posted September 02, 2018 03:36 PM            

I have met a wonderful man 8 weeks ago and we’ve spend at least an hour every day since we met. We are trying to take things slow as we both have children. I’m amazed by our Synastry, does this sound soulmatey to you??

•Sun opposite moon (double whammy) moon biquintile sun - 1 degree
•his Venus biquintile my mars - EXACT
•my sun conjunct his mars
•my sun square his Venus (double whammy) Venus quintile sun
•sun sextile sun - 1degree
•sun sequisquare Neptune
•his nodes square my mars - EXACT
•his nodes square my Saturn - 2 degrees
•his nodes square my Neptune - EXACT
•his North Node sextile my AC - EXACT
•his south node trine my AC - EXACT
•my North node conjunct his mercury - EXACT
•my vertex square his AC - 1 degree
•my vertex trine his mercury - EXACT
•his AC opposite my MC= his AC conjunct My IC
•Part of fortune Conjunct my moon - EXACT

From what I’ve read there are a lot of markers for a soulmate connection. What are your thoughts and have you ever experienced any of these aspects?

Please share your stories!

posted September 03, 2018 06:53 AM            

I don't know who's who in this zoo (and hard to see the chart because it's small) but there's a bit of a double whammy with these axes also as follows:

Someone's Gemini ascendant falls in the 11th house of the other, which is the traditional house of that other's descendant (that descendant ruled by Aquarius). And the other person with the descendant in Sagg, also has that other person's DC falling in their 9th - the traditional ruler of Sagg.

Both these traditional houses are highlighted because they are connected with the 7H (relationship house).

This is great for instant rapport. Depends what you want out of the relationship, but squares to nodal axis can be an issue long term, because it cuts the electromagnetic circuitry right in the middle and disrupts the flow.

I'll try look more.

All looks good.. until you get to the moons.. hmm..

posted September 03, 2018 07:02 AM            

I do see that one person's Pisces Mercury is on the other's NN, which is very nice and to me, indicates communication, rapport, and learning. I see this more as Gemini learning than Sag, so like books, academia, etc. Sag learning would be more like world travels and expanding through experiences together.

There are some resonances- water sun with air venus and earth mars and then an earth sun with air venus and water mars. Plus you are both Libra moons. So there is a lot of familiarity here.

posted September 03, 2018 02:45 PM            

Thanks for taking the time to look guys! ☺️

posted September 03, 2018 05:58 PM            

wide red moon square saturn; I actually think this will be ambient more than anything. Some heaviness, perhaps the moon person feels weighed down or unable to express their emotions as they really are.

there's wide sextile from red's jupiter to blues' mercury venus conjunction. This will really draw it out, and be a cute aspect. I like this one and feel like there is an ease between the two of you. Red also has their jupiter trine blue's venus, so this is a great aspect to enjoy. It makes for happy times, enjoying each other's company, ease, friendship, and laughter. Both of you will feel good in each other's company as a result.

mars trine cancer, pretty sexy! mars wide opposite pluto. again, bcs of the DW aspect this is definitely felt. More sexual tension happening here, and potentially some bak and forth struggles, power plays. There is also a wide mars trine saturn, so I kind of like this. I think of steady, like one person helps steady the other.

In composite, I like the mars trine moon- really good sexual chemistry and a nice flow to the energy of the relationship. I think you two will feel a very intuitive natural flow between each other. Things will just flow naturally. It is in air so I think this will still happen intellectually, but maybe it will add a nice flow to communication as well.

Venus sextile mars in composite, very nice sexual attraction! I really like the grand trine between sun, lilith and part of fortune. This makes me feel like you two together will do well with each other, and be stronger and less willing to submit than you would be on your own. It adds a little heat too to have Lilith in a beneficial position to the sun too.

Moon opposite Venus is wonderful in composite. Very sweet. Just watch that T square with Neptune. Neptune can be tricky. I think you will feel an added element of romance, but there can also be a tendency to not see things realistically. It's on the DSC so I would think this would pertain to the relationship itself.

What is interesting to me is that the composite doesn't really interact with either of your charts. Often you see a lot of touching from the composite to the natal, but here it is very segregated. I am trying to think of when I have seen that and can't really come up with anything. Normally I would think you both would not really connect, but i am not sure that is the case here. The biggest I see is the composite Venus and Moon on someone's NN/SN- so I think this person will be most affected. Neptune in composite is on the other person's
Mars.... not sure but maybe this person is the one more deceived?

posted September 03, 2018 06:43 PM            

Besides that, since day one we have spent at least an hour on the phone everyday. Our communication flows so well we always have loads to talk about and bounce off eachother. I’m definitely feeling “best friend” energy. The sexual tension is intense but I feel so scared to open myself up to find out it has all been a massive illusion 😳.. I am totally feeling our moons both being in libra, we are so similar emotionally & it’s clear relationships are very important to us but maybe I need to just enjoy it for what it is and stop worrying about that pesky Neptune.

I met his mum today, he made out like it didn’t happen intentionally but he always sort of involves her in our phone conversations, and she had some clothes out ready for my daughter. So obviously she was expecting me? Agree with you that he may feel weighed down and unable to express his emotions by perhaps making out it wasn’t a big deal me meeting his mum or him meeting my toddler today. Besides my head being blown and feeling rather overwhelmed by our relationship I do feel amazing rappor and closeness.

If your not seeing anything that looks too challenging then hopefully I can enjoy some of this passionate sexual chemistry going on and not worry to much about if this can be long term, and just enjoy and appreciate it for what it is.

posted September 03, 2018 06:59 PM            

Some examples:

posted September 03, 2018 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
Sassaqua I hope you could look a little deeper for me too. I read somewhere that squares to the north node in Synastry could indicate a soulmate connection. I was hoping this was a possibility x

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I would tread really carefully with this interaction. But I think that goes without saying for any relationship after a certain age.

I emphasis it here though, because:

1. You're both Libra Moons and potentially a bit over keen for a relationship (same as me you even sound like me tbh )
2. There is a optimistic over tone to this chart that may make things a bit fast and over hopeful before running into some hard core issues.

I refer to for the hopefuls:
1st: The axis points I mention above in my last post ^^
2nd: Jupiter opposite moon and also the Neptune square. The Moon has no other easy aspects so, it will run with these (the blue person)
3rd: Then there are these intense aspects with blue Pluto to reds Mars and Venus that can start a lusty earth cracking fire.. to start with..

The dangers waiting around the corner if you get in too fast are the following:
1st: Those Pluto aspects just mentioned
2nd: Then there's the Mars Opposite Saturn, Neptune and Uranus (goodness me). Blue Moon might feel duped and then get angry but bite off more than can chew with those outers?
3rd There's some BML double action

And also, your aspect list on the top post.. I don't see any Sun and Mars conjunct here (edit: oh, ok 8 degrees I see on the grid now). I did not check the rest of that list, but I will.

Go slow. As anyone should after a certain age and when there's kids involved

Good luck. Keep us updated!

StoneMoon - I'm so interested in that at the moment: when the natals don't link into the composite.. is it possible for a relationship to be ok? I am wondering, just in theory that perhaps a composite, as a new entity can be ok without linking in, and the synastry can perform enough. It's counter intuitive but I'm curious about this right now.

posted September 04, 2018 09:09 AM            

it's fascinating isn't it? I don't really think I can personally relate to a composite not linking in. Think of it like this- the composite is your energy entity of the relationship. If it connects to your chart, it connects to you personally. If it doesn't connect, you won't feel it. (or so I would think!)

You may feel the energy of the relationship and enjoy it, but I don't think it will impact you the same as if it were touching your personal planets.

I always look at how the composite touches the natal charts bcs I feel this is what tells me the purpose of the relationship for each individual. For example, if it touches your moon with its venus mercury conjunction, you will be affected emotionally through the love and communication in the relationship. You have the opportunity to grow here in this way. If something in composite touches your Jupiter, I believe you will be able to grow in your personal beliefs and philosophies, your outlook on the world. If it touches your Saturn, discipline. Pluto, ability to transform and grow. Learning to grow through letting go.

posted September 04, 2018 01:56 PM            

I do see Mars in Cancer is being affected too, its a square from the composite Venus. I just usually see more immediate, obvious connections.

I don't know that its wrong to not have it, but I don't know what it means. It could certainly mean new interactions. I would be curious to see what other's perspectives were on this. It's just my observation. I do see your composite touching the natal, just not as much as I usually see. So it made me curious.

posted September 04, 2018 05:11 PM            

right away I get some contradictory feelings with the composite....
the node square the juno/vertex conjunction is indicative of a strong and sudden feeling that a significant relationship is at hand.

I don't know what it is but as I've mentioned ,it seems the last few composites I have looked at all have strong vertex/node/Lilith aspects... these are aspects of psychic/destiny/karma/other worldly connections.these can be difficult to interpret because sometimes these aspects define a "spiritual"/psychic world that is somewhat removed from normal relationships.
that said..

the mars sextile to venus is a favorable emotional aspect and with moon opposed to venus and trine to mars the affection and attraction is quite strong and mutual.
I immediately have a problem as the midpoint of mars/venus is opposed to pluto which invariably shows the physical aspect of sexuality is much stronger that the emotional bonding power of physical intimacy. so though the affection genuine, the might be a bit of selfish intentions here.

another contradictory feeing I get is from the Saturn/Neptune conjunction on the descendant, square to venus and the moon. this is not favorable as invariably Saturn/Neptune is a deceptive aspect.it shows that there are hidden intentions . with pluto opposed to mras/venus this does not add up to a truthful relationship. The Uranus/Neptune conjunction on the descendant also implies grand dreams and promises that fall to the wayside.

Jupiter is trine o the descendant et.al. but rarely to trine aspects offset such questionable hard aspects as are present here.

even with the open and loving feelings created by the venus/sun midpoint conjunct to mercury and with the seemingly direct and honest mental connection of the moon/sun midpoint square to mercury,the unusual intensity of the vertex/node/Lilith aspects are misleading you,i think.

juno square the node is an aspect of commitment and the Saturn/moon midpoint conjunct the vertex and square to Lilith gives strong devotional energies to the composite.
based on these feeling,which may be overwhelming, you could feel the promise of a serious relationship.

but as I've mentioned in the beginning ,these vertex/node/Lilith aspects are so otherworldly that it is very difficult for a normal relationship to develop to the potential these aspect suggest.

the Saturn/pluto midpoint is square to ceres at midheaven .even this suggest there is actually a cold and calculated selfish reason behind the seemingly nurturing aspects of the relationship.

and the venus/Neptune midpoint(which would show emotional deception)is square to the vertex and Saturn/moon midpoint.

pluto is opposed to Jupiter which usualy shows that emotional commitment is not part of the connection but rather there are personal ambitions that r being served by the relationship. so with the mars/venus midpoint conjunct Jupiter, one might ask if this is a work or business/educational based relationship.it might be that ambition for social status or economic advancement is part of the relationship's hidden purpose.
todd

posted September 04, 2018 06:52 PM            

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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
Thanks for your wisdom Todd. Would you suggest I swerve this one or could good Synastry connections counteract a conflicting composite chart? I’ve always wondered this.
I don’t want to waste my time, especially as my progressed chart is pointing to new beginnings and meeting a significant other this year. I have been feeling real potential for a serious relationship with this man. But perhaps I need to let this one go and allow myself to be open to someone more compatible. I’m a little confused by if the strong Synastry and loving aspects of our composite are enough to work through the challenges that may wait ahead.
I don’t think there is any advancements for either of us in that sense regarding status or education, other than he has been very interested in helping me develop my creative skills and business.

Thank you

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well it is hard to tell how fate plays out, but as I have say I don't get good vibs long term, so I would keep it on a short lead, that is, make sure he does wants he says and is coherent in his actions and words all around. if he gets too ansy for a physical hookup, keep that in mind.
todd