posted December 05, 2018 09:41 PM            

My vertex is conj his venus. is the venus person unconscious of his attraction towards me?

im blue, he's red

posted December 06, 2018 12:58 PM            

How does this feel to you? Have you told them how you feel? Perhaps they have some placements which make them too reserved to act on this strong pull toward you if they aren’t sure of your feelings.

posted December 06, 2018 01:05 PM            

More positive aspects there too, blue lines outweighing the red ones, but enough hard aspects to build some friction there. A more experienced person on here will hopefully give you a much more accurate and detailed interpretation though.

posted December 10, 2018 08:27 AM            

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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
I have this with my boyfriend and all I can say is wow. We had an immediate connection and became intimate very early on; which I usually have enough self control to wait and get to know someone, but with him it was like something about him drew me in and I couldn’t resist.
I feel this goes both ways and we are super into eachother, it certainly feels binding and can’t see this particular conjunction ever burning out.

How does this feel to you? Have you told them how you feel? Perhaps they have some placements which make them too reserved to act on this strong pull toward you if they aren’t sure of your feelings.

Lisa

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Hi Lisa,

Thanks for your reply. Yes, i totally feel the instant intensity of the connection and attraction! It's super beautiful, yet soo soo intense. We've been friends for over 15 years, and when we first met many moons ago, there was that instant connection. We talked ALOT back then too. We lost touched for many years, but recently reconnected last April. The connection was still there and we instantly started where we left off....2 months in talking, i confessed that i liked him. Back then, we were strictly friends. He was 15, i was 22 lol....when i told him how I felt Spring, he said he wasn't looking for a relationship. He's still getting over a very dramatic breakup etc.

We still talked, and throughout the months, we gotten closer and he's still playing the 'i don't like you like that' which deeply hurt me and cause a great tension and many fights. I know he loves me too. he has told me he loved me a few times, but is so afraid to fully admit he feels the same way as i do.

that's where we are. he also had confessed he feels the connection as well. it's so confusing to me.

posted December 10, 2018 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by abrightfutureahead:
I’m no expert but I’m liking the moon Conjunct Pluto sitting on reds ascendant. Pretty powerful deep connection if you was to pursue this! Especially as it’s reds moon, I would say he would definitely be feeling a strong emotional bond with you if it was established.

More positive aspects there too, blue lines outweighing the red ones, but enough hard aspects to build some friction there. A more experienced person on here will hopefully give you a much more accurate and detailed interpretation though.

Lisa

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Yea, i feel that as well. so he admitted he feels the connection as well. can you be deeply connected to someone, yet not be attracted to them? i am not sure what i am doing 'wrong'. he's super self sabotaging, and likes it when girls treat him like **** he said. he said i am such a great person, and he doesn't want to hurt me if we get into a relationship. he has deep insecurities and self confidence in himself.

i keep reasuring him i love and care for him, and show it. it's just so exhausting trying to prove my love for someone when they can't even believe it.

posted December 10, 2018 09:37 AM            

I think you should post both your natals here, and then a more experienced member may chip in and let you know what’s going on here; if he just sees you as a friend or if he has some issues going on in his natal that’s holding him back.

If you also post your composite, perhaps @todd could have a look for you, he’s very good and always been right with the composites ive posted.

@sassaqua and @stonemoon may be able to help you with the synastry along aide the natals, they’ve been kind enough to spare their time to read mine over.

I want to say though, from what you’ve said about him, just the comments he’s made to you, I wouldn’t put all your energy into him, and maybe keep yourself open to date other people too, perhaps your coming on a little strong with him and if he sees your not too invested in him it might wake him up, or if he just sees you purely as a friend then at least you’ve put yourself back out there and it won’t be so painful if this isn’t the right man for you.

Your natals will help greatly.