posted November 09, 2018 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by LunaIscariot:
I don’t think that’s an astrological thing at all.
That just sounds like insecurity, that person probably isn’t confident in their body for whatever reason, that’s why they don’t want anyone to see them hence the lights off.

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posted November 09, 2018 05:25 PM            

I'm about to get hot with someone. We are currently scheduling things. We both have Saturn in our 5th house, so, I am figuring he feels as comfortable as I do about excel spreadsheeting the arrangement. Lol.

So, I am looking too at his 8th house and will be watching very carefully. So far, he's been super aggressive in pursuit: Aries on 5th house cusp (with Saturn in there in Aries). But, he does have Cancer on his 8H cusp and it will be very interesting. He's a Sag sun.

posted November 09, 2018 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by sassaqua:
I'm quite interested in this! And we have some case studies here (see below)

I'm about to get hot with someone. We are currently scheduling things. We both have Saturn in our 5th house, so, I am figuring he feels as comfortable as I do about excel spreadsheeting the arrangement. Lol.

So, I am looking too at his 8th house and will be watching very carefully. So far, he's been super aggressive in pursuit: Aries on 5th house cusp (with Saturn in there in Aries). But, he does have Cancer on his 8H cusp and it will be very interesting. He's a Sag sun.

Can you make any comparisons to this guy's 5th house behaviours? I have Venus in Cap, and Cap rising. My Venus is in mutual reception to Saturn in my 5th house.. I get that vibe from your guy with Cap on the 8th cusp. It makes sense to me.

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posted November 09, 2018 11:00 PM            

not sure how that would be on a chart my 5th house is aquarius 8th is taurus

in placidus my pisces jupiter retrograde is also 5th house

ruler of the 8th on the ascendant and thats all highly aspected

posted November 10, 2018 07:32 AM            

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Originally posted by SoulOfABird:
I don’t see myself very adventurous as well. But what do I know I haven’t even had my first kiss yet 😂
Not comfortable showing off my body either

I have Libra on my 8th house cusp and Cancer on my 5th house cusp
Saturn in the 1st house

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it's not really a matter of comfort with your body in other situations it's a matter of just being with something you feel a lot with sometimes

but im the have sex in a bathroom at parties type and your chart is really different than mine

cancer is more emotional, libra is more about marriage

i imagine you would have to be close to someone to go there with them, and that it might be difficult for you somehow

you're mature i imagine in relation to peers or were growing up

also someone could be a solid 5 and it's not a big deal so there's that too

sex is more about sensation even with the lights on

if you feel at home with someone that's what will matter most to you i think

some people feel like home

though i imagine based on what everyone says you probably would be more the sex at home relationship type

people with cancer conjunctions always have this seriousness to them though when it's right against the sun it seems more inward

trouble truly loosening up, but not necessarily actual discipline just a sort of rigid shadow of it

first house is more how people see you, physical appearance and so on

too bad i'll probably never know if i'm right for sure

dont have much to go on either past my chart and this

it'd be interesting if i was though

in my case taurus is indulgent, and aquarius usually indicates things outside of social norms also venus on the ascendant sextile uranus and other ****

i think the only thing anyone would find noteworthy in my chart thats in aquarius is eros

i have a capricorn mars but it doesnt seem to affect me in a way where i necessarily see sex as a big deal and i know the people im with find me attractive physically so i dont care about lights or anything