posted September 21, 2018 08:45 PM            

Even if the connection was amazing, the actual getting to know each other part will take time. But you're both Taurus suns - so, not short on patience there!

posted September 22, 2018 05:54 PM            

the moon/juno/Saturn stellium which is trine to mars forms a grand trine which usually shows a very compatible relationship. moon/juno/Saturn is very favorable for a serious relationship.

grand trines can sometimes bring complacency into a relationship but here with mercy square o the vertex, you mental connect is vibrant and you emotional compatibility is augmented by your intellectual pleasure with each other.

the Jupiter/sun conjunction is also very favorable as it shows an innate affection beteen you. this can be contributory toward a serious relationship though it can alo jus shows an excelll3ent friendship. here with pallas square to Jupiter and the sun, I think it symbolizes more because you seem to be emotionally empowered by this relationship. And as Jupiter is at midheaven, this bodes well for a serious relationship. often with a strong Jupiter ,ther is a connection thru your place of employment of thru an association in an educational milieu .with the venus/moon midpoint square to the sun ad Jupiter, I think this is more than just a friendship , has a romantic edge also.
with the juno/Jupiter midpoint opposed to Lilith,there is certainly a heart felt possibility of a committed relationship.
Saturn conjunct to juno shows he is onboard wit this potential.

the obvious uncertainty is Uranus/moon opposed to chiron/psyche.while this adds a very romantic and spiritual quality to your emotional interactions, it can show an intensity that can not be sustained.
with the Uranus/Saturn midpoint conjunct the moon, he might have hesitations about something exclusive , but with the eros/psyche midpoint square to priaus and the node, there is a enchanting emotional and physical attraction between you that is quite strong.
I think even with the suspect Uranus/Chiron opposition, there is so much good symmetry that this could not be a bad relationship in the long run. devotion is hard to call but here are so many aspects of sensitivity and respect that even it doesn't go the distance, you have a good friend here.

I think the second date might have been a function of him not wanting to be to committed. and then Saturn is conjunct to Neptune so he is a private person and the initial openness might have scared him back into his shell.

after reading you post above, there is one aspect that I considered and then dismissed because of the excellent symmetry .mars/Neptune midpoint and the mars/Saturn midpoint is conjunct to priapus and the node and ascendant. this would explain his behavior on the second date as it shows him to be cautions and concealed in his true feelings. priapus brings in the possibility that he has a exclusively sexual interest and might have wanted to distance you and he from any further emotional intimacy.
this line of reasoning could be bared out as he has eros conjunct to mars and these are opposed to his Uranus/priapus in his natal. this pattern is that of a man who doesn't want to be tied down and is especially into his charm and sexuality.

todd

posted September 25, 2018 09:04 AM            

Also, the fact your moons are square is another red flag for me.
Scorpio moon in the 4th , so he is SUPER emotional and sensitive and very very emotionally private and closed off more than the average Scorpio moon since the 4th is a very hidden energy.
Your moon in aqua in the 5th and your venus in Aries is not going to like this after awhile... your moon in aqua is logical, detached, rational and communicative and a lot more open in the 5th, you’ll have a very hard time understanding his emotions or reactions or his needs. I feel like you’ll get frustrated especially with your venus in Aries also which is more open and fast moving and doesn’t want to deal with the broodiness and moodiness and lack of openness a Scorpio moon brings.
I also feel like you won’t like the intensity of a Scorpio moon, it might rub your moon the wrong way.
It will take awhile to really see this side of him though...

The closest people in my life have always been Scorpio moons (men and women), from childhood best friends, lovers etc. and they ALL have a dark side that’s not so pretty sometimes. They can be very vindictive when hurt, usually hold a grudge and plot revenge, lash out verbally (sting you lol), very jealous/possessive, secretive/keeps things from you unless it’s a need to know basis, can have a bad temper, can be manipulative/cunning. These are all things you should be prepared for to some degree.
You need a lot of patience, empathy, forgiveness and not be freaked out if they share some dark or weird thoughts, ideas, interests or feelings with you lol.
The positives though outweigh the negatives in my opinion any day. These are the most trustworthy, loyal, dependable people in the world who will always have your back once you’re in their inner circle or important to them. Very protective and tolerant of your own flaws or negative traits as well, they understand human psychology very well and can actually be very understanding and empathic. They get it. And don’t judge you.

The type of people where if you called them in the middle of the night because you murdered someone and needed to hide the body, they would be there ASAP, no questions asked and you wouldn’t have to worry about them ratting you out 👍

posted September 26, 2018 12:26 AM            

Yes, and you would still be a Virgo rising if you were born a few minutes earlier, and cap would become your new 5th ruler 👍
I really really feel this is accurate for you based on your dating history. So I would play around with bringing the time back up to 20 minutes or so, so that Capricorn is your 5th cusp ruler and see if any other planetary house placements change and what resonates the best.