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Topic: Scorpio moon man is very confusing
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AnastasiyaEnchanted
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From: Canada
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 08, 2018 10:34 AM
  
So there is this man at work who i am attracted to. He has a gemini stellium with a scorpio moon. He is very fun and flirty but also intense. He has this intense sexual energy around him amd i am just so pulled towards him. When i first met him he was very interested in me and i could tell he liked me a lot. But suddenly something changed and for the past few months he goes out of his way to avoid eye contact with me and acts very cold towards me. I dont understand what is going on. I am not going to pursue him now but i was just wondering if this is a scorpio moon or a gemini trait? I am a sagittarius sun with an aquarius moon.IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted September 08, 2018 03:38 PM
This belongs in Interpersonal Astrology. Moving it there.------------------
"Drift like a cloud and flow like water, seeing that all life is a magnificent illusion, a playing of energy, and there is absolutely nothing fundamentally to be afraid of." -- Alan Watts Soul Stars Astrology by The Declinations Guy
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kewf1988
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posted September 08, 2018 09:35 PM
Man, this is a lot like my situation, except I, the Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon, am the victim! The target of affection I've talked about on here has been doing this for around three months... at first, I thought she was being a typical Virgo, analyzing the situation and/or playing hard to get. However, on her birthday, I spoiled her rotten, and she was STILL cold, and when I offered to help her get over any fears she may have, still no response! I told her many times that if she wasn't interested, ready, or seeing someone else to just reject me, but nothing. The interesting thing is that next year, her Solar return is on the same day as my Lunar return, and my 2020 Solar return is on the same day as her Lunar return, and both are less than a half hour apart! Our charts in 2022 have STRONG indicators of marriage, and a date in late July of that year has so many conjunctions to our natals, especially involving the love asteroids!I've been getting closer to her two year old son during all this, and will likely shift ALL my attention towards him to send a message (I refuse to punish him for this)... if she ends up realizing that she may have missed out on a great influence on her son, maybe she'll learn to grow up (next year Saturn will transit her ascendant) and realize that you can't play games with people's hearts, and try to get my attention back (she has Leo Moon), but it won't be easy! I'll have to be the prize next time, as I'll never forget what she did. You can't string people along and then just ignore them like that, especially when I have a Scorpio Moon, conjunct Pluto! She'll finally see that side of me, rather than the humorous, fun, and intelligent Gemini side, which I'll still give her son. I SO emphasize with you, as I could NEVER go cold on a friend or love interest! IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 16, 2018 10:29 PM
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mir
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posted September 17, 2018 03:13 AM
He might like you a lot AnastasiyaEnchanted, but that doesn't mean he likes you the way you would prefer (sexually / romantically). Scorpio Moons (ofcourse) are masters in sensing those vibes and the last to play with it. They're serious. I am one too. And I'm sorry kewf1988 you're going through this. She will only learn it the hard way. Until then she's numb. IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
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posted September 17, 2018 01:33 PM
A myriad of reasons could explain his behavior, but the first one that came to mind is that perhaps you did something that bothered him. If a Scorpio moon likes you, they let it be known, and you're basically their helpless victim (rawr), so just enjoy the ride. There is a difference, however, between the Scorp energy simply being intense by default, and them actually energetically targeting you. But if he ISN'T purposely trying to pull you under his thrall (he'd not act so cold if he was), then, leads back to him being possibly bothered by something. Eye contact is important to Scorpio moons, so if he's avoiding, and not looking, then.... Seems like he's just pulled away. While Gemini is social, Scorpio is introverted, private and secretive. They don't like casual attitudes when it comes to emotional intimacy.
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outofideas
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posted September 21, 2018 02:11 AM
If a person suddenly becomes cold towards you and gives you a silent treatment and cold shoulder even when you go out of your way to initiate contact with them they are simply playing games and are not interested in putting any effort. Please don't invest your energy and time into a narcissistic person who is not giving you the time of day and is not meeting you half way. Stop wondering why they're treating you a certain way - if it has come to this then you're already self-doubting, take your power back and just let them be. Nobody has time for silly games and getting stuck into feeding an energy vampire. If they can't put the work in and reciprocate then oh well at least you've seen what they are like after the "honeymoon stage" of any relationship. You need 2 for any type of relationship and communication is at the basis of them all.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted September 28, 2018 05:47 PM
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Originally posted by outofideas:
If a person suddenly becomes cold towards you and gives you a silent treatment and cold shoulder even when you go out of your way to initiate contact with them they are simply playing games and are not interested in putting any effort. Please don't invest your energy and time into a narcissistic person who is not giving you the time of day and is not meeting you half way. Stop wondering why they're treating you a certain way - if it has come to this then you're already self-doubting, take your power back and just let them be. Nobody has time for silly games and getting stuck into feeding an energy vampire. If they can't put the work in and reciprocate then oh well at least you've seen what they are like after the "honeymoon stage" of any relationship. You need 2 for any type of relationship and communication is at the basis of them all.
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Randall
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posted October 03, 2018 10:09 AM
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Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 06, 2018 01:39 PM
It's a Scorpio thing.Met four (or more) this past Summer and they all played this game. Lunar Scorpios. You meet and the interaction is sparkling, then they simply stop communicating, turn into a stone, or ghost. Will become mightily upset is you don't try to impose on them to communicate. I've done this dance before so I know to ignore them. Generally, Scorpio energy isn't something I'm keen on bringing into my life, so meh. Anyway, soon enough he will find his way back and attempt to get you to chase him. Very insecure sign. As "intuitive" as they supposedly are, they can't tell when someone likes them, wants a fling, or something serious...so they have to play these games to find out. PS. Even when they're uninterested, they still play the running game. IP: Logged | |
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