magnetized and revolves around the Sun. So it follows you will need Sun contacts to attract another person into your orbit. This relationship lasted as long as it did because you guys were born pretty close to each other (20 & 21) as well as being close in age. This guarantees that your pSuns will remain in lock step. Eg. as you pSun moves to 6th, so will his...etc You are a Libra, he as moon in Libra that will create a natural bond coupled with your birthdates being a degree apart, you just needed the right catalyst to spark a romance. In 2004 his pMoon had moved into Gemini, there is was in conjunction to your nMoon. This, imo, ignited the natal Sun-Moon conjunction. Or rather released the relationship potential denoted in the natal synastry. The Beginning and the End are the Same. When does a day begin - at midnight. When does a day end - at midnight. Thus, the very aspects you find at the beginning of a relationship, are the same ones you will find at the end. What matters is what occurs during the lifespan of the relationship. In 2011 I see your pMoon had entered Taurus, here in was in conjunction to his nSun. His own pMoon was in late Virgo early Libra, in conjunction to your nSun. It was at this point when the relationship came to an end. So, the cause of the sustained attraction is your natal Sun-Moon conjuction, that your birth day are one day apart, AND, that your pSuns will remain 1° throughout your lives. Those numerical and astrological closeness will create a need for physical closeness as well.
Dear Nine, are your comments regarding this relationship or the one in the other thread? The relationship in the other thread started in November 2017. The chart on this thread shows the composite of the 2004-2011 relationship. I will read everything twice more once I know which chart you're referring to
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