posted November 08, 2018 01:20 PM            

However surely if two planets which are typically paired in synastry - eg, venus and mars, are conjunct one another, one way (only one way, so not a double whammy) but also mutually in aspect to one anothers outer planet/s, it must be significant??

Okay the way i phrased it above doesnt really explain it well, so i will just give an example.
So, take venus and mars. These two go together, and are often used and thought of together in synastry.
So, say :

A womans venus is conjunct a mans mars.
The womans mars is not conjunct the mans venus, so we do not have a tradional double whammy, but..

as well as the womans venus being conjunct the mans mars,

her venus tightly aspects one of his outer planets, say, pluto

and in turn, due to the conjunction already established between venus and mars (which is only one way, hence no double whammy), his mars also tightly aspects her pluto.

I suppose this must only work if you are born within some months - a year of eachother, because the degree of either persons venus would have to be at the same point as the other persons mars, and both of these would have to be at the same point as whatever outer planet it is - but surely this requirement makes it even more special and significant?

Also, since they would have to be born near eachother, and since outer moving planets move slowly, they would also have to have the corresponding natal aspects.

Okay Im sure this is wayy too confusing because I havent explained it that well. It is all over the place, I apologise. Ill give one more example just to make sure. I am really sorry lol

Im going to use venus and mars again. I feel like it wouldnt really qualify to the same significance if the two planets involved were mercury and mars or something.
With venus and mars being involved i feel it is very most significant because their contacts can strongly define the relationship, drive, and sexual energy between the two?

Okay so. Example 2:

A womans venus in pisces conjuncts a mans venus in pisces. His venus is in leo, and her mars is in capricorn in different degrees, so no aspect is made that way, so it is not a double whammy. Just a singular venus- mars aspect.

But, the womans venus conjuncts the mans uranus in pisces. And similarly, the mans mars conjuncts the womans uranus in pisces .

Surely this is pretty significant ??! Wouldnt the relationship therefore be strongly influenced by the outer planet?? Since there is an aspect between the two personal planets, bringing them together, and then there is a double whammy of aspects to outer planets made by both?

posted November 08, 2018 08:18 PM            

I think the examples used were more along the lines of

Pluto conjunct Eros
Psyche trine Pluto