posted November 26, 2018 02:52 AM            

He first found me Tinder, on 1st of Oct. We started chatting for a week or so, and found out that our connection was way deeper than a simply physical attraction. I mean, we matched on so many things that I would never that easily find in anyone else on an average.

So we finally met on 6th and 7th of October (on the start of Venus Retrograde). The attraction was over the top. He himself has acknowledged on many occasions everything that I felt about him.

However, after leaving him for 2 days and contacting him on 10th October, he gives me this sudden shock, saying that he is just not ready for any relationship. When he said that, at that point I did not want to chase him or do anything to make him feel that I am desperate. I just politely wished him good luck with everything.But inside my heart, I was devastated.

15th October: He comes back again and matches with me on Tinder. At this point I did not want to ask him anything complicated, so I just said, "Hope you're feeling more at ease now". To which he replied. "Yeah, I am just taking my time".

Today it is 26th November. So pretty much I have been giving him the space to reach out to me on his own, even though my patience is wearing out. I was hoping if I can get some insights into our relationship and tell me if there is any hope.

Synastry Chart: His chart is blue

Composite Chart:

Davison Chart:

posted November 28, 2018 03:55 PM            

looking at the composite,eros is square to psyche. with psyche conjunct to jupiter.
this aspect gives a very romantic and idealistic feeling of love, often one feels almost like thhis is a "first love". inaddition the north node is no the descendant. this usually gives avery striong mental connection. it can give a feeling of reading each others minds and knowing what they may say. so this can make yoy feel like a soulkmate and with juiter connjunct o psychie there can be feelings of commitment .

but thedifficult aspects are moon opposed to pluto and square to pluto. this aspect ,unfortunately is often associated with sexual prealtionships that aren't really emotionally sincere . the moon/venus square gives the feeling ofg love and attrrction but the pluto opposition shows a more selfish sexual interest.

the transiting npde was moving thru the psyche/eros square sept and oct. this would show the intial idealistic emotional feelings you had for each other. but eros/psyche aspects can be very transient.

it seems that his behavior is because theatraction to the physcical aspects of the relationship... but pluto makes it unlikely that he is really interested in a serious relatiohship.

it does seem he will not want anything except an affair.so even though there were feelingsof commitment at one point, i don't think there is afuiture for a serious relationship here.

todd