posted September 18, 2018 10:42 AM            

I would love your feedback on the synastry and composite between me and the love of my life. We’ve been together for 3 years and are now engaged!

We have our share of issues, for sure, but I have also never been in a more supportive relationship that also includes deep friendship, joy and love. I am blue in the synastry.

If you can comment on what you see, gifts as well as challenges, I would be most grateful to you!

posted September 19, 2018 11:53 PM            

And I should have added, we’re both women. Looking forward to your comments on our charts, thanks so much Todd.

posted September 20, 2018 03:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Mia82:
Thanks you both.

And I should have added, we’re both women. Looking forward to your comments on our charts, thanks so much Todd.

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that is helpful, could you add Sappho(80) to your composite chart please
todd

posted September 20, 2018 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
that is helpful, could you add Sappho(80) to your composite chart please
todd

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Thank you. I’ve added Sappho to the composite and synastry above.

I find it intriguing that her nodal axis is exactly conjunct my Asc-Desc axis, and the composite Asc-Desc axis is exactly conjunct my nodal axis

posted September 21, 2018 05:14 PM            

your composite does have some intriguing aspects' the mars/venus midpoint is conjunct to Uranus which gives the immediate and intense emotional and physical attraction between you. then with the moon/mercury midpoint also conjunct to uranus ,the mental/psychic connection is just as vibrant.in addition to the mental stimulation, this asp3ct can give a sense of "destiny 'a s you both a=can read each other minds as well a know what each other is feeling spontaneously. so its hared to tell whether you were attracted mentally or [physically at first.

with the mars/Uranus midpoint conjuct to juno and juno square to the vertex, it seems that your both felt a long term relationship was likely from the very beginning.

Jupiter square to the sun also brings in impulse of commitment and here the saturn/moon midpoint is conjunct Jupiter and square to the sun which bring s deep impulse of devotion which could also cement your emotional commitment.

with the venus/Sappho midpoint conjunct the moon and the moon square to the node, your same sex attraction is integral to your love and relationship.

I do have a small concern which is that the Saturn/mars midpoint is also conjunct to the moon which could show a possessiveness and restrictive tendency which might bring needless jealousy .

the composite has Jupiter in a 1/11 the harmonic to juno and the midpoint is conjunct to the mars/moon midpoint.
this suggests that both of your professional endeavors will be strengthen by the relationship. it could show that you have kindred professions in the first place, but whichever ,the relationship will help both of you advance ion you education/professional life.

urns can often be a fickle influence as the intensity can eclipse and the attraction end but here with the Venus/Uranus midpoint trine to the north node. the vibrancy and love between you will always retain it's spontaneity and stabilizes your love for each other.

todd

posted September 22, 2018 04:07 AM            

It feels like a very deeply special relationship, but not without learning curves and big lessons for each of us. I hope we can make it last.

In addition to the midpoint aspects you’ve highlighted, can you comment on any of the planetary aspects?

Moon (comp 7th house ruler) conduct to Pluto sometimes make me worry. But the relationship is quite transforming too..

posted September 22, 2018 05:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Mia82:
Thank you so much Todd for your insight.

It feels like a very deeply special relationship, but not without learning curves and big lessons for each of us. I hope we can make it last.

In addition to the midpoint aspects you’ve highlighted, can you comment on any of the planetary aspects?

Moon (comp 7th house ruler) conduct to Pluto sometimes make me worry. But the relationship is quite transforming too..

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I looked at that but as the orb is 6 degrees and waning, I didn't think it would be as significant as the other aspects.

but if anything I think as pluto is sixtile to the vertex and sextile to Neptune, tha the moon would be influenced by these very healing aspects so overall I think the moon/pluto conjunction would function to make you both very sensitive to each others emotional issues and would be a supportive and healing energy in the chart.

it might reflect that you both had a close but non-communicative relationships with your mothers. pluto moons are hard to call as the can show intimacy of separations emotionally.

todd

posted September 24, 2018 12:34 AM            

Would you or anyone else be able to comment on our synastry?

Best

posted October 07, 2018 09:31 AM            

Will our marriage have longevity potential and growth potential too?

posted October 17, 2018 11:41 PM            

Is it significant that our Suns are tightly trine and mine is my 7th H ruler and hers rules her 8th H?

I can only say the love I feel exists bewteen is the most profound I have ever experienced. I do hope it is the same for her, though she fills my 8th H and I don’t touch hers.

But my moon is tightly conjunct her Venus (conj Saturn) which rules her 5th H and she has said she wants children with me. I really have never felt so cared for and the feeling is mutual - she touches my Ceres in Scorpio too.

I hope we can go the distance 🍀