posted November 29, 2018 03:35 PM
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Originally posted by existential:
Hi Todd!
Thank you so much. My friend (the guy) is here to reply. His feedback below.Hey Todd. Wow - this is very accurate. I am going to do my best to just give you facts.
In terms of possible commitment, I would very much like to marry her. Now this is what's intense. We only met for the first Time on Monday 26th Nov in China. And at the end of the date she said she wants to be in a relationship.
She works in education I am in business.
There is great social power/wealth.
When I first met her that day I felt tremendous energy (it is hard to explain this). I suddenly got messages on my phone for business opportunities. Felt like living a luxirious life with her. Also felt like she should accompany to meeting various important businessmen.
I certainly, for myself, feel she could be the one. Though I appreciate i am probably feeling passion right now. I felt excellent with her.
We laugh a lot too.
In terms of the pluto intensity. The girl (1994 born) is extremely nervous around me. I on the other hand feel tremendous confidence/sexual prowess.
lastly you wrote:
"the south node transitted thru the sarun/juptser/node stellium in late oct and into novemebr. so thhis time period really defines the relationship.
if you nad he are dstined, then plans should at least include marriage or a serious commimnet.
but if he is not sincere or interested in a serious relationship, then it is liley that he would have backed off from the relationship in the oct/nove period.
it is very difficult to anticipate pluto's influnece. but at least the past month will give you a accurate idea about his long term interest. "
We met on just this Monday and it went well. On the next day we met again and spent the whole day together. I tried to hold her hand to engage in some light intimacy but she was nervous and backed away.
I also kissed on the cheek at the end of the date which is tough.
Also throughout this state i spoke to her about relationship goals/marriage goals.
I can only speculate that she may have been overwhelmed or want to go slow.
Subsequently on the Wednesday our communication has been very brief without proper engagement.
I am wondering if in your opinion there is opportunity to have a relationship with her, or maybe let this one go?
I am not the type to try and pursue a girl if i don't feel adequate effort on her part. in this case I appreciate i might have scared her a little.
If it is a case of easy reconcilment I would take it up however.
I am wondering if in your opinion there is opportunity to have a relationship with her, or maybe let this one go?
as i mentioned the vibration for acknowledging a serious relationship potential was in late oct and into november.
so the aspects that would symbolize marriage or a serous relationship are quickly waning........Saturn is opposed to chiron also so with the. the south node was conjunct to Saturn i the middle of November and the north node will be conjunct chiron in late December. so her becoming withdrawn is not necessarily a bad omen because the nature of a Saturn/chiron opposition can be distant and cold.
it is interesting that Saturn forms a pivot point between the affectionate and emotive aspects of the composite and the with distant and controlling aspects of Saturn.
as mentioned her being "aloof" isa not out of character for the compsoite. so i suggest following her lead, that is do not be projective. be reserved and wait for her response.
with pluto opposed to the moon,she may have issues that make it difficult to trust her emotions or to trust men in general. venus opposed to pluto can show very sexual and emotional devoid encounters. so she may be leery of you forthright presentation of your feelings.
be supportive but again not projectile. i would think that if she decides to go forward with you, it will be around a bit after Christmas when she reacts.
as i mentioned pluto can be hard to anticipate because it can manifest in extreme opposite manners.
but i suggest you totally cease with the emotional intensity as this could be setting off her issues.i would suggest acting stoic toward her, that is let her reach out.
i don't know the nature of your conversions til now , but try to get her to reveal herself... her feeling etc and you should do the same.....share any emotional issues or insecurities you might have with her.
Saturn opposed to chiron can show that you are too rigid and too demanding even with the loving and joyous stellium.
so just do push anything and wait for her to respond.
and of course be totally consistent.
i think it is a unfavorable that time is moving away from the strong marriage /relationship vibrations. but you have made your point. it is up to her to look into her heart to see if she believes you.
existential..
the hour fault really doesn't matter that much because i have not used the angles and the moon change of position is relatively small and would not change much
todd