posted November 11, 2018 08:32 AM            

You will of course do what you want. it can be rewarding after all but Saturn rewards come late. So first it will be many years of Saturnian work.

posted November 11, 2018 10:53 AM            

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Originally posted by crystal_clear:
I advise you to run right now.

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Oh wow, really? I would find this quite irresistible, at least for the first person (inner wheel)

Sun conj vertex in 8th house
Moon in 4th house double whammy !!
Moon conj Lilith
Asc conj Eros (i know that one, this is hot!)
Mars and Jupiter opp Venus/Mars conj (a lot of sex)
Asc’s in a harmonious sextile. (you do complete each other, since you both need the other one’s element. In your case earth and water)
Sun and Moon mutually aspected.
Pluto harmoniously aspecting Moon
Pluto harmoniously aspecting Venus

Last but not least and the first thing I noticed:
Venus and Mercury conj NN !!

And the 1st person’s sun, though conj Saturn, falls in the 2nd person’s 5th house.

There is a magnetic, sexual draw between you. Mutually felt! (if you are each other’s type)
Since Person A has Scorpio Asc, they will immensely enjoy the sexual and transformative side to this union!
The Moon in 4th DW makes this a very emotional connection. You will deeply feel each other’s presence.
The NN conj from Venus makes this a fateful encounter, too. I don’t think you’ll be able to pass on this one..

BUT

The 1st person will be more involved in the long run, due to their Venus aspecting the other’s NN. These things never last, in my opinion, since it’s not a balanced union. In my experience the planet person feels very drawn to the other one, whereas the NN person at some point retreats. It’s because the NN is unknown territory.. it will always feel enticing and repulsive.

Also those with Scorpio Asc are more willing to immerse themselves in an intense relationship, whereas someone with Virgo Asc is rooted more in their head. It’ll take more time for them, to open up to uncharted territory. They’ll also be less willing to let down their defenses.

Scorpio will be obsessed fast, since their 8th house is also activated, whereas Virgo will see this a bit lighter. Since their Saturn conj the other one’s Sun, and their Uranus the other one’s Moon, they’ll at times have a ristrictive and depressing effect on Scorpio’s energy, and an unsettling effect on their emotions. Scorpio will feel miserable quite often.. But since I’m a Scorpio Asc too, I know we will enjoy the pain. We’re capable to take on a lot, when we think it’s worth it!

Good thing is, somehow you both need the other one’s elemental energy. Scorpio needs a partner, who is down to earth and more pragmatic.. whereas Virgo (with Pisces Dsc) needs someone other worldly, someone who makes them dream and feel more connected to their emotional and spiritual side. You will achieve that quite well, through your sexual union.

I can imagine this to be a very significant encounter for both of you! It will transform you both, no matter how and when it ends. I would give it a go, and see where it leads..

Would like to see your composite btw. This might say more!!👌

Ps: I’m no expert, just my 2 cents.

posted November 11, 2018 04:19 PM            

Nevertheless there are some beautiful and strong points.. A Libra Asc and Venus in 1st house is a sign of a love partnership.. you two probably look great together. Sun on the Dsc makes you both partnership oriented as well as the vertex in 7th house.

Mars in 8th house speaks either for intense lovemaking or -if the energy cannot be channeled effectively- for quarrels over money and shared possessions. The opposition from Pluto 2nd house speaks for differing values. The sexual energy is strong, but not without conflict. You would fight a lot about money and values.

The moon in 4th house is a beautiful placement and speaks for strong emotional involvement. You will feel at home with each other.. but the square from that mars/Pluto opposition will directly affect that in a negative way. So whenever issues arise concerning sex/values/money you will feel threatened emotionally.
The only escape route for that, would be open communication (Mercury conj Asc) and the willingness to compromise (Sun conj Dsc)

Neptune and Uranus forming squares to Sun and Mercury show a relationship that’s rather unstable! Deception is a strong probability! So you would have to pay attention to that, and keep your communication channels open and honest.

Saturn is in 5th house but fortunately he doesn’t form harsh aspects to inner planets. The love expression in this relationship will be on the serious side. Not much playfulness or spontaneity. But some people don’t put much emphasis on that, so it’s neither good or bad. Depends on what you both want.

So what’s up with you and that other person? Can you relate to anything I have written? Or am I completely off. If you haven’t formed a relationship yet, the composite will show itself much later.. if at all..btw

posted November 11, 2018 08:56 PM            

But I don't agree with ann_bee's first sentence. I don't think you should ever go into a relationship where it is clear that only one of you is finding the circumstances irresistable or comfortable or whatever. That never works out, you should both be feeling happy and content and fulfilled, not just one of you getting a jerk out of it while the other is miserable. But again, I don't know what is the situation between the two of you in real life so maybe both of you are attracted and find it would be a good chance to take and not just one of you. If that's the case, just trust your intuition at that point to see if the relationship is worth staying in.

posted November 12, 2018 04:05 AM            

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Originally posted by aquasco:
The problem is that I don't know his TOB...

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posted November 12, 2018 04:14 AM            

Where did I write, they should give it a go even if the other person isn’t interested? I was just responding to the first person, who insinuated that there were almost no good aspects and it’s not worth it.
Quote: I advise you to run right now.
That’s a pretty harsh statement, to begin with, and isn’t based on facts, imo.

Of course in the end it always comes down to mutual attraction and favorable life circumstances. But all we have is a chart. So I assume that it’s probably someone they just met or started dating..

But just out of interest (because I’m still learning) why do you think the synastry isn’t good?
I found a lot of aspects that counter this assumption.
In my first comment I made a list of favorable aspects.. even without the TOB of the 2nd person, there’s plenty, imo.

posted November 12, 2018 11:51 AM            

And I think the synastry is just meh, it's average nothing I'd spend too much time thinking about. Most of the positive aspects in it are between that asteroid or the outer planets and then the NN. The rest of the synastry is hard aspects between the planets. The hard planetary aspects might be sparking a flame of attraction between one or both of them, but if that is all there is with nothing positive btw those planets backing it up, there is probably going to be some sort of major disappointment, setback, or lack of feeling secure in this relationship.

posted November 12, 2018 12:21 PM            

Here are the positive aspects I had found in the chart (mind you back then I assumed that both birth times were known!)

Sun conj vertex in 8th house
Moon in 4th house double whammy !!
Moon conj Lilith
Asc conj Eros (i know that one, this is hot!)
Mars and Jupiter opp Venus/Mars conj (a lot of sex)
Asc’s in a harmonious sextile. (you do complete each other, since you both need the other one’s element. In your case earth and water)
Sun and Moon mutually aspected.
Pluto harmoniously aspecting Moon
Pluto harmoniously aspecting Venus

Last but not least and the first thing I noticed:
Venus and Mercury conj NN !!

I find these aspects quite impressive. Nothing in the chart tells me one should avoid this relationship!!
The aspects are also mutually felt. Both partners are involved, it’s not just a one-sided issue.

Or am I missing something?

“I would advice you to run right now” is a statement one might utter (if at all!) when there were lots of Pluto and Saturn squares.. which isn’t the case.

You know I’m just wondering.. maybe you see something I don’t..

posted November 19, 2018 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by aquasco:
How do you think he feels towards me?
I just can't trust him.
I'm 20 and he's 27 years old, when he first texted me after meeting I didn't text back, he kept saying hi when he would see me in the streets even tho I would pretend I didn't notice him and stuff.
I probably was acting a bit immature but I'm kinda scared, last night at a friend's party he came to talk to me about this and he said all the things I wanted to hear...
Like he understands what I'm scared of and things like that, he said everything I was thinking without me having to say a word but when this happens I get even more scared, cause I think he's doing that just to please me or get in my head or something...

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I'd think that's his Pluto to your Mercury. Wouldn't necessarily think he's trying to manipulate you though based on that. He's just tuned in sorta. But to see how he actually likes you his time of birth would be needed. Otherwise it'll be really topical the observation. Some people might like Saturn aspects e.g. and others would be turned off by it. And to know that you need to know his time of birth.

posted November 19, 2018 04:44 PM            

I think that it's valid to experience such a dynamic at some stage in our lives so as to learn.

posted November 19, 2018 08:09 PM            

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Originally posted by aquasco:
I would go for it but him being so much 7 years older really scares me.
I'm not against hurt cause as you said it's part of experiencing but there are different types of hurt.

There's being hurt bc of circumstances, like something not working in the relationship, and there's being hurt by someone cause they want to hurt you. And I don't want someone to "fool me"...

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posted November 19, 2018 10:00 PM            

aquasco .. squares to Moon (without harnesses) are squares to Moon no matter the sign.

Too much red, and in all the wrong places are a recipe for pain and disaster in the long run. It's just too wearing on the spirit.

But, yes, passion too. So, if you get in there, have fun, and get out without being too badly messed up, you'll hopefully have a good time and a good lesson to look back on.

posted November 19, 2018 10:11 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Brenda_S:
[b]@capricorncheriscty
True. However the push is not always from atop of a building you know... That's why the time is really important. Say the moon squares might just force them to talk out stuff properly... It's all relative. And perhaps his Aries moon doesn't mind it at all... And her Capricorn Moon might deem it necessary. Especially with her seventh house ruler conjunct Mercury.

I wouldn't just brush off a synastry chart by seeing not enough colors or vice versa. It's really all dependant on the natals.

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Seventh house and its' ruler's nature are generally the stuff that you seek out or what satisfy you in a marriage partnership.

Your seventh house cusp Taurus... Its' ruler Venus in second house conjunct Mercury... And they're all in Capricorn. Seriousness and stability are strong themes for you... And has to be with some sense of laid-backness is what I'm guessing by this Venus. Think of it in the serene sense... And aggravating the tranquility will probably rub you in the wrong way. And you generally express this all in an external manner, hence communicating that aspect of yours. So someone not satisfying that part of you might leave you wanting. You wanna 'discuss' stuff. And not fight for sure.

Just realized that your second house is ruled by Sagittarius. So although all of the aforementioned is true, this would have the nature of your second house with all these planets in it have a feel rather of that free fall and excitement vs. just routine stuff and all.

(I edited my previous post... About the fifth house)

Now your fifth house is the romance trigger... The quality of that one is rather passionate.

So the moon squares... Yeah from one side it might aggravate the tranquility you're seeking. However those are your inner emotions coming to the forefront. And how many degrees is your Mars from your IC? I believe it's pretty close, that would give your own inner feelings that tense vibe. So might not be very foreign to you. And I'm liking his Pluto aspect to your Mercury here, him being able to get you from a telepathic level almost. As you said too.

Your Saturn I see sits in your fifth... That would add a purposefulness to your way of expressing your romantic nature. All this plays into it.

I get antsy when starting to analyze a chart lol so I'll not go into too much detail. But your nature is an actual nature and not just random connecting dots. I think you're supposed to put yourself in the position of the person when thinking about aspecting planets and how that would feel to you.