posted November 26, 2018 06:33 PM            

So please be gentle lol.

We have been dating for about two months now and I like him a lot. My only concerns are that he seems slightly controlling. I think we also have some cultural differences (he's Indian).

There was a real karmic feeling for me when I met him. I felt like we had always known each other. I am very intuitive and I have been seeing him coming into my life for quite a few years. Both birth times are correct.

Synastry:

Composite:

Davison:

posted November 27, 2018 07:44 PM            

I don’t like how his Venus is only sextile your Uranus and in a super wide trine at 9 degrees to your venus. That’s tough.... he’s a guy so his Venus is really important. You want it to be making lots of aspects to your planets.
His 7th ruler is mars though and that’s nicely aspected, so that’s good. Also his 5th ruler Uranus is conjunct mercury, your a Gemini rising and your chart ruler is also in a mercury sign in Virgo plus your a Virgo sun conjunct mercury. This is all a strong symbolism match 👍
Uranus his 5th ruler is also in a t-square with your sun/mercury and Jupiter so it’s part of a pattern configuration which is powerful as well, as the apex nonetheless too. This is great.
His DSC ruler is conjunct the moon, your ASC ruler is in the 4th, and his mars is in the 5th, your chart ruler mercury is conjunct the sun. Another good symbolism match
You match his 7th and 5th pretty well, so that helps to make up for the lack of Venus at least. But his 7th ruler is also ruled by that Venus. So I worry about his sexual attraction level towards you. With the 7th and 5th involved we know he likes you romantically, but idk about sexually. Hopefully his mars aspects help 👍

I like your moon/Venus/Pluto conjunct his Pluto and in his first as well. This is going to be intense for him. You already have Pluto conjunct those planets natally but this is new energy for him.
Your 7th ruler Jupiter is in Pisces in the 10th which match his Pisces planets and his cap sun. Your mars as well matches his sun in Capricorn. Your Uranus is also conjunct your DSC and his ASC ruler Venus is in Aqua, plus your Neptune there as well matching his Pisces planets again. His mercury, sun,Uranus and Neptune is also activating your 7th. So really strong 7th house going on for you. You would like something long-term and committed with him.
Your 5th ruler is mercury and a part of that t-square I mentioned earlier, so it’s being stimulated 👍
You also have libra intercepted in your 5th and the ruler is nicely aspected with all those tribes and he has a libra ASC 😊
Your 8th ruler is quite lonely as well though hmmm. It’s your Saturn in sag in the 6th...

I feel like you two really like each other as people and get along well, there’s a nice harmony between you two, and there is romantic attraction but there is probably a lack of sexual/physical attraction? How’s your sex life together? (If you don’t mind me asking I see your private Scorpio moon there haha)

Now the composite....
I like the 4th/5th house placements. The sun/mercury/Pluto stellium is in the 4th which is intimate, cozy and bonded and private. But it’s squared by mars! Ouch.
This is going to show conflict, bickering, tension, arguments and a certain competition or irrational between you. Maybe not right away, but it’s a dynamic very prone to manifesting if you’re not careful. Especially the mars square Pluto, this is actually a red flag in synasty and composites as it can show powerstruggles and the potential for very explosive or even violent arguments or conflicts. Typical in abusive relationships, whether verbally, mentally, or emotionally not just physically. So keep this in mind if you start noticing any unhealthy dynamics, not trying to scare you but it’s better to be aware.

Venus/Neptune/moon conjunction in the 5th is very dreamy and romantic. But can you that you especially as the moon (woman in the relationship) are seeing this relationship thru rose coloured glasses. There can be a lot of fantasy, idealization and projecting/illusions going on. Make sure you’re seeing him and the relationship clearly moon is sextile the Scorpio stellium which is really nice as well, this shows the emotional understanding and emotional compatibility shown in the synastry again and is just reinforcing it.

But honestly, having sun the ASC ruler square mars tight degree, mars conjunct the DSC and Pluto also widely squaring the ASC/DSC axis... I don’t think this is the “one” or going to be long-term meaning more than 2-3 years (that’s when most relationships end of break up after the initial infatuation phase).
So I would say just take it slow and see where it goes

posted November 27, 2018 07:57 PM            

Actually to be honest we have been having tons of sex because his sex drive is really high. It's a little more than I am used to or would choose, but so far I've been ok with it. I could see it being part of the conflict you're seeing in the composite though.

He says that he finds me very attractive, so maybe it's all the contacts with his Mars. I'm not sure how his venus hitting my MC would affect him. Would that help with the lack of venus contacts on his side?

I'm hoping the mars square pluto in the composite won't be too problematic since it's kind of a wide square. But I will try to stay aware in case things turn bad with him.

posted November 29, 2018 10:32 AM            

He's going to ask him mom for his exact birth time and then I'll post the correct time.

posted December 02, 2018 12:05 PM            

In synastry now we have double whammy seventh house overlays.

We also have the sun in sixth conjunct the descendant and conjunct the south node, so that has to be significant. I'm concerned about saturn in the seventh house though, I'm not sure if that's bad or not.

Synastry:

Composite:

posted December 05, 2018 12:32 PM            

I could see you ending up with a divorced man with a different cultural background than you and you could meet him in a corporate environment/he could be your boss.

posted December 05, 2018 03:55 PM            

It probably helps that in declinations his Venus is parallel my Venus.

posted December 05, 2018 05:01 PM            

You both are fairly watery, though he's got a touch more fire in him. I kind of like the synastry actually. What I do see in the composite is that Mars is square the Sun, and square the ASC. But this could be worked with. Composite Saturn is not really doing too much. But I like the Sun moon and even venus is semi-square the sun in composite. But with you both having Cap planets, I think you would want more Saturn. And his natal Saturn looks like it is unaspected....