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Topic: Is this synastry a total no-go? I really have my doubts
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3085 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 17, 2018 03:18 PM
Please share your views on this synastry between me (the virgo) and this taurus guy. I just get a bit afraid of all the air and fire energy in his chart, and the venus-saturn and venus-neptune square I posted both the synastry and composite below
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 10819 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 17, 2018 03:30 PM
Its incredible how often I am noticing ruler of the DC in the 6th house in composite or davison charts!!!!!!!!!!!I am thinking that means the couple is willing to put in the day to day work of making the relationship work maybe... I love that you have a mystic rectangle with two tsquares in your synastry and a mystic rectangle with a tsquare in composite. In composite sun opposite venus and moon opposite pluto forming a tsquare with Mars while the moon trines saturn helping ground those intense emotions you generate in a each other sounds promising, you two will no doubt have romantic feelings for one another with those aspects. I like that his SUN activates the moon opposite pluto aspect in composite. Its very promising too that Venus rules your chart and aspects the SUN, this will be an important relationship. I like how the DC ruler aspects the Moon too so the AC ruler and DC ruler aspect the sun and moon, again a sign this is an important relationship and increases the chances it will be lasting, at least even after it ends you will probably always care for one another bc you will touch each other's soul at a deep level. IP: Logged |
HieronymusTush Knowflake Posts: 143 From: Registered: Aug 2018
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posted September 17, 2018 05:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Its incredible how often I am noticing ruler of the DC in the 6th house in composite or davison charts!!!!!!!!!!!I am thinking that means the couple is willing to put in the day to day work of making the relationship work maybe... I love that you have a mystic rectangle with two tsquares in your synastry and a mystic rectangle with a tsquare in composite. In composite sun opposite venus and moon opposite pluto forming a tsquare with Mars while the moon trines saturn helping ground those intense emotions you generate in a each other sounds promising, you two will no doubt have romantic feelings for one another with those aspects. I like that his SUN activates the moon opposite pluto aspect in composite. Its very promising too that Venus rules your chart and aspects the SUN, this will be an important relationship. I like how the DC ruler aspects the Moon too so the AC ruler and DC ruler aspect the sun and moon, again a sign this is an important relationship and increases the chances it will be lasting, at least even after it ends you will probably always care for one another bc you will touch each other's soul at a deep level.
May I ask why you put emphasis on DC in synastry? Is it only 7th house related? Do you take it into account in composites as well?
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hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 10819 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 17, 2018 05:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by HieronymusTush: May I ask why you put emphasis on DC in synastry? Is it only 7th house related? Do you take it into account in composites as well?
I don't put emphasis on the DC ruler in synastry personally although I check to see if planets hit that angle in synastry, I do tend to check the DC ruler in Davison and composite bc I am noticing a pattern of the DC ruler in davison or composite often falling in the 6th, marriage is a day to day thing so I can see how people who get married maybe end up with DC ruler in the 6th. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 103638 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 20, 2018 08:40 PM
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3085 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 21, 2018 02:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by hypatia238: Its incredible how often I am noticing ruler of the DC in the 6th house in composite or davison charts!!!!!!!!!!!I am thinking that means the couple is willing to put in the day to day work of making the relationship work maybe... I love that you have a mystic rectangle with two tsquares in your synastry and a mystic rectangle with a tsquare in composite. In composite sun opposite venus and moon opposite pluto forming a tsquare with Mars while the moon trines saturn helping ground those intense emotions you generate in a each other sounds promising, you two will no doubt have romantic feelings for one another with those aspects. I like that his SUN activates the moon opposite pluto aspect in composite. Its very promising too that Venus rules your chart and aspects the SUN, this will be an important relationship. I like how the DC ruler aspects the Moon too so the AC ruler and DC ruler aspect the sun and moon, again a sign this is an important relationship and increases the chances it will be lasting, at least even after it ends you will probably always care for one another bc you will touch each other's soul at a deep level.
Thanks a lot for your interpretation! I really hope you are right, and that this is a great match as well! I am just a bit afraid by the level of intensity in this synastry/composite, since we have a lot of harsh pluto aspects? IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted September 24, 2018 10:01 AM
There's no mystic rectangle in the composite here IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 10819 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 24, 2018 11:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by sassaqua: There's no mystic rectangle in the composite here
Moon, Neptune, Pluto and Chiron are forming a mystic rectangle, Chiron shows in the aspect grid as sextile moon and trine Pluto and is opposite Neptune, the trine is wide though but since is part of an astrological pattern it might count. It's a Cinderella mystic rectangle. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 10819 From: Mercury novile and parallel Pluto, Pluto septile Southnode Registered: Sep 2014
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posted September 24, 2018 11:13 AM
Or you can say is half a mystic rectangle and half a tsquare with mars at the apex which I am sure is its own astrological pattern but don't know the name for it but I feel that pattern is very powerful.IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted September 24, 2018 12:59 PM
Ok yes with Chiron IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3085 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 23, 2018 05:22 PM
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sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted October 24, 2018 01:49 AM
How are you going with this? I just saw the Pluto/Venus in the synastry and gasped. The rest of the synastry looks a bit disconnected with the personal planets? But, still, definitely a roll there with the mystic rectangle in the synastry. I haven't had a minute to look at the relationship/Davison charts. Is there anything in particular you want to ask? Can you mention what the relationship is? The dynamics, and what kind of challenges etc you might be experiencing? Or wanting to resolve?
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3085 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 28, 2018 02:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by sassaqua: How are you going with this? I just saw the Pluto/Venus in the synastry and gasped. The rest of the synastry looks a bit disconnected with the personal planets? But, still, definitely a roll there with the mystic rectangle in the synastry. I haven't had a minute to look at the relationship/Davison charts. Is there anything in particular you want to ask? Can you mention what the relationship is? The dynamics, and what kind of challenges etc you might be experiencing? Or wanting to resolve?
We are still seeing each other, but are not official. We have been dating for around 2-3 months now... I am still not sure about if I want to take it to the next level with him or not. I feel that in one minute we are all hot and both of us is very emotionally involved, but the next minute one of us feels a bit emotionally distant. Maybe him mostly... I still have my doubts whether I should just run away, or whether I seriously want to be in a relationship with him. One moment I think it could be really nice, but I also think he is a bit too emotionally cold and distant. I don't know if it is Saturn/Uranus doing this, or his lack of water in his natal chart... But I don't think this is a good sign this early in a relationship. I mean, we should both be very emotionally involved and "in love" in the beginning at least, but if he already now feels a bit cold and distant, I'm not sure this is great for me... I'm very affectionate and emotional myself, so whether it is good or bad to be with someone who seems to be completely different is hard to tell. All my earlier relationships have been with overly sensitive people, and this wasn't a success either. So maybe it is great to be with someone who seems more stabile, or maybe this is a sign he is not that into me? All this doubt isn't great either, but I fear talking with him about it. So I don't really know what my question is, it just feels like I am building up a wall already, and maybe he is doing it too? But then again, I usually do this in the beginning of new relationships....it's really hard for me to trust people, and his heavy gemini-influence sitting in my 12th house, is making it really hard to trust him. IP: Logged |
next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3085 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 11, 2018 06:52 AM
BUMP! Please, can someone say a few words? IP: Logged |
Brenda_S Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Registered: Sep 2018
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posted November 12, 2018 05:32 AM
Charts are removed it seems?I'll just add in my two cents though... First you mentioned about his Venus to Saturn/Neptune square... In my natal I have Venus opposite Neptune only... Don't think that would lend to his coldness. However the Saturn square... Although I don't have that one natally, I do have Saturn in soft aspect to moon. And my emotions are definitely contained. I need to feel pretty certain that a guy is into me before letting loose. And although my Venus and Mars are in a water sign... Yeah maybe I might not act cold or distant, depending on my level of annoyance with a guy... The more I'm into him, and the more unsure I am about the mutual feelings, the more distant and 'Saturnian' I'll become. Just a protective mechanism sorta... But not sure how it'll pan out with the Venus square Saturn, although I'd think it would be somewhat bordering it. And I think his Taurus Sun should mitigate somewhat the air and fire energy. Doesn't mean he'll act all mushy, but at least not just flighty. Actually it's tough to say. I have a Taurus Sun with air and fire in my chart too... I can cut a guy out in an instant if I just find him to be annoying. And I'll probably just ignore his texts. That's probably my Uranus opposing my Venus. But if I'm unsure about him, or if I think he's pretty charming and fun to chat or hang out with... Yeah I'll probably not ignore him, but I'll try to avoid getting too close until I'm more sure of what I want out of this. Unless he's just cool with the just hanging out part then I'll just flow along cuz it's fun. But for the guys I'm into, it definitely borders game playing which probably is due to the Pluto opposing my Sun. So I won't ignore them, but I'll also try real hard to not let my emotions flow. Honestly I still wonder if they pick up on that energy lol. In your case you haven't said much about your situation except for the fact that sometimes it's intense and other times the opposite... But yeah definitely post your charts again. And more about how he acts when he's distant. Does he ignore you? Does he act all cocky? Does he act offensive? I think all that matters, in relation to his chart of course. IP: Logged |
llewsacm Knowflake Posts: 994 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted November 12, 2018 10:35 PM
I'm not fond of this synastry and I'll tell you why. First, the mystic rectangle is made up of his sun, Saturn, Pluto and her Jupiter. All of those hard planets sucking energy from that one benfic planet of hers. Yes she has outer planets there too...but Jupiter in the mix with all of that. I'd like to see his moon figured in somewhere within that configuration... Secondly, Mars and Moon are unaspected in his chart. All of that gemini energy stagnant with their interactions...I cannot see that as positive. IP: Logged |
sassaqua Knowflake Posts: 655 From: Oz Registered: May 2011
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posted November 18, 2018 07:13 AM
It's a nope from me because it's just too red. Simple.
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 3085 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 18, 2018 01:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by llewsacm: I'm not fond of this synastry and I'll tell you why. First, the mystic rectangle is made up of his sun, Saturn, Pluto and her Jupiter. All of those hard planets sucking energy from that one benfic planet of hers. Yes she has outer planets there too...but Jupiter in the mix with all of that. I'd like to see his moon figured in somewhere within that configuration... Secondly, Mars and Moon are unaspected in his chart. All of that gemini energy stagnant with their interactions...I cannot see that as positive.
I wonder if his unaspected gemini moon/mars is what makes him really guiet too? cause I would have thought that a gemini moon/mars is really talkative, but he just really isn't with me, when we are together... I'm kinda loosing my faith in this relationship I just don't really see how it's gonna work out on the long-term with all these obstacles this early in our relationship. It seems like we communicate in totally different ways, and then there's all this on-off energy that makes me really insecure
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