posted November 16, 2018 02:25 PM            

My sun conj their sn:

The most harmonious relationship I’ve been in. Getting together was easy and instantaneous (although he was involved with someone else at that time). He wanted me, I reciprocated, he broke his old relationship off immediately, and we got together. It felt so natural. After 3 years it got stale. There was no moving forward. I also had the feeling we were both holding each other back somehow.. I broke it off;he had a hard time getting over it.

My Saturn square their Nodes:

The relationship that followed. Though we also had other Node aspects (my ic on his nn)
We also got together pretty fast, but what followed wasn’t as easy. He was very hot and cold towards me. He put a real strain on my emotions and wellbeing. Lots of immaturity on his part. But I was really stuck on this one and still am. We will become parents soon, although we’re not together anymore. The whole experience took a real toll on me. Karma?

My Saturn conj their SN:

I had it twice, nothing came out of it. I was in love with my best friend in high school who was gay.. The other one was also from school. We had a 5-year fling, but it never materialized into something real.

Sun and Mercury conj their NN:

I had it with my former best friend. We were friends for 7 years.. her Moon was conj my Sn. We had a great bond.. but there were also lots of phase with no contact at all. I feel like my connection to her was deeper than the other way around.

My Venus square their nodes:

An affair. It was hot until it lasted, but it was clear from the beginning that it wouldn’t materialize into anything serious.

My Venus on their NN:

Instant attraction. On both ends, but I noticed him first. We had a fling for 3 months, but it didn’t become anything serious. The only significance this had, was that we both ended our relationships after that, but not for each other. It was just a wake up call.

My friends Venus on their NN:

The best friend I mentioned was in love with a guy for such a long time!! But he wasn’t ready to start anything serious with her. After that he met a girl and got engaged within a few months of dating. It broke her heart.

I had other Node aspects, but I only mentioned the ones you asked for.

From my experience .. when it’s the NN, the planet person feels the initial draw! It’s like they find that other person.. they pick them out from a crowd and are instantly hooked! This is how I’ve experienced it and how it was described to me by people I know.
The NN person gets hooked as well, but becomes reluctant after a while. There’s a constant push and pull. Attraction and uneasiness.

When it’s the SN it’s the other way around. The SN person feels magnetically drawn to the planet. They hook up with the planet and the planet usually can’t say no. Of course the planet person eventually also falls in love and might engage more than the Node person. There’s an obligation somehow. But the first step usually comes from the Node.

When Angles conj the Nodes it can work either way! Because the energy gets equally distributed to both Nodes. I also feel that angle conjunctions seem more potent than planet/Node connections. There’s much more energy involved.

Would interest me how others experienced it though..

posted November 16, 2018 05:31 PM            

That was helpful
What is your opinion/experience if any about Mars and Saturn conjuct NN?

I've experienced their Venus conjuct my NN in 7th H but it was 6 orbs with the only exception being the 3rd guy (3 orbs).
I can't say much about this because I've only had platonic relationships with them. They did think I was special and it was intense attraction almost like love at first sigh and feeling familiar, fated etc.
With the last person his Venus, Mars, Saturn and Neptune are all on my NN (2-4 orbs) although I don't count Neptune because I have it natally. Unfortunately he is too far I'll never learn how all these aspects would feel like.