posted November 02, 2018 12:58 AM            

I'm about to go out again soon... Just thought it would be interesting to know why I feel this way.

Based on our chart I can't figure it out. Is it his Mercury in my 12th house?

I'm on the outside
(His TOB is approximate)

posted November 03, 2018 08:21 PM            

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Originally posted by manderin:
Is he the one on the inside? Because I see some potential problems with commitment with the person on the inside.

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I'm the one on the outside. I'm not that into him, although he's cool. But this communication thingy I can't figure out.

posted November 04, 2018 07:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Melinn:
He has a Mercury square Saturn aspect natally... drops the mic

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posted November 05, 2018 03:31 AM            

If it wasn't for my friend's case I would think of Mercury-Saturn or someone's Saturn in the other's 3rd H Saturn acts like a block.

Mercury in House 12
You may have some difficulty understanding each other's ideas in a purely intellectual way. However, this placement often compensates for the above by making it easier for you to communicate with, or understand each other on a subconscious or intuitive level. This placement often shows that the communications between you connect you in ways that are not apparent to others. The Mercury person's words can stimulate the twelfth house person's intuitive senses, but may also inspire feelings of guilt, uncertainty, and martyrdom. There is also the possibility of dissembling or outright deception in this relationship, especially if there are harsh major aspects between Mercury and the twelfth house person's planets.

I found this here: http://www.wanderingstarjewelry.com/Synastry-Relationship-Astrology-Report_ep_60-1.html

posted November 05, 2018 12:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
You mean me here... True for some people, but wouldn't think he'd be one of them. Since on text as mentioned it's real smooth. And seems like there's no harsh aspects really going on there. Except for it being in my twelfth house.

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You? No did you not write that you are on the outside?
He is the blue one right? Then he has saturn square mercury.

You asked about bad communication. Yes one can and should of course look for more indicators.

No I don't believe its bc of his mercury in your 12th that you feel this way.

Mercury harsh aspects to saturn is no joke I can tell you that. Its a very harsh energy, impossible to miss, also one of the biggest puzzles in his chart.

For me, seeing that he has mercury square saturn natally is one of the biggest clues.

People with mercury saturn hard aspects have a harsh energy when it comes to communication. Like, really harsh. They mean well but diplomacy and putting it softly, is usually not their thing, and I'm just talking about mer-saturn here.

Also, not to sound dissmissive or anything, but smooth in text communication? Well some would not call it real communication.

Being smooth and funny and sounding caring in text is not hard. Face to face communication is what counts I would say.

We usually have an other persona texting. Some can seem extra dry. Some can be extra warm and be able to say and write things they don't dare to face to face etc Anyways, texting is not the thing to look at regarding communication in your case, imo.

You feel something choking when face to face? That may well be his mercury-saturn energy hitting you on the face so to speak.
He lives with it so he won't notice.

Its all about energies^^

Also his Mars is on your mercury. Be ready for heated arguments, just saying^^