posted September 15, 2018 02:56 PM            

Seriously though, I appreciate honesty. Just met this person. I get a good vibe from them, but what do you think?

posted September 15, 2018 03:45 PM            

[QUOTE]Originally posted by manderin:
[b]Seems like all my composites come out with a failing grade. Maybe this one will get a pass. (not holding my breath).

posted September 15, 2018 07:06 PM            

That is a lovely kite since it involves moon opposite jupiter on an angle.

posted September 16, 2018 04:23 AM            

But, I must say that, configurations (such as this Kite) can be hard is some ways (depending on the natals and more). Because they are compulsive.

I feel that it will be a fun ride but perhaps a lot of emotional overdrive, from the Moon opposite Jupiter. The point of the Kite is to Jupiter, and along this axis, AND to the ascendant. But in the 12H. Also, it falls outside of the stellium; it might be difficult to get back on track to the love aspects of the relationship.

I've actually had a similar composite configuration. It also was "pointing" to Jupiter, and it was like the relationship was some fast giddy ride we were both on, and it carried us along, rather than us having much power to directing it or the momentum.

I think also that, it depends on the natals and how the individual can adapt to that kind of thing. I mean, if they are low-key people it might be too exhausting.

Keep us posted. A lot of people get synastry feedback here but they don't report back. Would be good to hear how it travels

posted September 16, 2018 07:50 AM            

I can report back on another relationship though. I got out of a decade long relationship where the other person was mostly sweet and respectful for 8 of them then suddenly turned into a highly passive aggresive monster during the last 2 for seemingly no reason. This really changed my perspective of what was logical or possible in a relationship. Even when I was trying to help him so that we could part as friends he seemed dead set on making sure we became enemies no matter what and was willing to utterly destroy his own property and important aspects of his life just to give me a tiny little bit of discomfort. This was our composite.

posted September 16, 2018 07:53 PM            

Yes, aware that it is only an early relationship. But, still.. feel free to keep the post updated because we all learn

On that other dude.. yep.. not a new tale. There are horrible people around for sure. I had similar situation, I couldn't work out why we couldn't part as friends and in good spirits either. But he wanted me truly gone because he had a better option to move on with. Friendship, and keeping good relations was irrelevant to him.

Some people are just like that, they only think short term and what they want to get. You have to be careful because of this.

This second chart has no Love Stellium, first. And that Jupiter in the t-square is blowing out the Moon opposite Saturn.

These days with my learning, I am assuming that, the Love Stellium provides a solid foundation to weather any challenging aspects. Where the threshold is though I am still learning - I mean, how far, and what challenging aspects it will protect I am still learning (eg, will a LS protect against, say, 2 t-squares?).

In the second composite there it lacks that Love Stellium that would weather the t-square. IMO.

posted September 20, 2018 04:28 AM            

We bumped into each other twice at the same restaurant where we both entertain clients.

The first time we had drinks and had a fun conversation. The second time it happened I couldn't remember his name, but he remembered mine. He also insisted on paying for my dinner (A pricey steak meal that I ordered after my business colleague who I had cocktails with had left). We then spent an hour and a half sharing a ton of laughs and great conversation comparing our similar childhood experiences and showing each other photos of how we spend our time. Then as I'm about to head home he asks for my number.

I thought for sure he was interested, but it's become pretty clear after a week of texting back and forth that he's just playing games and doesn't really have intentions of meeting again intentionally. I know there are guys like this, but man he really had me going with paying for me and everything else he did. He probably does that to women to get people to text on his phone regularly.

You know what's really annoying? There are two other guys that HAVE really taken the initiative to go out with me and definitely aren't playing games, but our charts are horrific. The guys who make the initiative to take me out are the ones who I have zero mental compatibility with and directly square my entire stellium in Cancer. I had an ex like this and it was hell on earth... but he really wanted to be with me despite our lack of compatibility so I wanted to give it a shot too even though there was no real affinity between us. This keeps happening to me. The few times I meet someone where we really seem to hit it off mentally and have things in common the guy shows little interest in me even when everyone claims our astro-compatiblity is good, but when it's a horrible composite and synastry where everyone here tells me to RUN away fast, and where the two of us barely have a single thing in common the guy practically chases me down to ask me out. It's really frustrating.

posted September 20, 2018 07:14 AM            

I'm only interested in the unattainable ***** .. I've been texting with someone for 3 months! We'll never meet though.

Is there something in your natal to deal with?

Also, maybe you should've done the synastry first?

posted September 20, 2018 11:15 AM            

Well here's the synastry for the guy who turned out to just be playing games. His planets are the blue and mine are the red.

Here's the synastry for the guy who is definitely into me and wants to keep taking me out on dates despite the fact that we have NOTHING in common.. His chart is virtually identical to an ex of mine where we had a HORRIBLE relationship that ended in calling the police several times and legal battles... but that ex also went after me with the same ghusto as this guy does.

posted September 20, 2018 07:25 PM            

If you haven't come a way to resolved issues that come from abuse, signals can go out.

Men can sense a woman that is off balance, or not rounded in her capacity to be discerning.

You can run the risk of choosing wrongly if your senses are off too.

posted September 20, 2018 08:33 PM            

It's been a repeated theme in my life that it seems my choice is either to be with someone I do not like at all or be alone. I'm not kidding when I say every guy I've had good astrology with according to people won't take me out. The ones that chase after me are the ones I do not have anything in common with. I'm really tired of it and makes me think it's my destiny.

posted October 01, 2018 10:19 AM            

I know how you feel.. I'll try and have a look at your natal closer, maybe something will show there?

I was wondering too if you could post a Davison chart. As I understand it, they will show more about the relationship.

Also, I believe that challenges in the relationship will always be there. And, even, the odds of getting no red flag challenging aspects are low to nil. I and many here are learning about charts so it must not be taken as gospel. You must keep on and try to find your companion