posted November 18, 2018 09:57 PM            

I'd love any input I can get... I wanna know if I'm just an idiot for thinking that something will come of this.

Although I don't know his timing, I'm pretty sure I've got it given his personality. All just falls into place with this. So viewing it from this perspective I'm pretty certain it won't be off in any way.

Thanks so much. 🙏

I'm on the inside.

posted November 18, 2018 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
I'd say the attraction is mutual given the double Venus-Mars, and you have other compatible personal planets that would make for a solid mental connection. I'm curious as to why you're questioning whether he's into you? Can we see the composite?

His Pisces / Leo / Aries / Aqua combination could be quite wishy-washy and confusing, especially with his Neptune/Venus square. So your Taurus Sun and Cancer placements are probably weary, and with good reason. But I'd say the attraction is definitely mutual, it's just a question if whether both parties are on the same page in terms of commitment, needs and maturity levels, which is why seeing the composite / Davison would help.

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Totally makes sense what you're saying. Add to that the Neptune/Mars double whammy...

Like I feel that it's mutual but nothing is happening from his side. No actions.

posted November 18, 2018 10:49 PM            

I also noticed you have a Mercury-Neptune square in synastry, which I think can lead to miscommunication and disappointment. But one Neptune-Mercury square is not the end of the world.

However, Mars in hard aspect to Pluto is known for its intense sexual attraction yet horrible ego wars. You have much to teach each other but it can easily dissolve into a battle to ‘win,’ especially if one feels personally slighted or disappointed for any reason. Which looks likely considering the Sun/Moon and Sun/Neptune squares.

The Pluto opposition to Venus and in a T-Square to Saturn points to a theme of criticism, resentment, and manipulation. Plus adding Chiron and the nodes to the mix creating a grand cross, looks like an inescapable wound of festering resentment. Inescapable because the grand cross is hard to get out of, once you're in it, but it's known for constant problems that never quite come to a resolution. I've experience that much with a best friend of mine. But maybe since one of the legs is a node and not a planet, it's not as strong and destructive. I'm not sure.

There are some good aspects that indicate a deep connection, like Moon trine Saturn and Mercury trine Pluto, but seeing as there are so many hard aspects i the composite, they may only be representative of a ‘flowing’ energy that ‘pours’ into the harder, unhealthier aspects. Like the ability to delve deep into each others’ psyches (Mercury trine Pluto) can lead to the negative tendency to draw excessive criticism and ego destruction out of you. Or the ability to rely on staying with each other (moon trine Saturn) can lead to staying past the point of a healthy connection.

So I’m sensing an overall mutual attraction that is loaded with incompatibilities, which will probably manifest in constant friction and disappointment.

posted November 18, 2018 11:09 PM            

I wonder if say the natal would leverage it somewhat? Say the 'stability' part... We both have Uranus in our own chart and wonder if it would bother either of us?

posted November 22, 2018 10:17 AM            

I do think the synastry shows some good qualities, but the Saturn Venus square in composite can be trouble. And I feel like the composite is a little spread out. To me it is like "almost there, but not quite".

posted November 22, 2018 10:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Brenda_S:
I've probably approached this from all different angles... At this point I'm just curious if I'm the only one that's into him and I'm just being delusional that the feeling is mutual. It's literally driving me insane.

I'd love any input I can get... I wanna know if I'm just an idiot for thinking that something will come of this.

Although I don't know his timing, I'm pretty sure I've got it given his personality. All just falls into place with this. So viewing it from this perspective I'm pretty certain it won't be off in any way.

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I can’t say anything about the synastry, because his TOB is not known. Isn’t there a possibility to ask him?
Other than that, the composite and Davison look rather empty.. besides some supporting aspects from outer planets. The Davison is better.. but the Composite doesn’t show a relationship at all, I’m sorry. But maybe someone else sees more.