posted December 05, 2018 12:48 PM            

I don't know how it's possible but I have never had this sort of connection with anybody

not even with one guy I considered my soulmate (I no longer look for soul mate or twin flame love)

lately I keep coming across claims that say sex should be meaningful and with a "soul" connection

I surely cared about everybody I ever slept with, and they did for me, so it wasn't only the selfish/physical love, but during sex, nothing "soul"-y (or extraordinarily emotional) has ever happened to me!

Is there really something to these claims?

Have I been missing something during my 27 years of life so far?!

If yes, then please share your transforming and profound soul experiences during sex, and possible synastry/composite aspects you think could reflect this kind of experience

posted December 05, 2018 01:21 PM            

ive had sex with people without any feeling, with feelings but not that deep connection, and then there's my fiancee...

with her, i can deeply feel her during sex, i feel like there's no barrier between us whatsoever and like i can feel her past our skin

sex with her can give me the same sort of high a drug can, there's something deeper and different, and it's not one sided

we were actually talking about this yesterday, and shes said the same thing

we've had plenty of tantric sex at this point, which can help with that, but even without it her and i just have always felt each other like that

if you havent, maybe that person just hasnt come along yet, but when they do and you feel what i'm talking about you'll understand that it's not at all like just having sex with someone else

posted December 05, 2018 01:45 PM            

I hope I can meet that person for me soon

can you post your synastry/composite with fiancee?

posted December 05, 2018 01:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

with her, i can deeply feel her during sex, i feel like there's no barrier between us whatsoever and like i can feel her past our skin

sex with her can give me the same sort of high a drug can, there's something deeper and different, and it's not one sided

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I never took any drugs but I suppose it can be like that when you are in love

do you get visions during sex with her?

posted December 05, 2018 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
wow that sounds wonderful!

I hope I can meet that person for me soon

can you post your synastry/composite with fiancee?

I'm particularly interested in neptune, chiron and vertex

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i only post synastry not composite, idk why that feels too personal but it does for some reason

that being said do you have a tropical or sidereal preference? whole sign or placidus?

posted December 05, 2018 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:

I never took any drugs but I suppose it can be like that when you are in love

do you get visions during sex with her?

have you transformed spiritually after sleeping together?

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it definitely helps though it's also just energy and connection too

we've both had third eye experiences during sex, and actually the first time hers was opened was during sex which was interesting

when her and i first met we were immediately able to finish each other's sentences and there was an instant feeling that we've known each other forever (lot of more esoteric occult related experiences confirm that it hasnt just been this life, if you believe in that sort of thing)

we've had shared dreams, we answer each other's questions sometimes without the other one asking anything, i can feel when she's upset and vice versa even sometimes if we're apart i'll get a feeling and when she comes home from work and i ask it'll be confirmed

even little things like us separately thinking to buy stuff for dinner as a surprise then coming home and realizing we separately bought the same exact things etc and so on

that's been always

in the past few months though, she's started really practicing the occult with me, and not only have we been able to get amazing results together but it's made that connection even deeper

i've been with her for 14 years and ive known her for 20 (since we were 12, started getting close at 14), lot of ups and downs but that connection just... no matter what it always pulls us back and we can have a really hard time keeping our hands off each other even still

i would say we're still spiritually transforming with each other, and that she helps me reach depths i could never on my own and well she went from hardcore atheist who only accepted science to practicing all this through what we've done together

posted December 05, 2018 09:26 PM            

We also have a mental link...like I would be thinking about something and wondering if I should tell him and he would suddenly say the exact same thing like he could read my mind. Once I sent him a YouTube link which he had just seen like 10mins before I sent it to him and it wasn't a trending video and there was no way I could have known he was watching it. There were other coincidences like fate is turning us here & there. I also realised that our paths have actually crossed many times before we met. It's bizarre why we'd not met till now.

posted December 05, 2018 09:31 PM            

In Synastry we had Mars conjunct Mars
And My Sun conjunct his mercury in my 7H!

posted December 05, 2018 10:11 PM            

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Originally posted by TaurusVenusGirl:
Totally had this once!

In Synastry we had Mars conjunct Mars
And My Sun conjunct his mercury in my 7H!

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Similar... We have Mars trine Mars and Sun trine Mars DW. We also have Neptune conjunct/sextile Moon DW and Neptune trine/opp Venus DW. And we both have Neptune-Moon/Venus in our natals.

posted December 05, 2018 11:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
dumuzi,

post your synastry, if you can

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https://imgur.com/a/hakPi6Y

i prefer whole sign personally, but since more people here seem to prefer placidus i figured i'd just go with that one

i'm the inner circle

edit: meant outer

im on the outside shes the inside

posted December 05, 2018 11:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I'm experiencing it now with my current love. Sex with him feels like a deep emotional connection like we want to consume each other to reach into each other's souls. He has told me I'm his best sex and I said the same, because sex feels much more than sex between us... and until today we can't find the words to describe it.

We also have a mental link...like I would be thinking about something and wondering if I should tell him and he would suddenly say the exact same thing like he could read my mind. Once I sent him a YouTube link which he had just seen like 10mins before I sent it to him and it wasn't a trending video and there was no way I could have known he was watching it. There were other coincidences like fate is turning us here & there. I also realised that our paths have actually crossed many times before we met. It's bizarre why we'd not met till now.

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things happen when they're meant to, at least as far as i've noticed

my fiancee and i actually had a lot of mutual friends growing up before we met who kept telling us we needed to meet because we'd love each other

so i knew who she was before i met her and vice versa just from people always saying we had to meet

kept just sort of missing each other in schools and so on transferring and whatnot for a little while there

it sounds like you know exactly what i mean though, what you two have is the sort of thing i'm talking about, i hope everything goes well for the both of you

posted December 06, 2018 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
https://imgur.com/a/hakPi6Y

i prefer whole sign personally, but since more people here seem to prefer placidus i figured i'd just go with that one

i'm the inner circle

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posted December 06, 2018 01:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
ah, the inner person has in their natal an exact Venus Pluto conjunction in Scorpio tightly trinning Mars in Pisces and sextilling Neptune. This is like ultra sexy and magnetic. In tarot cards, this combination would be the Magician card. I guess the universe didn't want to give too much power to this chart, so there is a drawback in this natal and that's the Moon-Neptune square, this person does not realize their power and does not trust their instincts, they relay on other people to tell them what they feel and where to go.
I hope you can elaborate more on this natal aspect from personal experience.

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i can't because i'm tired and meant to say i'm the outer circle

my fiancee is the inner circle

so i can't give you personal feelings about it

she's definitely sexy and magnetic, there's a line of guys who want me dead pretty much lol

but i mean, she's beautiful and talented so i get it

she can also go through a lot of serious self doubt and she does really have trouble pushing herself and doing things

even something like her going to work is a matter of me actively taking part and making sure that her anxiety isnt too high so she can get ready and get her head together etc

and she loves her job, so it's not that. she's making a lot of progress actually and is networking to work towards having something of her own

it's just that it's hard for her to shake a lot of the ******** that came from her abusive narcissistic mother and so on

she's been getting to a better place over the years though, the more distance between them the better but any time something happens and her family comes back into her life it's like we're back to square one with how she feels about herself and everything

it's been hard to deal with, because even moving away and blocking her mother on social media and not telling her where she works etc hasnt stopped her mother from finding ways to contact her to hurt her

just this past weekend her mother sent her a ****** up message from one of her sister's social media accounts (her sister just died back in june, they were really close, and their mother tried to start a fight with her at the funeral too) because it's almost her birthday and around christmas and this is what her mother does

i ended up spending days telling her it isnt wrong for her to not want to be around someone who wants her to be there to abuse her and that it's ok for her to do what's right and healthy for herself etc

posted December 06, 2018 02:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:

things happen when they're meant to, at least as far as i've noticed

my fiancee and i actually had a lot of mutual friends growing up before we met who kept telling us we needed to meet because we'd love each other

so i knew who she was before i met her and vice versa just from people always saying we had to meet

kept just sort of missing each other in schools and so on transferring and whatnot for a little while there

it sounds like you know exactly what i mean though, what you two have is the sort of thing i'm talking about, i hope everything goes well for the both of you

it's the kind of connection that's deeply valuable

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I know what you mean... there's a season for everything and it happens only when it's meant to happen. We used live in the same area and we'd never met... We used to hang out at the same places and we'd also never met...and we also found out that we travelled to the same countries in the same months! What are the odds?

I feel that we're very connected but I'm not sure if fate will allow us forever after. I hope we will be blessed too, just like you and your fiancee.

posted December 06, 2018 02:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Dumuzi:
https://imgur.com/a/hakPi6Y

i prefer whole sign personally, but since more people here seem to prefer placidus i figured i'd just go with that one

i'm the inner circle

edit: meant outer

im on the outside shes the inside

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posted December 06, 2018 08:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
I know what you mean... there's a season for everything and it happens only when it's meant to happen. We used live in the same area and we'd never met... We used to hang out at the same places and we'd also never met...and we also found out that we travelled to the same countries in the same months! What are the odds?

I feel that we're very connected but I'm not sure if fate will allow us forever after. I hope we will be blessed too, just like you and your fiancee.

EDIT: And I forgot to mention that his name is made up of his and my name (first syllabus) combined. There are just so many coincidences between us.

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whenever i meet someone and there's coincidences or weird things like that i know i've found someone special

sounds like you found who you were supposed to, both of you

with the pisces mars thing, she's terrible with routines but i'm not much better when left to my own devices

i can keep a routine of sorts for her because it helps her, but past that i'm not big on them aside from us always having coffee in bed with our bird in the morning

neither of us like that interfered with though, and it's been years

rest of the day though tends to just be however it's going to be

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Originally posted by Orange:
Yes, Dumuzi
What ****** mother to have. It's good the she has all of your support and love.

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yeah, her mother's a **** , who would completely disagree with you btw

absolutely hates me and has spent years trying to get us to break up

we had her in our lives for a long time even after my fiancee moved in with me when were 19 because her younger siblings were still there, and we on/off took care of them whenever their mother had a bf

but her brother's an adult now and her sister's gone so hopefully the distance can last this time and there's no more **** like what happened recently

posted December 06, 2018 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Dumuzi,
I am also a Virgo Sun and my Venus is also at 17' Libra like yours. Ya know TR Saturn is out to get us. I'm so dreading it. End January and February. You also have Mars at 12 ' Aries and Moon at 17'Aries ...i don't want to sound gloomy, but you will be hit hard by this transit especially in regard to love, women and relationships. Prepare yourself and just kbow this shall pass too. I am not looking forward to this transit in January/February. Venus also represents money , so there could be financial hits too.

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what are you trying to imply?

edit: also no offense but you picked a hell of a time and place to make that announcement at me, and it just seems like unnecessary negativity and dread

it's the holidays, i'm happy for the first time in a while i've been through so much ****

i don't want to think about horrible **** happening and "this too shall pass"? seriously?

you straight up are like "hey that one thing you have in your life that's good something terrible is going to happen in a couple of months it'll pass though" out of nowhere

posted December 06, 2018 10:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Ok, sorry, didn't mean any of it.
It was a general statement about this difficult Saturn transit, you can disregard it. I will delete it, ok

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you can delete it, but it was still said you get me? doesn't make a difference at this point, doesn't get forgotten about

anyway i did a few readings and so on about it, because there's 2 women in my life who fall into my 7th house my fiancee and my mother

looking more like it has to do with my mother based on what i did...

it's whatever at this point, i just see needless negativity as just that

posted December 06, 2018 11:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Dumuzi,
We do talk about upcoming transits a lot here ,There was even a thread with a support group for people with upcoming Sun-Saturn transit that would have happened in one year, when Saturn was expected to enter Saggitarius and all of us mutable Suns were gathering and discussing how to handle the harsh transit, well in advance, sharing stories and giving examples. It is very common in here to talk about upcoming transits, especially the hard ones.
I totally understand your point, thou.
Sorry about it.

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this isn't a thread about upcoming transits, or negative things like that at all

the difference is context, if i was in a thread like that and you said it, cool i get that

off topic "hey bad **** is going to happen regarding women, your relationships, finances, and love" is a bit different

i've been through a lot of **** in my life, if i wanted to dwell on how much more negative **** is bound to come my way i would be in those threads actively speaking about it