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Starry~*
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posted November 05, 2018 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone dated or been with someone who's venus sign was opposite of yours? Did you feel that your styles of loving didn't really jive, or did you think it was more complementary?

I am starting to think that opposing venus signs can bring a complementary element to a relationship. i.e., a venus in taurus and a venus in scorpio. Scorp venus would be more intense and full of depth, but not so bad if paired with a sensual loving taurus. However, a taurus might seem too physical so therefore too "on the surface" where as the scorpio is looking into depth too much..

Also - did any other aspects help in smoothing out the opposing differences? For example, anything going on with your moons?

Thoughts?

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comdoc
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posted November 05, 2018 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My beloved first wife of 7 years has Sun and Venus in Sag opposite my Gemini Venus, trine my Leo Mars and Aries Sun. Her Libra Moon oppose my Aries Sun, trine my Gemini Moon and sextile my Leo Mars/ASC. Sexualove powerful, and values were in resonant harmony.

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Originally posted by Starry~*:
Has anyone dated or been with someone who's venus sign was opposite of yours? Did you feel that your styles of loving didn't really jive, or did you think it was more complementary?

I am starting to think that opposing venus signs can bring a complementary element to a relationship. i.e., a venus in taurus and a venus in scorpio. Scorp venus would be more intense and full of depth, but not so bad if paired with a sensual loving taurus. However, a taurus might seem too physical so therefore too "on the surface" where as the scorpio is looking into depth too much..

Also - did any other aspects help in smoothing out the opposing differences? For example, anything going on with your moons?

Thoughts?


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ana_bee
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posted November 06, 2018 03:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,
my ex and I have it in Aries/Libra. He is the Libra. I didn’t notice anything negative, sexually. Maybe because his Mars is very well integrated in his chart, and we have other good aspects.

I just didn’t necessarily like the way he dressed. One of our first dates was in a burger joint .. very casual. Well he came with dressy shoes and a polo shirt and had his sweater tied around the shoulders. It looked ridiculous. At the beginning that was his go-to outfit whenever we would do something. Literally that same outfit! Every single time! I would always make fun of it.. in a playful way of course. After a while he would only wear it, when we were fighting. So whenever there was beef between us, he would tie his sweater around his shoulders.. I could’ve strangled him with that.

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kani
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posted November 06, 2018 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ana_bee:
So whenever there was beef between us, he would tie his sweater around his shoulders.. I could’ve strangled him with that.

Lol that's funny.

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Starry~*
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posted November 06, 2018 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Starry~*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all for your responses!

Haha, the sweater thing is funny. Libra venuses like to out-do things sometimes.

But being a libra myself, I rather over dress than under dress..that is way way worse. But maybe not with a sweater lol

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ana_bee
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posted November 06, 2018 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha yes.. we did find humor in that after all. Back then it was serious business though 🙄
He really had a preppy, refined side to him, very Libra.

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Melinn
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posted November 06, 2018 03:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Melinn     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ana_bee:
Haha yes.. we did find humor in that after all. Back then it was serious business though 🙄
He really had a preppy, refined side to him, very Libra.

Haha it really is funny! I would feel the same about "sweater tied around the shoulders"


I have venus in ariesand I somehow always seem to attract men with venus in libra. I have my south node in libra.

One of my guy friends whom I like very much, has venus in libra. But style wise, not your typical libra. He is a jeans and t-shirt guy which is good of course, but he has only a few t-shirts.

He does not care much for his outfits. He always wears the same pair of shoes and jacket. I asked him when he will change his shoes, and he says he does noy wanna spend money on shoes! But he spends a lot of money on electronics! Sigh..

His hair style, really is not good. It really frustrates me, since he has such nice hair and such potential!

I don't know what in a guys chart shows why a guy does not have style or not care for style. Especially, what cancels a guys Libra venus?!

I mean, I don't need much, for me its only his jacket and shoes thats the problem haha. 2-3 pairs of chelsea boots or combat boots, 1-2 pair of nice coats would be an amazing upgrade haha!

And that he needs more pair of jeans, thats all

Gee I sound like a snob! Well I'm very picky about style and clothes! I have taurus placements, quality and nice fabric is a most.
I have virgo asc with many planets aspecting it, "Look good, feel good" is my motto!
I can't stand sloppyness in people in school or work place environments that is. Anyways this is not a style thread.


With that said, I actually like having opposite sign venus with guys.
Mine is in aries and I'm attracted to libra venus soft non invasive energy and charm. I really admire their diplomasy. BUT, I'm attracted to it in the beginning bc I lack in it. In the long run, I dislike the libra energy, my aries side finds them insincere, even when its not true!

So its a love-hate relationship for me!

Also I have virgo rising and many virgo midpoints. My virgo side really likes libras polite and careful type of energy and vibe. They have manners, and we virgos really like that haha

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